How to Save your Broken Relationship

Save a relationshipThere is nothing more hurtful than a Broken relationship. When we are in a relationship with a person who plays a vital role in our life, we are kind of use to and dependent to that person but this is life and sometimes because of few insane blunders such valuable relations gets cracked. People do say that once there is bitterness in any relation its impossible to get the same feeling and respect in that relationship but I don’t feel same. Dealing with broken relationships is not that easy and one need to make sure all steps should be taken carefully and all words mean the same.

If you really want to make up a relation then there are ways to bring a spark in that relation again. But before that you must be sure that you need that person back in your life, I guess if you are reading this article then of course you need someone back in your life.

There can be many reasons because of which love ones, friends, siblings depart but if you still have a soft corner for them  then you should for sure try to revive your relationship again.

Tips to Save a broken relationship:

  • Try your best to make up:

It’s tough to get someone in your life who was your strength, who used to be there when you need a shoulder to cry, who had the power to make you smile and who gives all reason to stay happy. But when such people move away from you then you find yourself lost and need lots of positive energy to get back on track of your life. If the reasons are not so bad for a break up of such relations then there is no harm to revive that relation again and for that you must stay positive and try your best to make up with such special person in your life.

  • Forget and Forgive:

If you think that bitterness in your relationship is because of another person then do remember that he/she is a human being and humans do make mistakes. No one is perfect and we all make mistakes in our life. Thus try to forget the past and forgive others, especially if they made the mistake unintentionally. Forgiving someone never mean that you are less than other people, it shows that you are strong and wise enough to forgive someone.

  • Keep ego aside:

This is the worst part of any relationship which always hold you back to bring your love one to you. After moving apart both people think who is going to break the ice because at that time ego is of higher priority than sweetness and unconditional love. If you really value a relationship then why ego is letting it down? If you really want to make up a relation then do keep your ego aside and use your heart to bring those sweet moments again in your life.

  • The conversation always work:

There are a lot of confusions in your relationships once its breakup without clearing those problems, you wont ever get same feeling for each other. Don’t hide anything from each other. If you are scared that it might worst the situation then thinks twice, what the worst would happen? There is already lots of bitterness in your relationship. May be a healthy and unbiased conversation can bring the love back to your relationship, nothing harm in trying.

  • Start afresh:

Once you both are convinced, forget the past, forget the bad moments and just remember how much important you both are for each other. Start your relation afresh and make sure that small problems and conversation don’t ruin your relationship again.


Bonus tip: If you always want to save a relationship, always be transparent before its too late and you start regretting your mistakes. It helps you to bring trust and maintain a long term relationship. If you are going to have an end of relationship conversation with your partner, and you want to fix this, it’s always a good idea to meet the person and talk instead of using phone, SMS or Emails. When you hold your partner’s hand and  talk to them and try to make them understand your points, this might be really helpful to save this ending relation.

I hope this few factors will surely help to make your broken relationship sweet again. If you have more tips then do share with us, it might help others to get their love back.

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  • nikki February 25, 2015, 5:52 pm

    He was unexpected stuff who came in life unexpectedly wid the message knock knock ! I was in bad mood i replied “say”..he was too much attracted towards me ..i talked like v r not strangers..and i alws talked him about my ex bf..n he supports like dad..afta month my exam was thri stopped using cell phone he called me like an idiot smetym i tlks smetyms dun..bcz i was nt intreasted ..but he made me love. I dunno when i started to talk him wid the right face may b it was july .
    I started to fall for him..n he was making me more fall fo him..but he didn’t wanted to be in relationship bcz of family stuff may be..but still widout thinking of future.we fall in relationship widout meeting..may be..dunno exactly whathappened..we met afta a six month of chatting period bcz n …story is too big .
    But at the end i wanna know he broke up wid the reason that yar u rdoin too much..u r so superstitious.. Don’t behave like child..keep some privacy of relationship.. Don’t put personal pictures..afterall i went delhi to meet him he called me wid his own tickets by air..owe man i dunno he is fake or what but i juz want to know what to do ? How to be a big girl ? How to be a mature ? I wamt him back..n ya i forgot AFta declaring breakup he calls once a day..n asked hows u? N i told tht don’t call me if you don’t have feeling..cometo me when you want me in your life again..2 days no call

