How to Save your Broken Relationship

How to Save your Broken Relationship

Save a relationshipThere is nothing more hurtful than a Broken relationship. When we are in a relationship with a person who plays a vital role in our life, we are kind of use to and dependent to that person but this is life and sometimes because of few insane blunders such valuable relations gets cracked. People do say that once there is bitterness in any relation its impossible to get the same feeling and respect in that relationship but I don’t feel same. Dealing with broken relationships is not that easy and one need to make sure all steps should be taken carefully and all words mean the same.

If you really want to make up a relation then there are ways to bring a spark in that relation again. But before that you must be sure that you need that person back in your life, I guess if you are reading this article then of course you need someone back in your life.

There can be many reasons because of which love ones, friends, siblings depart but if you still have a soft corner for them  then you should for sure try to revive your relationship again.

Tips to Save a broken relationship:

  • Try your best to make up:

It’s tough to get someone in your life who was your strength, who used to be there when you need a shoulder to cry, who had the power to make you smile and who gives all reason to stay happy. But when such people move away from you then you find yourself lost and need lots of positive energy to get back on track of your life. If the reasons are not so bad for a break up of such relations then there is no harm to revive that relation again and for that you must stay positive and try your best to make up with such special person in your life.

  • Forget and Forgive:

If you think that bitterness in your relationship is because of another person then do remember that he/she is a human being and humans do make mistakes. No one is perfect and we all make mistakes in our life. Thus try to forget the past and forgive others, especially if they made the mistake unintentionally. Forgiving someone never mean that you are less than other people, it shows that you are strong and wise enough to forgive someone.

  • Keep ego aside:

This is the worst part of any relationship which always hold you back to bring your love one to you. After moving apart both people think who is going to break the ice because at that time ego is of higher priority than sweetness and unconditional love. If you really value a relationship then why ego is letting it down? If you really want to make up a relation then do keep your ego aside and use your heart to bring those sweet moments again in your life.

  • The conversation always work:

There are a lot of confusions in your relationships once its breakup without clearing those problems, you wont ever get same feeling for each other. Don’t hide anything from each other. If you are scared that it might worst the situation then thinks twice, what the worst would happen? There is already lots of bitterness in your relationship. May be a healthy and unbiased conversation can bring the love back to your relationship, nothing harm in trying.

  • Start afresh:

Once you both are convinced, forget the past, forget the bad moments and just remember how much important you both are for each other. Start your relation afresh and make sure that small problems and conversation don’t ruin your relationship again.

Bonus tip: If you always want to save a relationship, always be transparent before its too late and you start regretting your mistakes. It helps you to bring trust and maintain a long term relationship. If you are going to have an end of relationship conversation with your partner, and you want to fix this, it’s always a good idea to meet the person and talk instead of using phone, SMS or Emails. When you hold your partner’s hand and  talk to them and try to make them understand your points, this might be really helpful to save this ending relation.

I hope this few factors will surely help to make your broken relationship sweet again. If you have more tips then do share with us, it might help others to get their love back.

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  • nobody. January 14, 2014, 4:51 pm

    Me and my partner have been together for more then two years now, he has two kids with two different wives. I have met the daughter once and never again. Her mother wont allow. Never met hes son. I have never met any member of hes family, he always told me I was gonna meet them till now he told me I will never meet them due to his ex wife is very close with them and his parents doesn’t want to let her down by meeting me. I recently found out few lies from him, he has had tell me in the past that he was divorced, now he has told me he lied . Found pics of him and his family and the ex in a marriage party, ive contacted his brother on facebook told him I was his brothers girlfriend he said no one tells him anything. When i have ask him why he lied so bad like this he said it was because of the fear ex would stop him to see his son. I dont know what to do. I feel so frustrated, lost. How could I allowed him to do this to me? He left cos I cant forgive him, I still love him but its hard to trust him as well I feel very hurt by his family dont wanna meet me.

  • love.almost.lost January 21, 2014, 2:42 am

    Hi. I apologise as I don’t have an answer for any1 coz I have a question myself. I’m a hindu girl in love with a muslim boy for the past 5 and a half years. Our relationship has been wonderful well until this past year when our religion difference has become a major issue. He is being pressured by his family that he needs to find a muslim girl because I’m not good enough. The problem is I LOVE HIM so so much. 5 years 2getha isn’t a joke. I just can’t c my life without him. We still together but our relationship isn’t how it used 2be. N I don’t want 2 lose him. But I am scared 2 convert, coz it feels like I’m letting my religion n my family down. Pls help.

