We always wonder that when we miss someone, is it because we love that person, we like that person or maybe it’s just an infatuation? We keep on fighting with ourselves that what’s the reason for missing that person? Some time we also miss people we hate. Many times we also miss people we fight all the time but when they are not around.
But, when you want to continue relationship with the person you keep on missing, you need to be clear with your intention. According to me there might be following reasons:
- You also miss someone special when you are in love with that person
- It might be infatuation ( just for a few days ).
- You respect her/his qualities.
- That person is always with you when you need someone to lean on.
Whatever may be the reason, I would say it’s a very nice feeling to miss someone. You keep on thinking about that person whole day and night or if it’s worst you might start imagining him/her near you.
Many people feel that it’s the worst feeling to miss someone, but I totally disagree with this. I feel it’s the sweet pain and you can for sure enjoy missing someone. The only thing you need to remember is that you have to miss the golden moment you spend with each other. Please don’t ever miss bad times you spend with that person. Always try to cherish the good moments and it will surely bring a smile on your face.
Another thing which people do is to hide their feelings in front of person they are missing. You must keep your ego aside and convey your feelings to that person. Life is too short; if you love or you miss someone do let them know. If that person understands you, it would never ruin your relationship.
Love is missing someone whenever you’re apart, but somehow feeling warm inside because you’re close in heart. ~Kay Knudsen
What do you do, when you miss someone?
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khalid says
missing someone is only because you care for him/her. and if you are caring for someone don’t hide your feelings as it is very important.
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Ruchi says
Nice Said Khalid. Thanks for sharing your views.
Leviast says
I always miss him, want to show my care to him. However, he wants to push me far from him, so sad! If I should continue taking care of him?
Ruchi says
That’s sad leviast, I can understand how you might be feeling but I guess you should keep on caring for him but make sure you are not bugging him and not interfering in his life. It’s not necessary that the one you love also love you, do respect his feelings and don’t get rude if he is not caring for you. If you feel that he don’t care about your feelings and ignore you then I would suggest you to move on, there are lots of other people in this world who needs your love and care.
Parwez says
Ruchi
thanks for your comment i liked it but some time you miss someone that you cant carry on so what he/she needs to that somehow make him/her understand that how much he love’s you.
thanks
silpa says
Absolutely no!
Sunny says
I miss him a lot, n cry when I miss him but can’t c him! We worked together for few monthes then he left the job! We went out few times! I feel comfortable with him n happy! I like the feeling when he is next to me… Since him left the job we only met once for dinner. I text him sometime but his offten didn’t reply… Or just very short message…. He’s very busy n tired with the new job, which I understood! But I just feel sad when he didn’t reply my message! He said he likes me too… But I’m not sure what kind of like, as a friend or girlfriend…. He never make clear our relationship situation! I don’t know if he considers I’m his girlfriend or just a friend! I really miss him now!!! N really don’t know what should I do…….. I tried to forget about him n delete his number, but I can’t hold on for long time…. Somehow I found his number again n text him….. Sometimes I will write down the message I want to send him then send it to myself! I don’t want to scare him n make him think I’m crazy….. When we met I told him I missed him n cried for him sometime, he don’t said anything n just silent! How can I end this painful feelings!!!?????? Dear God, plz help me…….
Ruchi says
Hi Sunny,
We posted your problem on our FB page and here are few replies:
1. He ain’t that into you dear sorry
2. in one hand…
u better just share about ur feelings n emotions that are for him,if its difficult then,
in the other hand… u must ask him how he takes ur relationship with him,just as a friend or as a gf,sometimes we miss understand our friendship relation.
But here,i think he is nt intrested as much as u do care for him…problems usually arises to solve not to make it more complex,just make it clear as this situation comes in everyone life either earlier or later…
As u know,one sided love relations never be fruitful,so better u find truth in your own effort…dont fall deep inside in a damn scary well with out knowing its depth…
3. The best way is to Ignore ‘him’. Only this can make him back to you…
4. I agree to Tanmay just ignore him and wait if he will make a way to talk to you…reverse psychology! let him feel what u feel every time he ignores you… We have same situation, my bf said that he likes me but he never say if he loves me.. And i feel sometimes that he’s just treating me like a friend coz there’s no fondness in his messages to me.. you’ll get use to it, if u can’t endure then leave him and never contact him..