    • sagar February 3, 2016, 11:46 pm

      The same such problem I was facing twice of in our relationship but finally she left me.. I feel so bad I dnt know what should I do with her she’s bitch, she ditch me for another boy
      But now I m totally loose my mind soul n heart m totally gone of my life..
      What actually I was liking in her, but she didn’t have.. I was always expect from her true love but her.. Sory I have no words for that fucking girl.. She broke 6 year relationship

  • Swati February 25, 2015, 7:04 pm

    Hello sir,
    i m swati , my breakup with my bf last 2007. he did not get merry with me because his parents was not ready. i get marry someone and he did also. but he was always care me without telling me and call me any time. but i always cut his call. but right now some problem in my parents family so i call him and then he was tell me ki i don’t want anything from u i wanna just true phone a friend with u. i never meet u. he is very nice person he never hurt someone. but i m really confuse what i do. pls help me

    • eshanso drai November 26, 2015, 1:57 pm

      Just go on don’t try to love with the person with whom you got marriage cux urs reputation is also important just get off of that person cux it may bring only tears to urs eyes n sorrow in ur heart…yea if ur husband is not intrested in u dn go with dat but all u need is to be adjasted with any one of both.

  • ritika March 13, 2015, 9:08 am


    Plz help me I m going to tell u abt my n my bf relationship all thing was going gud but suddenly I did one kind of mistake in front of my bf he warned me earlier for that kind of mistake once a day but unfortunately I did again n mistake was like I used other guy name in front of him ….n after dat my bf mood was going to be fully off n I tried to mk his mood gud n calm i did every efforts by my side as i cud did for making his mood chill bt was failed coz he continued thought many negative things abt me so his mind was divert n he dozen want to keep any relationship with me :'( … n now I Donn want to loose him coz I really love him

    • blessing chioma December 26, 2015, 1:59 pm

      all I have to tel you is that you should be carefull in everything you are doing ok

  • GREAT March 19, 2015, 5:56 am

    i have dated my girl for 3 years, she loved me so much but i took it for granted bcos of the friends i kept and the life i lived. i loved her so much, buh i never showed her that i did.. shes a jealous type, she hates seeing oda girls around me, same with me. but i secretly had female friends, she found out, but all i did was to shout at her.. i hurt her so much but never stopped loving her, upto date we are still together. she got back at me when i traveled out, rather she slept with the so called guy.. i forgave her, but she keeps bringing up attitudes and ego. when i finally decided to let her be, she began to call and apologize, i accepted her back bcos i knew i wronged her back then. she keeps telling me that she loves me from the depth of her heart after all the torments i faced in her hands last year. all i want to know, is she genuine? am crazy about this girl, she was, but i dont know for now even when she says she is.. i need an advice please

    • pemaro brian April 1, 2016, 8:41 pm

      am really sory but just know god has all answers. Pray as much as you can with full faith for the situation to change

    • Goldy August 16, 2016, 3:31 am

      I had a similar.problem with my boyfriend we’ve dated for 3 years.I love him so much. And I know he did.but we had misunderstlanding between us. We break up and we make up. He’s cheated on me I also did.I forgave him when he did but he can’t forgive me Wen I have.he tells me Soo much painful things to hurt me.but I never give up on him.and now he tells me He doesn’t love me like he used to.he’s not really into me.please tell me what should I do I’m really heartbroken

  • david akanyika March 25, 2015, 3:25 am

    we both loved each other very much though stayed different towns and what we wanted was to end up together from nowere she changed but when i tried asking nor talking to her she did say all was ok i moved to a town near her n sold an item we both bought and invested in another business i called to come n see but she dint .the relation got cold n time was passing by i got in another relationship though deeply still in love with my love …and at the end we seperated thus still want my first love.i did talk to my friend who told me she too was asking him were she went wrong plz i want ha back because am not compleat without her

  • Natalia March 31, 2015, 3:06 pm

    hi guys
    My boy friend and i had several fight in a week and in the end of all of them he told me we should end this also he insists to be only friends. After each time he changes his mind. I feel so insequre in this relationship i couldn’t take more uncertenty however i still want to be with him. We have decided to think about our future in 2weeks them decide to break up or not.
    I want to keep this relation ship but i am tried of an unstable relationship.
    What is your advice?