  • dustin bowman January 22, 2014, 12:53 pm

    I really messed up in my relationship cause I let my past over ride me with anger I kept a wall up all times I was mean a dick really I did everything wrong I lied I never cheated but I do love her with all my heart n soul I didn’t show that to her n we had a baby I lost my mind n went to jail for bei.g foolish n I didn’t marry her n that’s something.she wanted before we had the baby I’m out now n everything is so messed up n hard its so diffrent between us now she don’t live with me everything I ounce did she is doing now I messed up n turned her into me I lost my best friend n love my partner in crime I miss her n my son so much but I’m so depressed with out them I keep acting the same n not fixing it why is this how do I win her back I know she loves me we have a baby together n she is there for me n we are together if u want to call it that but what do I do I don’t have friends that I want no more I really don’t have a family but her n my son please anyone help me or give me advice ill do anything to show her iv changed n I love her but I keep being stupid there is more to the story then what I put down cause its a lot to say but help me bring her back not push her away

  • alex April 13, 2014, 7:05 am

    my boyfriend broke up with me. he said he’s so tired of me that theres so many chances he gave me to change. btw he dont like my flaws, he said im childish, so insecure, and so jealous. thats his reason. 2days ago after the break up i asked him to call me then he did and i tell him i still love him, i will wait for him then he just said i dont know i dont feel anything anymore to you he said he dont love me anymore. his my first bf, his my first in everything and before i gave my virginity to him he promised me that yes he will never leave me because i said to him that i just want you to be sure that your gonna be my husband because i see my future to you. we’ve been dating for 1year and 2months before he dumped me. and now his just texting me asking if i already had a period because his so scared that maybe im pregnant and after that conversation my last text was delete my number and he didnt contact me anymore, i just said that because im so angry. and now i stalk him he had a flirt now, his old friend. could anyone help me cause i want gim back, i loved him so much. is there any chance?

  • Teja April 21, 2014, 10:31 pm

    Hi frnds my prblm is my gf starts ignoring me even though she was in fb …she turned chatoff and chat wit everyone except me ….it was so paining i dnt no why she was avoiding me i never expect such type of feeling from her….we r in relationship since 8 years …..recently she come to my hometown bt she didn’t giv any information about her trip …she met my friend …..why she was changed really im truley loving her bt she was ignoring me i never treat her badly she was my settled in my heart i can’t. Imagine my life without. Her giv me some suggestn to get my love back

  • Teja April 21, 2014, 10:47 pm

    I can do anything for the sake of her ….i just need her ….sddn changes in my girlfriend behaviour pains me alot really but still i want her nd need her why she was changed bt she didn’t breakup with me bt she was cheating me i can’t. Undrstand that why she was doing dat for me……but still im loveing her madly i can’t. Imagine my life without her it was so paining ….iam spending sleepless nights due to her behaviour i dnt no why she was changed she was ignoring me alot …..even though she was in watsapp she didn’t. Giv reply for my message …so wat can i do to get her back

  • Teja April 21, 2014, 10:51 pm

    She also loves me madly Bt sddnly der is alot of change in her behaviour try to help me guys

    • Ruchi April 22, 2014, 1:20 am

      Hey Teja,
      You need to talk to her. Be clear what you want and calmly ask what she wants.

      • teja April 22, 2014, 7:55 am

        My gf didn’t lift my calls …i always asked her whether der is any need to change in my behaviour….she simply replied ntng …..she recently starts pointing out me for small issues….example i told her abt my backlogs …she was totaly unsatisfied upon me ….if she may lift my cl she answers me like as unknwn …..our love is long distance relationship ….i frequently. Asked her any need to change in my attitude and others bt she simply says nothing im not a fliter ….main problem is dat why sddnly she dnt trust me and lying to me….i also frequently. Asked her did u wanna say anyding for me she didn’t. Giv any rply for dat …if she told her problem i can understood we will definetly solve our problem but she can’t. Doing dat im so sincere in our relatnship i told her bad nd good dings in me why she was sddnly changed