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Sunny says
Thx everyone!! I think I will talk to him next time we meet! I will tell him my feelings and make clear the relationship situation between us! My heart is very tired n my tears r running out… If is time to let go n move on… I will just let it be…. Thx again everyone!
Rubs says
Hey ruchi…can u help me about ma situation….
I was engaged before 17months ma fiance was very loving but not good in care…i loved him n also still loving him very much we talked full night ..but a month ago we gt apart becouse of certain attitude problem he thinks thad galz are made be only husbands things they dont have their own choice so i left him but i cant stop missing him….loving him..tell me what to do plz m very tnsd i love him but not his attitude..
Ruchi says
Hey Rubs,
When the guy is already dominating then its not worth to be with him. I hope you already shared your issues with him and if he is not ready to change then leaving him is a good step. It’s kind of tough to forget someone with whom you spent so much of time. It will take time, make yourself busy with something you love and concentrate on future rather than looking back. Try your best to Move on.
kk says
the pain will end by itself , just take time and hold on do not contact him bcz id u do n he wont replay u llget just furstrated n angry hell urself one day at the time u ll see not matter it wouldbe long toforget u ll get there onr day .
good luck.
kk
Sonu kumar says
Same is my feelings for my angel and it hurt a lot..:(
phill says
maybe you got used to his presence and when dont see him/her anymore then you start to feel that something is missing in your heart and when you realize that this is the reason then you cant get it out of your mind
the only way to forget is NOT to work cause this is not something happy but to hang out with friends if you have time if you dont then try not to talk about it !!! try to find somebody else to replace his\her presentation even if you know that he \her is not the one the sure thing is that you will have the opportunity to think about something else
but when you see the person who you are truly in love try to do the first baby step!!!
shafiq says
When you miss someone, very deeply, it mean you like or love the person. It is a sweet feeling, it keeps you restless and little satisfied too due to the imagination of the person you are missing. You think all the moments you shared with him/her. You are lucky if you miss some one, please do not hesitate and covey this to the person whom you are missing. This is my personal experience.
shafiq says
Only lucky peoples may have feeling of missing someone. Eventhough If I don’t ever meet again the person I missed, but happy to carry the person in my heart. I really miss my love….
Ruchi says
Agree Shafig, When you are away from someone and miss them, you start realizing how much you love them. Hope you get your love one soon 🙂
claire says
It has been 3 months I have moved on but I still have him in my mind. I won’t see him anymore but I guess that I keep thinking of him is because that there are matters that I / we have not reached a closure.
Natasha says
This happened to me 2 what should I doi still care about him but I feel we don’t have any closure.
kenya says
I really miss my mom. Since my parents are divorced and i live with my mom, I always have some one to cry on when my dad leaves. My mom has to go to the States for a little while for her job. I justs feel like crying single day……and i do but not in front of a person. But my friends have really helped me through this.
Pink says
Dear Kenya,
Missing your mom is such a wonderful feeling. You must tell her, she will be very happy. Maybe she went to the states for work, she is doing everything for you.
Let her know you are there for her as well.
Love,
Pink
kash says
Missing someone makes us breathless..m missing my shonu very much…he is my life..he has gone to Dubai..so m missing him like hell..also weeping
preethi says
missing someone is a very very beautiful experience, its funny how all you can thing we you are apart from that person is only what they ll be doing, have they eaten, do they think about you and all that but once you meet them…. our world becomes complete… mind stops wandering…. we feel that time should stop there…. the person who is so close to me is going away for a month… cant think how much i am gonna miss him… hope i have that much strength…
tasmia says
After I matriculated I decided to keep my friends limited….so I kept 1 his always thr 4 me wen I need him n his nva let me down his my best friend but he recently went dubai for 3 weeks n its only been 4 days…..I miss him allot n I’m beginning to feel like its abit more den jus friendship….wat to do…
Inpain says
Sometimes we miss the love the other person gave us….
I pretend that I don’t care but everytime I see you my heart crashes..If you could only understand how much I love you and miss you..