  • vernon April 22, 2015, 11:21 am

    Hi guys well I just lost my girlfriend whom she an I love each other so much but then she left me bekos of what I am about to mention
    1)I have a child and I and my baby mama broke up but hen she don’t want to leave u alone because she an I always argue an a don’t need dat in my life.
    2) My gf’s father found out that her daughter is datin a boy who has a child an they a fighting.!!!

    So am askin myself that is there a chance a can get back wth myboo or not???

  • sename May 28, 2015, 7:10 pm

    Hi..I and my boyfriend had issues about a male friend of mine whom had no intentions towards me because I’m in a relationship and he respects that. My boyfriend has been feeling insecure and I had to cut contacts with my friend because I want my relationship to work. The communication is weak. My boyfriend barely calls me,I have been on probation since and it is tiring.I miss him, I miss the way we use to go hours talking without getting tired. Please how can I bring back the love because I don’t wanna loose him

    • tracy Gissendannwr June 20, 2015, 6:30 pm

      really been trying to get my boyfriend X to realize get it to to to mess up and for him to forget about what happened and let’s start over with a fresh relationship please call me at 334 797 5560 so I can tell you more about that problem and see if you can hit me with you

  • Thapelo July 3, 2015, 2:02 am

    Hy guys,,i hv a crus problm in betwin me n mi gf,,is almost 5yrs mi family show her dat dei dnt like her in dis family..mi mother snd sms abt her n she found dat sms read evrything mi mother sad, she always told me dat if icnt solve dis matter she wil leave me, nw she left me n she told me she cnt b in de ralationship wth anymore n nw realise dat painfuly she ws felt for years,,,i dnt knw wat to do nw.

  • caren August 7, 2015, 1:02 am

    my relationship was wicked by two things 1bro to my boyfriend who claimed that we had relationship with him,2)my patents who also claimed that i had to complete my studies at university level/college before getting married and this ideas weakened my can i do to strength en it.plz advise me am suffering since i love that guy!

    • Angela June 23, 2016, 1:35 am

      I also had an issue with my boy friend he doesn’t pick my call, and he told me to give him time. what do i do

  • Mr R August 31, 2015, 12:44 pm

    I am in relationship with my GF since 5yrs… However, since 2 yrs we stayed in different locations.. But everything was going gud. But few months back.. Someone entered our life.. She was attracted to his behaviour. I loved her very much.. I Love her still… I will forever.. I m in a stage that I cannot live without her. Now she realised her mistake.. but the only situation is- I know what happened to her.. and she knows that I know it… and she is thinking that she cheated me… I know that this kind of situations happens in anyones life at any moment… I can understand her feelings that she done it not willingly but by mistake… I really want that Girl in my life.. I just want her to forget that I know the issues and I just want her to continue her life with me, as if nothing happened to her these 3 months… Now she is feeling guilty and not speaking to me… I Love her alot that I am unable to concentrate in anything if she is like that… How can I change her mind… How can I get her back…Plz help me and her…. Im not going to live without her… and Im not going to leave her with this feelings… She wants me to marry any other girl… That I cant do… I love her so much… Plz Help

  • Jackson October 6, 2015, 3:44 am

    guyz i have a problem i was dating this chick…bt we r no more together bt i still love her wth all my soul…bt she z dating another guy wat can i do….

  • Maayo November 29, 2015, 12:48 pm

    After making love with my husband one morning, he insisted on knowing if I climaxed, I thot he wanted to improve and told him no that he has only made me climax once in our 4 yrs together., the sex is good I just don’t climax at least the sex keeps me coming back. My hus band is now disappointed in me for not telling him and in himself, he is now cold to me, no sex since d day I spilled… I thot he was more understanding, maybe I shld hv left it d way it was, how do I revive d sex in my marriage. … How do I get my man back….