  • Rashmi April 25, 2014, 1:52 pm

    I am in relatnshp n i want to marry him, even he also want bt his parents are not ready to allow intercast marriage. His dad emotinaly blackmailng him that he wil do bad with their health.. So my bf saying to break relation n marry as our parents want…but i am not ready for letting him go, i really love him a lot.. His parents even not meet me n just bcoz of my diff.caste they said no.. Pls help me wht should i do nw? I just want him in my life. Should i go n meet his parents n try to convince them? Or else wht shuld i do nw?? Pls help

  • i am broken April 27, 2014, 5:08 pm

    Hi I am a guy who madly love a girl…we are now almost two years together now. Now when its almost the time when college is getting over and we both know that there is not much time left for us to be together she is leaving me…she doesn’t say it directly bit she avoids me…she gets irritated at every single things she says.I cannot express how much I love her. I told her so many times that how much I love her but now it has become a daily thing for her to neglect me. I feel so low and terrible that the person for whom I used to be the world how all of a sudden..ie from past few months doesn’t care at all…I am so deep in love but she doesn’t understands that I love her more than anybody could ever love her. If I even ask her for once to talk to me she says that she needed privacy…she needs her space. You all know how it is with girls…they have so many friends..she goes out with lots of guys and talk nicely with all of them. I dont really know what to do. I feel very suicidal.I feel that she will never ever love me and I will never ever forget her. please sone one suggest me something…….I decided that as per her wish I won’t call or message her..i won’t bother Herr with my presence but my heart is always heavy. I keep crying for that girl who is crushing my heart every single day. I dono how to support myself. I took up smoking which I know is a very bad habit….I am a dude and I never though I would cry like a chick for a girl but now at this point I myself feel so bad…so hurt. please somebody tell me what to do….how to down a single hour without thinking about her. I dono how to man up and come out of this situation. please somebody helpe ou g

  • maro May 18, 2014, 11:27 am

    Hi i need your advice im in relationship for 5 years and we live for 5 years shes older than me but no question about our age differences we live with my family for 1 year she meet all my family circle and nothing bad comments about her she has 2 children from the past she went back to her country we chat and talk everyday but everytime she saw passing by the camera she thinks that were laughing about her which its not true and one day she get mad at me and she she send me a message through skype saying why everytime we laughing to her and i replied never and again she reply ok its over dont contact anyone forget me this is what she told me and i keep on contacting her no reply at all even i calls no answer also her to childrens they replying on my message but not detailed not like before i think its nearly 1 week to be exact she supposed to come next week here in my country but thats what happened she saifd she never come to me anymore can someone give a clear advice is she still love me and if we can fix again and back to normal.

  • rowdy May 24, 2014, 12:42 pm

    About a year ago I cheated on my fiance I was really messed up on drugs and I made a big mistake. I love my fiance Samantha with all my heart. Now I’m sober I have a job I take care of my beautiful fiance and my beautiful daughter Loretta I love them them both dearly but Samantha still thinks I cheat on her and I don’t it really is hurting our relationship in doing all I can to save our relationship but nothing is working someone please help me!!!

  • Sona July 18, 2014, 2:00 am

    hi ruchi
    im sonia 24 yrs old n living in a relationship from two yrs back with a guy as a husband wife. Our family accepted our relationship becoz that guy unable to marry his divorce case filed in court n still hearing is going on so we had nt marry legally although this is also my second marriage bt im already divorced wid x husband nw we were living happily together almost one year bt after tht his transfer of his job to his native place n live wid his mom nw he is totally change n his behaviour is unbearable. He used to beat me in front of his family even in that time i was six month pregnant. He is elder in his house n have three younger sisters in tht one is married n one younger brother n his dad was expire two yr ago. His sister are well educated n doing job bt save their income becoz their expenses are given by my husband his brother recently leave his job n go for further studies becoz of his mothers wish so whole family expenses are bear on my husband bt he is too innocently bear all this wid happily bt in my turn he change his behave towards me he didnt give me anything n not ready to spend money on me n my daughter he wants tht my father spend money on me he wants always money from my family nw i have baby girl of eleven months n living separate with my parents since six months nw he called me so many times bt i didnt receive nw tell me wht shuld i do shall i go to live with them or live separately with my daughter as a single mother. Have we live happily again together or not???