I have your perfume still.. It reminds me good things 🙂
Honeybee83 says
Isnt it funny?! I keep his also, well he left it behind bc he knew how much I liked the smell, but tje thing is that even like that, it doesnt smell the same. I miss him all the time, but I kno that our relationship wouldnt work no more.
Sometimes I wonder when il stop missing him. I hate to admitt it, but I still love him, I wanna say as much as I did when we were recently married.
Nicky says
Missing Someone because of u can’t do what u want with him/her.
Missing Someone best to let them know…
There is a special FEELING after u tell them.
They will join Missing wit u in a moment after u tell them~
Nicky says
I Really miss my xxx, i know i miss him alone~
i can forced him to got me but i can’t force him to say I Love U there was alway like instead of love all the time i asked him…
janes says
i am missing my best friend sooooo much ,,he is not with me just because i told him i cant be friends with him.,he went away.,
annoymous says
i miss him all the time, he was always there for me when i needed him, and he’s gone and i need him. i don’t know what to do and there is no way for me to get in touch, i feel lost without him around and i feel like something is missing, he is always on my mind and no matter how hard i try to forget i just can’t. please someone tell me what i should do :'(
Ruchi says
May be this will help you: How to forget your ex
rebecca says
The one I miss, I send e mails and some carefully selected youtube songs. He sometimes reciprocates, and I feel great on the inside! I really do love him, but I want to be certain that he feels the same way.
mehraj says
aslamo alakum! we miss someone when we start take interest in someone.we love that person we respect him or her that’s why we miss someone.
Emma says
come on guys! Don’t get too emotional, in half of these cases it’s just you who care for the other part, why not be realistic and move on instead of insisting on the sweetness of this very devastating feeling! The same here, in unilateral love for almost 2 years, suffering from anorexia after I found out he doesn’t have the same feelings for me and now struggling to forget this idiot whom i LOVE! 🙁 Life sucks!
cicilv says
You need to love yourself. This is what i feel for you. You said it right being realistic is getting your objectives right. So focus on your being and your Professional and Personal groom it where you wish to take. Afterall some one said we meet people for Reason, Season and Life time.
Mary says
I agree with you.
Thats true. However, easy said than done and at first it is very difficult.
Im sorry for loving you says
I miss her:( wer not as close as we used to be. Sometimes i just feel like telling her my feelings but im scared she’ll just laugh at me and move on. I always have that fear she might leave me broken hearted. Shes beautiful. The most beautiful girl i’ve ever seen. And im, well, me. Im ugly. Our looks dont match but our personality does. Someone please tell me what to do, give me some advise!
Ruchi says
Hey Unknown, Firstly If you love someone you must tell her. There are chances that she will accept it, coz its not always about looks when it comes to long term love relationship. If she is kind of girl who will make fun of your feelings then she is not worth your love and such people don’t deserve true love. You should express your love and if you need any help, you can always contact us. Wish u luck. 🙂
ali says
You must tell her how you feel. Those feelings can be mutual. I
jellybean says
I’m in my late teens and i met a cool young man 7years older than me.
At 1st i didn’t like the old man lol thats what i called him because he was a showoff type and a player lol.
We seen eachother daily at a bus stop he went to work i went to school.
He would annoyingly joke around alot and make me angry lol.
The one day i lost my phone but he found it cause i left it rushing off the bus.
After that day my life changed forever. He put his number in my phone and on a chat app i use. I found myself chatting secretly to him at school and i loved to joke
with him and treated him as a older brother. But for a few months our friendship got deeper and i can say i loved him . He avoided me for a whole day and that night he opened up that he really liked me every little thing about me. I did too but after all the confessing all things changed… We did go on a date for a day but the next day he changed… I believe that night when he was with his friend changed him… After that day he became more pushy and he broke my heart the way he acted… I never seen him since or contacted him and its been a week now.
I miss him so much… Lol sorry so long!
lanz @ says
Have you try talking to him after that day? Try to approach him and be honest about what you wanted him to know. After all the conffession if he will still avoid you atleast you have done your part. NO GUTS NO GLORY !!!!
oscar says
Its been 5 years sins I moved away leaving the girl I LOVE behind.. The pain has grown more and mkre every single min..never giving up am finally going back to HER 😉 it hurts and leaves me breathless waiting to see her 😉
lanz @ says
Dont you realized that you are wasting your time waiting for that girl. You should GO on with your life and find your HAPPINESS. Move on and Let Go.