  • rayaan November 30, 2015, 11:41 pm

    Hi guys , I just lost my girlfriend whom she an I love each other so much but shadenly by my mistake .I think she ll come to me ,why l.?? she left me .Why? .Bcoz whenever she talk to friend , I feel uncomfortable ,one day i say tO her that do not talk to your friend .now she dont want to rebuild our relation b.,But want her back:'(:'{

  • Shraddha Rokade December 20, 2015, 11:51 am

    Hiii…guyzzz it’s me shraddha I brk my bf trust….wt should i do can he come back in my life..always I lie to him becz I was scared when I’ll tell him abt my past he I’ll leave me……but truthly I love him I can’t live without him…….I have my relsnshp 4 months nd I came so much close to that boy…..

  • tammana reddy January 31, 2016, 1:58 pm

    wnt to clear my douts i m so serious wid a six month relationwid a guy it ws my miskates hving affair wid a guy der ws my ex bf who i hv been contct wid him n i dont he is being contctd wid my man who is been both luv each other but my ex makes contct wid him n make his brain wash n last week v both broke n i m regretin n apolizing my mistake but he is not ready to get me in his lyff n i wnt him i luv him damthrough frm d bottom of my heart n he is not frgiving wat to do plztell

  • melinda newcastle February 5, 2016, 2:11 pm

    hey everyone,
    i m typing this with pain in my heart because of a small mistake just because i hid my past from my boyfriend and someone else came and told him about me i does not love me anymore n does not care also m typing this today and m telling everyone who is going to full in love r is in love pls dont hid ur past to your partner pls tell them everything coz ur some mistake will lose ur true love like i lost my love even now m waiting for him to come but i dont know if he will come or now pls b careful everyone

  • sachin thakur February 7, 2016, 9:57 am

    i love my ex girlfriend our breakup last 31jan 2016 without any reason and now she is commited with someone yesterday she say i like u ….and also loves u ..u cant understand she is from ludhiana and m from himachal give me some tips plzzzzz i love her soooo much

  • sophie February 13, 2016, 2:39 pm

    Hi everyone it was going back 3 years ago when I meet this amazing man he was working at the hopsalt where my nan was as her suger leavel was hight everytime I went to see her he would be lookin at me and then smile at me and not sayin hello one day … It was mother days my mum went to see my nan and my nan had a pic off me james trun around and said she beautful and that he had fullin in love with me I had fullin with him I had fight my family over him I pick him over my friend and family … I love him one day I facebook him and told him about my nan that just past aways I always wanted him but was it unreal or untrue someone please tell me

  • PREET February 27, 2016, 7:37 pm

    i also have breakup with my lover. because his parents does not agree that we r getting married. because of caste. i love him soo much nd i want him back in my life…plz someone hlp me

  • purbi March 5, 2016, 7:26 pm

    u all r right nowadays girls and boys r very bad don”t worry forget dem n start a new relationship……..

    • hally October 13, 2016, 3:57 pm

      my fiance broke up with me because his brother told him not to marry because we are not attending the same church, and now his begging me to come back, that, his stil love me no matter want. Please what should i do?

  • shaedaee hanson April 13, 2016, 3:39 am

    me and my girlfriend been together for almost a year i love her with everything thats in me she means the world to me i know that we have love for one another but where like oil and water we dont mix we have things in common so of course im not talking in that manner but we argue alotttt we its like we can be ok one min and the next were argueing like to strangers i dont wanna give up because i im inlove with her but what should i DO!!!!

  • Ahinful May 14, 2016, 2:36 am

    hi please help me out I love is saying she not interested in the relationship anymore because of some misunderstanding that we had and after I calling her sister to tell I have spent on her so will not leave her for anyone and will take is to where ever I want if she leave me

  • farnk macry May 25, 2016, 4:28 am

    I hope this few factors will surely help to make your broken relationship sweet again. If you have more tips then do share with us, it might help others to get their love back.

  • Humita May 29, 2016, 1:14 am

    Need some one to talk to about my relationship?