    • Ruchi July 25, 2014, 5:00 pm

      Hey Sona,
      It’s better to leave alone with your daughter because if you are not happy, you won’t able to keep your little one happy. It sounds harsh but he can’t take you for granted, no matter how many responsibilities he have but such behavior is not accepted.
      Other solution is talk to him to stay away from family, he could still bear their expenses. Tell him that living alone would be better for you both and if he is ready to change his behavior then can give him second chance if you want. But I will still recommend to take any decision, thinking about you and your daughter.
      If you need any help, you can mail us.

  • Okeze Sunday August 9, 2014, 5:12 pm

    Hey Readers, I have a problem with my girlfriend who i love so much, although may did not support our relationships especially friends who claim the lady is a prostitute because she is always free with everybody including men and women who are pretty much higher than me. Our problems started when i start to get jealous and start beating her. She on her part start harassing me with the police. Our last incident also ended up @ the Police station where i was force to sign an undertaken never to come closer to her again. We both ended up just like that. when i notice that i love her so much never to let go. I began to send my friends and its all yield no result. surprisingly we finally got back together again, but she saying that she very scared of what i did to her in the passed and she don’t know whether to trust me again. The greatest gist now is that a guy is chasing her and really need her, and according to what she told me during one of our meetings, she said this very new guy is nice and he has gone to the lenght making contact with her family. Well i don’t really have the resources to fight this guy now because he very rich and he really winning the heart of my lady. Please readers advice me on what to do.


    • iiza November 1, 2014, 12:07 am

      I might be wrong. But i guess you should propose her and meet her family.

  • stranger September 27, 2014, 12:33 am

    I was in a relationship with a guy for almost 3 yrs, which got broken very badly and meanwhile when I just wanted everything to either get sorted out positively or just to come out of that weird relationship, I came in contact wid a wonderful person who was willing to marry me. Actually our parents also wanted the same but I resisted to get marry to him because I was already in a relationship. Now I smhow started talking to him and really enjoyed everything again in my life ,I was Urging for…

  • zinhle September 27, 2014, 2:28 am

    Hy guyz I hv a problem I lv my bf bt he hv another gf and he dnt want to leave her gf I realy lv dis guy with all my heart I want to convince hm hm bt I’m scard wat cn I do I dnt want to loose him.coz if I ask hm he said I dnt want to hurt her oh if he say so he make me crazy help me guy cn I say kiss and good bye to him break up?

  • kirti September 27, 2014, 9:30 pm

    hiiii ruchi ….. u R rEally amazing yar…… i just luv uR advises …..today i saved my best frnd realtionship….bcoz of ur advise
    ThankS alot ….. u r rocking

  • ruchika October 26, 2014, 1:17 am

    I said alie 2 my bf …he trsted me much morebt prhaps i brokn his heart..nw he is angry vth me anytym wht cn do…hw i find my old time

  • iiza October 31, 2014, 1:32 am

    Im passing through a serious stage of my life. I expect serious replies.
    my boyfried started liking me in the 10th grade. He luved me like hell.from dawn to dusk he was texting me. It all strted after the completion of 10 th grade . Now it has been 7 years approx. It started in 2008. Due to our societal restrictions we couldn’t meet a lot of times so we met just 9 to 10 times in all these years . initially we became physically closer like shaking hands, hugs etc but gradually we became more. Putting off shirt n etc . But we still are virgins.
    now in 2014 i am done with my graduation. My parents want me to get married at least in a year or a two. BUT he my bf is not prepared. He has not studied after 12th grade. He is not doing anything for living. His father died on may 28 , 2014. And now he doesn’t texts me by himself. If i text him he talks . Sometimes he is fine sometimes upset. I cannot think of living without him . He said me in july that he will not be able to marry me and i should get prepared for all this. But i told him that he is upset that is why he thinks lik dis. I assured him that i will wait for him and will only marry him . He said” ok lets see what happens im tring my best to do something and earn” . Now after that we strted it normally . We had sexting and chats etc. But gradually now he doesnt texts me first . What should i do. I want him to luv me like the way ge did in the beginning. I want him yo miss me and think of me and getting married to me .
    p.s : i cannot confont him . If i do so he tells me to end the relationship as he is already too upset and burdened in his life. I try to help him emotionally but nothing is working.
    advice plz