Shelia Escabaralia says
The really thing about missing someone is its the worse pain ever…there is no sweetness! Its a nerve racking pain, and it hurts especially your heart, and it could shorten your life! (depending on the degree of the pain/missing)
Now i miss my friend, who no longer is my friend, she never thinks of me, i think of her all the time to the point i fantasize! I cry all the time it hurts so much I haven’t spoken to her in about 1 year, and i feel i will always miss her for ever, i have missed her for so long even when we were friends 7 years of knowing her…
Now i saw her today and i hide why? I turned around pretending i didn’t see her – she also kept her distance acting like she didn’t see me, and i saw her head hiding behind someone in front of her…why did i or her do this? We don’t even want to acknowledge each other…i miss her so much but can’t face her anymore….its getting harder and harder!
Also…i heard when you miss someone so much, that you feel your contacted or have a strong feeling to that person…it means the other person doesn’t like you at all. If you miss that person…70% of the time that person is over you and has moved on!
lanz @ says
I am thingking is there any INSTANCE or SCENARION that is so AWFUL that drives your friendship to pust away each other? It might be the reason why you both are suffering. Both of you are in DENIAL that you both EXIST!!!
ROUDRANIL says
Yes it is very painful but try to be in touch with that person or start a new life ( but make sure you dont forget him) because who knows when how get him or her .
CrazyFaisal says
Sometimes i miss someone. But It does not stand for long time to me…I could not understand what’s the reason behind this. The person could be my friend, female , relatives etc.
MumblinFool says
It’s easy to miss someone while they’re gone. The most confusing emotion I’ve ever felt is missing someone while they’re asleep in the next room. People don’t stay the same, and sometimes it’s far too easy to miss who someone used to be.
lanz @ says
missing HIM is like I had lost my SHADOW…
We both have our own life now, whether by destiny, desire or accident. It is the vocation that we both choose to have. I’m sure you don’t regret it and very much happy with it. This I believe is my final goodbye; we both have to learn to face the reality of being with someone else. Maybe, you have done it already. Maybe, I’m the only one trying to hang on. But, what ever the case, rest assured that you will always occupy a special place in my heart.
Angel says
Try having to say bye to someone for 4 years and having to only have contact through letters and phone calls. I miss my boyf so much. He just called but he has to hang up after just a short time because he is in prison because he made a stupid mistake. We write to each other all the time and he calls me every night to say goodnight but it costs so much we can only talk for a few minutes and it’s monitored. I love him to bits and he loves me but he has also said if I was to meet someone who made me happy in the next 4 years then he’d be happy for me, but I dont want anyone else, only him as he is worried I will waste my life hanging around waiting.
Angelina L says
Thats very sweet if him 🙂
Jasmin Khalique says
I fell in love with someone who lived near to me, i moved area and left him behind. We also lost contact. Its been 3 years now and he is still on my mind unfortunately i make believe he is near me thats how absurd this feeling is. I have also been in a relationship with someone else to forget the pain but it didnt work. So he recently tried to contact me and i put a closure to this by writing him a letter telling him to move on with his life but yet i cant let go? Its been so long why am i still missing him? What am i holding onto? I know theres plenty fish in the sea and i want to be with someone new but i feel like im being deceiptful. This ‘missing someone’ feeling…i wish it would dissapear.
lanz @ says
i wake up last nyte around 2:30 am i cry so hard beacause of that dream. i am crying on a bench and then i heard my ex boyfriends voice saying that he dont care about me. again and again he keep on telling that word “I DONT CARE BOUT YOU ANYMORE ” it really hurts alot, and so i get up and am hardly crying. i miss him so much.
T2nunu says
Someone who is like that doesn’t deserve you. Try hanging out with friends some more.
