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How to Express your Love ?

How to Express your Love ?

Express your LoveMany relations either don’t make up or break up because of not expressing your feelings. Once you find a right partner it is important to express your love and after proposing it is important to express your feelings to make the relationship fresh forever.

Whatever may be the reason, either to start the relation or to continue the relation it is important that you express your feelings to your partner or loved one? Here are some simple ways to express your love feelings:

Express your Love and feel free:

One of the major reason that most of the people can’t start a relation, because the other person is not aware of your feelings. He/She may or may not love you the way you do, but until you not expressing it, you are hurting yourself. It form a complete cycle, where you first start feeling for someone, later you get more crazy about your partner and soon it starts suffocating you by keeping it inside.  Most of people don’t express love because they are afraid that the other person might refuse and you will not even have him/her at all in future if they reject your proposal. But, it’s you who have to decide, is it worth giving it a shot or not?

Make up your mind:

You must understand that your partner is not god; he/she won’t understand your feelings until you express them. Lots of misunderstanding may occur because of less conversation and not expressing your feelings. Thus, First of all make up your mind that you need to express your feelings to your loved one.

Love after fight:

People in love do fight but it doesn’t mean that you don’t love each other. If you love the person, no matter how much you fight then forget the past and just feel the love inside you and tell the same to your partner. Most important is to be clam while expressing your feelings. Forget the past and move on.

Plan it:

If you want to express your feelings to your partner, plan a time when you both are free and in good mood. If your partner is in good mood, he/she will understand your feelings and take it seriously. Starts with hints, and see your partner reaction and if he/she shows the same affection or not. If yes, plan next step and make it special. Everyone wants to feel special and all you need to do is, be one that completes your loved once.

Make it simple and sweet:

No need to write a seven pages letter or learn poem for your partner. Just use a simple word which shows your feeling and must be direct from heart. Learning songs, poems never shows your true feelings. Don’t take advice from your friends about what words to use and what expression to make, keep the words flow from your heart.

Hard to find words:

Many people (especially geeks) have excused that they don’t have words to express their feelings and partner should not expect from them to express feelings. That is totally wrong attitude, your partner is a person and likes to listen lovely things and want to know what you feel about him/her. It is not necessary that you can only express your feelings through words. Do what your partner likes , use a wallpaper on your desktop saying “ I LOVE YOU “ or just gift a simple rose to your partner. These small things will surely make your partner happy and he/she will notice your love.

You and your partner will never know what you both feel about each other without expressing your feelings. And remember this will work best when you both are in mood to talk with each other and no mobile phones are there to disturb you.


So, go ahead and express your love and free yourself from the dilemma of, should I or should I not?

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  • George Serradinho November 24, 2009, 11:59 am

    One needs to find some way to express yourself and let your partner know how you feel. Even the smallest things help, as long as you try.

    Reply
  • ruchi November 25, 2009, 12:20 pm

    Agree with you Gorge, You shared very deep thought :).

    Reply
  • Sagar Rai November 25, 2009, 1:25 pm

    Nice blog post. Give me some time to decide and answer this post.

    Reply
    • ruchi November 26, 2009, 3:00 pm

      Sure…Take your time. I will be waiting. :)

      Reply
  • Rajesh Kanuri November 25, 2009, 2:29 pm

    now I have to regret as I missed this post for a long time.. I have wasted my 22 years of life without expressing my love.. :(

    Reply
    • ruchi November 26, 2009, 3:00 pm

      Don’t worry , you can express now :).

      Reply
  • Bahareh August 29, 2012, 11:27 am

    I have done it, Now I have a good feeling

    Reply
  • qandeel November 8, 2012, 12:01 am

    oh its very diffcul to express your love btit good to say it before the time rush and than u feel gilt:( ;)

    Reply
  • Mani December 11, 2012, 6:54 pm

    I am afraid to express because recently i made a friend request to my lover on facebook but she did’nt accept it.so how could i dare to express.i want her as my life patner.

    Reply
  • stan December 16, 2012, 1:54 pm

    expressing love makes relationship more tight

    Reply
  • Taha Al-massodi February 22, 2013, 1:41 am

    someone who truly loves you will never tell you that they love you…..
    they believe in making you feel their love rather than making you hear their love

    Reply
  • Rinku April 21, 2014, 10:28 am

    is it a good way to express my feelings through msg or a letter
    how should i text/write a letter to her so that she would understand my feelings.

    need advise

    Reply

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