  • rrk November 2, 2014, 9:22 am

    I m toataly broken…we wer in gud relationship last 3 year..last year i only made tthe problm ..i left her for unwanted reson…nw i realised my mistake and went back to her..she is teln that she dont want me..she cant b comitted anymore..and bot our family will not support ass we are second cousins…i need her back

  • Danielle November 4, 2014, 6:03 pm

    I’ve been with my fiancé for 5 years. We have a beautiful daughter together. The stress of life was getting to me when I decide to go out drinking. Well I ran into my ex and we just sat and talked for hours, until he kissed me. I immediately freaked out, said how stupid it was to even sit an talk with him an that was that. Well I told my fiancé the following day, and now all trust is lost. I’m not sure what I can possibly do to fix this. I don’t want to tear our family apart, but he won’t even look at me anymore. Please if you have anything to help me, I need it.

  • Anand November 5, 2014, 10:59 am

    Hii guys i hav a very serious prblm i love my gf bt she hav another byfrd…she dnt wanna,to leave her byfrd i really her so mch my doll are so amazing actually we are in a long distance relationship o i m so scared abt my gf i dnt wanna to loose her i really love her so mch i cant live wthout my gf…my lyf are so boring abt her..i cant loose her plzz,when i call her she abuses me etiher said i dnt wanna to talk u i also say srry to my gf bt she dnt acpt me n new byfrd also abuse me …i wanna to she is back in mah lyf plzzz mje accha sa sujjesion do plzzz ruchi ji plzzzzz u r also so amzing i hope that u will undrstnd my prblm

  • Bakshi November 9, 2014, 12:22 am

    Hi frndz I love my g.f lot bt past last 3 monts we are not talk perfectly.. We both are fight on the littel littel things I can’t under stand what can I do to save our realtion… We are past last 2.5year to in realtionship now that time our relation are standing on the breakup bt I don’t want this.. I don’t want to loose her.. Frnds tell me what can I do for her to come back in my life… I love so much her she gets irritated at every single things she says.I cannot express how much I love her. I told her so many times that how much I love her but now it has become a daily thing for her to neglect me… Now she’s say that I need space…now tell me frnd what can I do for her.. I can’t live without her

  • Bakshi November 9, 2014, 12:29 am

    Hi frndz I love my g.f lot bt past last 3 monts we are not talk perfectly.. We both are fight on the littel littel things I can’t under stand what can I do to save our realtion… We are past last 2.5year to in realtionship now that time our relation are standing on the breakup bt I don’t want this.. I don’t want to loose her.. Frnds tell me what can I do for her to come back in my life… I love so much her she gets irritated at every single things she says.I cannot express how much I love her. I told her so many times that how much I love her but now it has become a daily thing for her to neglect me… Now she’s say that I need space…now tell me frnd what can I do for her.. I can’t live without her
    Plzz tell me frnd

  • Ben November 10, 2014, 6:45 am

    Me and my girlfriend have been together for nearly 5 years. Last week she told me that she isn’t happy in our relationship. Having known her for as long as I have I know that she doesn’t really want to break up, she just thinks it’s will make her happy in the short run. I don’t want to break up with her. She hasn’t spoken properly to me all weekend. How do I get her to talk to me so I can tell her that I want us to try and fix the relationship?

  • Dev soni November 28, 2014, 2:11 pm

    Hey I need help. My girlfriend want to breakup with me without any reason she is working in different city and I am in different city I love her a lot how to save my relationship plz help me.

  • Maria December 6, 2014, 12:07 pm

    hi! i had make a mistake that i thought that my bf was cheating on me with my friend but he wasn’t. he was mad because i don’t trust him, maybe and its already a week he didn’t speak to me nor send me a text. i talked and said i was sorry but he refused. What else can i do? should i treat him the way he treat me too? I love this guy very much