Lorraina says
Hello,
I stumbled onto your website because my mom died a month ago. I wanted to see if there was a remedy out there somewhere for missing someone so much that it feels like your heart has been….without question….broken. I read what you wrote in it’s entirety. I gave it a lot of thought but I am sorry to say that I disagree with you. I know this was a death, but I also went threw an extremely painful divorce. The pain that I felt for that was different than this, but my pain felt like and feels like agony and I really don’t want to feel it anymore. I am regrettable saying that for me, there is no place for anything sweet here. You just have to find the right resources and discover your very own way of dealing with the loss. I think that there are many different ways and there is something out there for everyone. Nice website. I like it a lot and I like the comments that many people have made. I’m glad that I stumbled onto it.
Salipm says
I have a galfreind she spends 3 months with me the rest she will be away and that has been going on for about 4 years ive let some gals pass by cause i feel so loyal to her wen she is around i feel like the world is all about the 2 of us , i miss her soo much my problem is m afraid that what if she thinks otherwise wen i have invested all these years in our relationship.i love e gal
musiclover says
it has been 2 weeks since we’ve been together with the person i love, because my parents do not want us to be together. days without that person was so hard, there were sleepless nights, can’t eat much because of the thought that i miss that person. last Tuesday we spend a day together though it was just for few hours cause we have to go back to our places and for the fact that i escaped from my parents. and it’s 4 hours away. after that while i was on the bus, i felt my heart aching thinking of when would we meet again. that night i was crying, i became so emotional. i love that person so much. since then every night i fall asleep crying. what can i do? i do understand that we have to bear it that we cannot be together that much unlike before.
Angelina L says
So I’m moving to Florida and my parents left me and my brother to find us a condo for when we move…. My mom got us someone to stay over night with us and feed us… My mom’s co worker Danielle got the job and she was pretty cool. She let us eat whatever, stay up super late, loves dubstep, and enjoyed playing mine craft with my brother and I. She left today and I’m sad and all teary Im a girl just so you know, and I do this with everyone else too…idk I haven’t even touched anything she has touched. Right now Im playing draw something and texting her. (btw she has a unicorn pillow pet named Charles xD)
JustAnotherBrokenHeartedGirl.. says
countless tears…wrists and armfuls of scars…so many bottles of pills ive lost count…6 razor blades…many packs of cigarettes..2 sucide attempts..259 days,thats 8 months,2 weeks,and 5 days later…i still miss him… i still c r y..i still
c u t…i still h u r t…i still feel all a l o n e…i still s m o k e…im still not o v e r it…even though my mom got a 2 year restraining order on him,he almost got 2 other girls pregnant,hes on probation,i almost went to juvie and soo any more complications…it doesnt change anything…i doesnt change my heart,the memories,or the love i have for him…they say im too young to understand,but we dont believe them..now what do i do?im so lost….
hila says
Hi,
I can try and understand how you feel, but you’re strong enough to get over this.
Think… do you really deserve someone like this?
Dont make a mistake and waste your time like so many who have with this kinda thing, just believe you can come out of this.
You will 🙂
Luis says
No one in this whole entire blog has said what it is. We miss people because they added to our lives, they made us feel more important than we previously felt, they made us dream about things we didn’t think were possible. Most important is knowing how to deal with the feeling of missing someone. IT IS NOT A BAD THING AT ALL. YES, IT IS SWEET. 100% SWEET… for you see, it means that we were blessed enough with the presence of something truly beautiful in our lives, it means we are lucky bastards, it means we have a role model to now follow, it means we now have more direction, it means we know the path we must follow to reach more beautiful things of that nature and if we stay on that path eventually we are bound to turn, ourselves, into that very thing we yearn for or we’ll stumble into more of that thing we love.
unknown says
Hey thank you for making things so much clear neither the author of this really explained .what you say truly makes sense .He added a little bit to my life that thing that I was missing before I met him and that felling that I miss to feel.
