We all are so much busy with our work that we forgot to get in touch with friends. We all got so practical in life that we don’t care much about friends and relations and we mostly talk to people who are our colleagues or business partners. There is only one life why not live it to fullest joy? Your friends and relatives are one with whom you can live your life and you must make those relationship alive. Here are few tips to make your relationship better. Just to make you smile, here is a nice friendship algorithm from my favourite Sheldon Cooper from the big bang theory:
People who are introvert, usually find it hard to communicate with others, they usually start a relationship very happily, but they find it hard to continue. Few of my introvert friends told me about this problem, and they mentioned they always wanted other people to connect with them, and they don’t want to take initiative. They don’t realize, how much fun they are missing by being a loner, and with time your relationship with your friends and family will die.
How to Improve your relationship with Friends and family:
1. Make proper use of phone:
If you remember, you might have fight with your parents for purchasing a mobile phone to talk to your friends. You used to keep on talking whole day and many times in night. But now you find it difficult to get time for them. You need to decide that you should at least call your friends once in a week. This is the best way to be in touch with them.
If you are not the kind of person who like making calls, take advantage of technology. Use Whatsapp, BBM, Facebook messenger, but stay in touch. Tell them you miss spending time with them, ask them to go out with you for shopping, movie or for dinner. The idea is to stay in touch, with them. Do remember, out of sight is out of mind.
You spent maximum time online. You chat with your colleague, business partners and spent time in surfing internet. Take out some time for your friends and send them Email or chat with them, know what is going in their life and cherish the moments you people spent together.
3. Small talk:
You might have hundreds of excuse for not talking to your friends it might be lack of time or you want to be alone on weekend, but it is not necessary that you should talk to your friends for hours. A single “Hello” and few minutes for your friends can help you to get rid of your work pressure and you can also keep in touch with your friends.
4. Help them when they need you:
A famous phrase: A friend in need is a friend indeed. How many of you apply this in your life? If your friend is in trouble, make a move and help me out in his/her problem. Even if you talk to your friends in their hard times for few minutes, they will feel good and this will surely make your friendship strong.
5. Unconditional friendship:
You must talk to your friends to enjoy the moments you spent together, not for some work. It must be an unconditional relationship. Once you develop this feeling, you will feel refresh whenever you talk to your friends after hard work. Friendship should always be unconditional.
Friends are most important part of your life, to share, to enjoy and to live life with. Your tensions and daily routine can be spiced up if you be in touch with friends.