  • francisco December 15, 2014, 12:05 pm

    how do i start?
    there you go. after 10 years married to the most amazing woman a man could ever meet, we are separating now, possibly leading to divorce
    i meet her when i was having a relation which was not serious so i leave that girl for her. we date for 3 months or so and we fall seriously in love but she needed to come back to her country as her working visa expired. i promise her i will married her. during the time she was on her country i got involve with my ex girlfriend and she got pregnant but she didnt said anything. 3 months after i married my wife, a letter from the chid support went throught the post and we find out, first betrayal and painful moment for for newly wife.
    we went throught this and start to be happy again, we both together start to progress in our jobs, we both worked for the same company, 6 years on i got promoted and things start being good , a beautiful and amazing wife and a good job, we bought our house.
    but then my old demons start to come out, before i meet my wife i was a lier, cheater and i dont know what else but she brough out the best of me in every single ways, things i never thought i was capable to do like love unconditionally but the old demos start to come out so i was having a lot of pression in my job and i got involve with a girl, i spent all our savings with her, obviously my wife find out, but she forgot me, we were happy again, later on i found some text on her mobile and she was contacting a guy, she told me she wouldnt do it again and i understood and forgot but one week end i needed to go and see my family she meet him, i find out, i was heartbroken but i forgave her cause i did it too and i loved her, and then 2 years later this girl contact me again and same problem, my wife forgave again.
    i thought we were ok and we went through everything and we focus on each other to be happy but i got in trouble at work, i was doing some unofficial arragements with ot and got paid money from that,i didnt told my wife about the money, just the unoficial arragements, i got suspended and i needed to resign. my wife was devastated but i manage to secure a job of the same level 1 month later so we start again to recover and be happy and planning even to go holiday in march/april as the original ones in january were cancelled when i lost the job.
    but when i thought everything was over and start to be happy again, i got a court summons from my old job regarding a fraud charge, my wife and i wereshock as this never was mention, but again we manage to stick together, got a solicitor and explain the problem, i still didnt told my wife about the money, but my solicitor sent a full report by post and she opened a week ago, this was the last thing she could even thought about me, a theft.
    she was devastated, again and she told me she had enough of me, and she didnt love me anymore and we are going to separate. i can stay at home until the court day in january but this is not worry me that much, the thought of losing her is was killing me.
    i am broken, i lost the respect from her and her love.
    i dont have anything else to fight for if shes not with me. i want her to be happy so i will step out of her life but if i work hard and show her i am the man she loves once, will she gimme another chance?

  • azleen December 19, 2014, 3:40 pm

    i love a guy we are in relationship but still he loves some other girl but that girl didnt like him nd it has created bittnerness in our relation ..he is not talking with me i want him back in my life and want my relartion to be in track nd he will not think about that girl ..plllz help me

  • russell December 19, 2014, 7:04 pm

    Hi my wife and i separated 4 months ago after 12 years . we have spoken openly about it since i empowered myself and stopped sobbing to her coming across as needy. i now understand why she broke up with me and that’s because i lost my way ,relied on her to much, and had no real direction in life and am stuck in a job i hate. i told her i realized that separating was probably the best thing for both of us right now , and that i need to get my life on track and discover what i want from life. i know plan to rebuild my life and am exited about it tbh and are becoming more positive and becoming my own person. now for the strange part! about 3 weeks ago i asked her if she wanted to get away for a weekend just as friends because we still are friends and its pretty amicable with our kids and she hasn’t shut me out and said she wants to be friends, she said no we cant you know why. then all of a sudden last week she said she is going away for the weekend with the kids do i want to come? i don’t get it why would she say no before and since we are living apart why does she want me to go with? pls help im confused:( i do want to get back together one day i really do love her and want to start a new chapter with her:(

  • aroma December 21, 2014, 2:10 am

    Hi ruchi.. We hv been for 4yrs relationship Bt now he says he has moved on n do nt feel d same way for me, we had a very healthy relationship. Bt i spoiled it i broke his trust i slept with our mutual friend that friend told him everything. Bt now i realise everything n want my love back at any cost. Please help me he means my world to me.

    • Ruchi January 15, 2015, 7:41 pm

      Hey Aroma,
      If you really love him then you would never thought of cheating on him, I am sorry, It’s your BF decision that he wants you back or not.

  • Josh December 22, 2014, 6:17 am

    Me and my girlfriend we are both heading into year 11 (Senior years) and my girlfriend said that our long distance relationship will become very distant due to school and how well she wants to do.
    We have been together for nearly 9 months.

