We all are so much busy with our work that we forgot to get in touch with friends. We all got so practical in life that we don’t care much about friends and relations and we mostly talk to people who are our colleagues or business partners. There is only one life why not live it to fullest joy? Your friends and relatives are one with whom you can live your life and you must make those relationship alive. Here are few tips to make your relationship better. Just to make you smile, here is a nice friendship algorithm from my favourite Sheldon Cooper from the big bang theory:
People who are introvert, usually find it hard to communicate with others, they usually start a relationship very happily, but they find it hard to continue. Few of my introvert friends told me about this problem, and they mentioned they always wanted other people to connect with them, and they don’t want to take initiative. They don’t realize, how much fun they are missing by being a loner, and with time your relationship with your friends and family will die.
How to Improve your relationship with Friends and family:
1. Make proper use of phone:
If you remember, you might have fight with your parents for purchasing a mobile phone to talk to your friends. You used to keep on talking whole day and many times in night. But now you find it difficult to get time for them. You need to decide that you should at least call your friends once in a week. This is the best way to be in touch with them.
If you are not the kind of person who like making calls, take advantage of technology. Use Whatsapp, BBM, Facebook messenger, but stay in touch. Tell them you miss spending time with them, ask them to go out with you for shopping, movie or for dinner. The idea is to stay in touch, with them. Do remember, out of sight is out of mind.
2. Emails:
You spent maximum time online. You chat with your colleague, business partners and spent time in surfing internet. Take out some time for your friends and send them Email or chat with them, know what is going in their life and cherish the moments you people spent together.
3. Small talk:
You might have hundreds of excuse for not talking to your friends it might be lack of time or you want to be alone on weekend, but it is not necessary that you should talk to your friends for hours. A single “Hello” and few minutes for your friends can help you to get rid of your work pressure and you can also keep in touch with your friends.
4. Help them when they need you:
A famous phrase: A friend in need is a friend indeed. How many of you apply this in your life? If your friend is in trouble, make a move and help me out in his/her problem. Even if you talk to your friends in their hard times for few minutes, they will feel good and this will surely make your friendship strong.
5. Unconditional friendship:
You must talk to your friends to enjoy the moments you spent together, not for some work. It must be an unconditional relationship. Once you develop this feeling, you will feel refresh whenever you talk to your friends after hard work. Friendship should always be unconditional.
Friends are most important part of your life, to share, to enjoy and to live life with. Your tensions and daily routine can be spiced up if you be in touch with friends.
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I completed my BE degree 6 months back, badly missing my college friends 🙁
Try to use these tips and get in touch again with them :).
My girl jst wak up 1 day n told me she is tired wit d relatnshp dat she dnt hav any felin 4 me evn wen i touch him. Pls wat shud i do becus am very very inluv wit her.
Hey Peter,
Good thing you are in love with her thus you would try your best to make her happy.
Your comment is not sufficient to give you a proper advice cause I dont know what problem she is having with you.. like u guys argue, lack of communication, compatibility etc.
About the touch feeling… you need to spark up your relationship. Give surprises, try new ways to pamper her,cuddle her, make her feel special while getting intimate. Good girls don’t get into relationship for fun… they mean it and they get intimate with someone only if they love them.
So, revive your relationship both physically and mentally.
That are some great tips, it make realized of their importance and definatly i am to call all my friends.
Hi,
I used to have a friend I got into a problem with. She uttered something behind my back and I retaliated by saying something nasty about them (her & her sister) loudly & I think they overheard. They were our good family friend. Now they don’t come over or call & they told their family friends not to talk to me and it spread. I miss all the fun we had together before & I wish I handled it differently and didn’t say such thing and kept my anger in control. It was a degrading word I said they are __________. I wish I was friend with them again. They are really fun. I called & explained & tried to fix it but I don’t know it’s still bad & not working. What can I do and I am not going to make the same mistake again to anyone. I told my parent & she wasn’t happy with me. Thanks.
Hey Effa,
You did a mistake and you realize it. Good for you. Others are hurt, so give them some time. Do apologize for your mistake and let them know you learnt from your mistake. Make sure they are in good mood when you say them how important they are for you so that they can understand you with board mind.Best luck.
Confused about my relationship wit my girlfrnd. We av been together 6 months nw & discussin sexual issues she gets wet & blames me 4 it. It has led on serveral occasions 2 we almost breakin up. She is my first love & i realy love her. How do i get over it?
I feel relief after reading this passage.
she knew i cheated her bt she did as if nothing hapened,dnt know wat z on her mind