  • pinki July 5, 2016, 10:55 pm

    hi there..I have a big problem me and my dated for 9 years and now we have a child since we have a child things weren’t going well coz I was feeling insecure about and I became rude to him and I even say I dnt want him anymore in my life bt that I ddnt mean all my saying and now..he tried to fix things bt I ddnt want time and now it’s my turn I want to fix and all he’s saying he says he moved on with his life I’m not sure whether I must give up or keep on trying

  • raunak July 15, 2016, 3:10 pm

    hello sir,
    my gf is not talking to me cause i do the same things n hurt her again she is not listening to me plzz help me sir what to do i love her soo much but i didm’t anythinh like a game i just wanna see her smile but all wents wrong nothing was my intention to hurt her but then also it happens….plz help me

  • anji July 15, 2016, 11:38 pm

    I love my bf so much more than anything else more than my family more than everyone but I have done a mistake I told him about my past relationship he is ok with it then I promise him that I never kiss my ex bf I lie two three times at tha end I told him that yes hi kiss me once than he start forcing me that tell me trust would you ever slept with anyone I say no but he doesn’t trust me at the end I except it but truth is that I never ever slept with anyone he cut my call and say that ur character less now I am telling him that I never slept with anyone but he is not understanding me he thik that how can he spend his whole life with a character less girl but he is not ready to listen the truth he is saying that a girl who promise me so many times that she never kiss anyone at the end u except it then how should I believe on you that u never ever do sex with him I have no trust on u and u hurt me a lot he is ready to meet me once but I don’t know how to save my relationship he always say thay u except it that u slept with him and now u r saying that u never do that he recorded that call when I except it that yes I slept with my ex bf he is ready to meet me in 20 day to do breakup my relationship is long distance relationship this is my last hope please tell me what to do I love him like a mad I can’t live without you he is my life yes he is my bf but I always want him to be my husband I do fast for him I pray for him I do everything for him I leave my family for him and he is think that I am character less I don’t know what to do but that’s true that he is my life and I have nothing except him I just want to spend my whole life with him please help me please I really need help :'( he ever doesn’t care about me he sad that if u want to die die I don’t care about you just go to hell I know he love me so much in past he can die for me but I break his trust and now he doesn’t even want to see my face :'(

    • SoAbie October 5, 2016, 5:05 am

      than he is right as what he understood yu said i accept that i slept ve my ex now how he trust yu gain?

    • SoAbie October 5, 2016, 5:18 am

      if yu once break anyone’s trust i can not revive again. and yu said i lied and than i admit that yeah i slept. now how he trust you? now it’s only one way tell him all what yu did worst and assure him that yu will never do any kind of worst now yu aw sincere with him. mistaken aw made by human being and yu aw also human forgive me ND GIVE ME JUS ONE CHANCE. may be something happen.

  • jr October 14, 2016, 12:03 pm

    My bf and I have been dating for like 3 years. The first time we dated we broke up after a month or so Bc we couldn’t see each other. Like half a year later we both tried moving on but we always ended up talking to each other. Then after a while we kind of realized that we never got back together so we really tried moving on. I would try talking to some other guy but when I was getting a bit more serious I would go back to him kind of just to make sure we weren’t going to get together anymore Bc I didn’t want to make the mistake of moving on when maybe he still wanted to try again. He was always very rude and made it more than clear that he didn’t want me. Later on I stopped talking to the other guy Bc It just didn’t work out and well we started talking again. Then this one time I found out that he was cheating on me (I say cheated Bc even though we weren’t going out anymore he would still treat me like his gf,like before we broke up). I was so hurt but I still loved him so when a while later when he wanted to make it official again I said yes. Time passes and we’ve been happy together, we both matured so things are better. The only problem is that the girl he cheated on me with is in school with us. She has almost every class with him and I thought I was over what happened between them back then but I’m not. She used to always talk crap about me and my bf would defend her Bc they were close friends before they had a thing. But when he realized how she truly was he didn’t talk to her anymore. So after that I realized I wasn’t over what they had back then Bc today they sat together and she takeout touching him and it bothered me so much. I really don’t know what to do anymore Bc every time she’s near him we start arguing about everything that happened back then and it seems like we’re not moving forward anymore.. pls help me


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