    She said she doesn t she us working out in the high school part of our lives. But she also said she doesn t know how she loves me because she rushed into our relationship. She said she doesn t know if she loves me as a friend or a boyfriend. She thinks that if we end our relationship, she won t be able to kiss me and do all the things we do. But she is mixed. I just really can not lose her. I need to make sure we keep together. She said we will be okay but it is hard to believe and it is hurting.

    The main reason she said is because of our distance away from each other. I need to know what I can to make sure she truly loves me more than a friend is willing to be with me no matter how hard it gets. What can I do to save us?

  • manas dutta January 6, 2015, 4:02 pm

    my girl wants to leave me.We were in past 4 year relationship.She is saying that since 4 years she was sufferring but i know she love me.I tried everything but she does not want to come back.She is saying its breakup.But i cant.Just cant.Now its 25 days almost.What i wil do to get her back.Plz help meee Ruchi. I want her anyway.anyway.Just need her badly .plz help me

  • SHANTY January 13, 2015, 12:28 pm

    Hey guys i have a prob my best friend is a guy and lately his been dating a new girl every third week….he started dating this girl last week ever sins his bern fighting with me bout everything i tried talkin to him bout my love life and his reply was he doesnt wane talk bout love dovey thing which he never had a prob with at first but thing a day after that he argued with me bout a comment on facebook it was actually bout a typo im lost dnt knw anymore im hurting most of the time because we always had the best friendship ever wht went wrong im lost need advise

  • akash jain January 19, 2015, 5:53 pm

    My girlfriend broke up with me yesterday . we were in a long distance relationship for past 1 year. Things were pretty fine and talked almost daily and nothing wrong. She used to be with her family or friend and couldn’t contact me or take my calls. I used to be angry because of that. Yesterday she told me she doesn’t like this long distance relation and said I’m not happy in this relation.
    I want to get her back, she is someone I truly love. Please help me.

  • oal.R January 24, 2015, 6:19 pm

    I have a problem with my girlfriend and at the moment we are on the age of seperation we have 2 lovely children and I want to save their future parents. We had a lot of porblems in recent years and after losing my good job she started working in the bar and all problems started then. At the present time I am applying for a job as a insurance broker, and I really hope I can turn things around and we can be happy.

  • dawson February 3, 2015, 10:34 am

    Hello Ruchi.

    My significant other and I have been together for almost 3 years we recently moved in together and because of our busy schedules lost passion which led me to (only) talking to other women behind her back which she found out about which turned into thinking I was physically cheating and loss of trust which then led to us putting our hands on each other and emotional abuse caused by alcohol, but I made mistakes and willing to do anything to change and make things correct for good. She doesn’t believe I will change so made me move out of our apartment. She still reaches out to me. It has been a week and she came over to see me became really emotional after I told her I loved her and she stormed out and told me she was too damaged. I texted her today told her I will give her space and I still love her and she responded that I will never understand how broken I made her feel. She seems to have mixed emotions, but I need a outside opinion on how to win her back over and to gain her trust back?

    Thank you…

  • akshay February 5, 2015, 12:53 am

    hie iam akshay me n my gf broked up about a month back evry thing was superb at the 1st time we wer in relation fo 3 years n suddenly she broked up for a minor reason with me again we pached up after 1 month but in dat 1 motnth we hat a lot of bad conversations with each other she gave me bat words me too n after dat still i kept my ego aside n we decided to be back again but nw she says she dosent get same feeling for me ass before but i still love her but not enjoying our relation as before .and is insecure that she will leave me again i studied about our brkup it wass just coz of space n feedom bt now iam giving her freedom n space but still she is treating me like just for my sake the relation is on we decided to mary b4 but now she says i don no what will happen n i love her too much . i dono what to do to get those days back

  • ritika March 13, 2015, 9:08 am


    Plz help me I m going to tell u abt my n my bf relationship all thing was going gud but suddenly I did one kind of mistake in front of my bf he warned me earlier for that kind of mistake once a day but unfortunately I did again n mistake was like I used other guy name in front of him ….n after dat my bf mood was going to be fully off n I tried to mk his mood gud n calm i did every efforts by my side as i cud did for making his mood chill bt was failed coz he continued thought many negative things abt me so his mind was divert n he dozen want to keep any relationship with me :'( … n now I Donn want to loose him coz I really love him


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