linda says
I miss him all the time,,.. he texts me daily…if we are apart….it’s been a year. ..but I never told him so…” I miss you or I love you”…. sure, I show that I care about him..he is more like a friend of mine… unlike me he is more open up to me
he tells me that he misses me and want me to go somewhere with him..but I always acte like I don’t want you!!! I always push him away from me ,,
the reasons why I didn’t tell him…because I’m afraid of being not capable to have my word with him…
& cuz I know the reality what is like… he is not wealthy & handsome neither a part of my social class… once I think to myself of ending my friendship with him I feel so much pain….I don’t know what to do,,, but I KNOW I’m so in love with him
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sabita says
how to forget someone whom u lov very much..whom u care a lot..but u know very well u r not going to live with him..I am missing someone a lot..crying..evn unable to control myself..its giving me pain..i cant tolerate..:( “:(
Heartbroken says
You said excitly how I am feeling right now ! I don’t know what to do . Is been 3 weeks now ! I miss him so much . Think of him everyday , everynight , every mins . Unfortually , I can’t be with him . Even deep inside I do really care and love him !
pallabi says
hi
i miss my man wid whom my marriage was fixed but ryt now its everything is finished.he doesnt feel the same.i cant stop myself from contacting him….though i think i wont…..but he never contacts me…every moment i miss him…i think its love…when everything was going fyn…i never thot it ll be finished one day..i ll miss him so much…actually its a arranged one…so i thot love ll happen gradually…but now i wen i miss him…i realize that i love him…though he doesnt feel the same…how to forget him…as he has moved ahead…i also want to move….but i am stuck somewhere where he had left me…
jihyuk says
I really miss her i know i sound crazy but evenn if i dont speak to her for literally 3 hrs i feel incrediably sad..i think iam going crazy i have nevet bern like dis in my life, shuld i ask her out? But im scared if she dosent accepts me everything will b ruined.. help me plz..
justina harris says
I do miss this person. Right now i wont risk to put my heart out there again. Maybe as time go by. He will slways be in my heart. We both hsve different lives. God can only make that happen.
Dee says
I miss my ex.. she is with someone else now and sleeps at his house a lot and comes back to town when she see’s her mom. it’s difficult for me because a lot of the things that she used to do with me she now does with him. It’s a pain to sleep at night sometimes, I wake up in sweats and have dreams of them. It sounds ridiculous and absurd but it’s what happens and I don’t understand why. I go to work, see my friends and try to focus on myself but for some reason I keep thinking about her. It’s like she wont leave my mind. Like honestly, dreams??? this has never happened to me before and sometimes I think its an obsessional dillusion or something. Please send some advice!
shain says
Dee
what can you do more.You have shown own feeling and care for her yet she is not interested in you.I know its hard to forget so better to move some elsewhere apart from that place.I know how ever her shadow will with you but be lean in some work so that you can not get time to think about her.
What i suggest you yaar.I am self a patient of this.I am trying to forget her.You dont know how much i weep for that girl.Knowing that she had spent time with a boy what day and night both…I loved her.But she dont wana stopped for someone.Being with she talks hour and hour with other one.How ever i love.But i hate to see her.However i go her house to see her.
Such a how big stupid i am..Is it love?? Not its ridiculous what i am doing.
You suggest me that what should i do..
MANJARI GUPTA says
Hmmm all that is mentioned above holds true in my case…i love my love can’t call him ex coz collin him ex wud b like dat nw he’s nt a part of me ….which according to me is jus nothing more den absured…coz itz been an year dat v’r nt together …but still he is in my mind , memory , heart moreover which no one can believ is dat he’s still in my talks …to anyone and wotever i talk my wrds never ends up until i speak about him….i knw he olso misses me d same way as i do but will never say …..i wish if he comes bak to me…i wud b so happy d day he will be back to me ….i have hurt him a lotzzz so i guess dis is my punishment ……i dun hav any complaints wid him …jus shona cme back …realised that i forced you to become wot ur today…..but promise jus one more chance and jus with my love will bring you to my old shona…….plzzz forgive me for my misbehaviour…….
angel06 says
i miss him so much after we chat..but when he is there talking w/ me,it’s as if just want to stare at him all the time and making fun of him..my gosh..is it sign of being in love w/ him??
stardust says
I miss my husband – he is on a trip with his first wife. I am his secret second wife. Being secret makes it xtremely difficult to spend time together. He is truly an amazing man. I wish that women outside of the Arab countries would understand and accept the Shariah ruling about Muslim men having more than 1 wife. My first marriage was terrible – I was verbally, emotionally and physically abused. When I left my ex, I had nothing for myself and my 2 boys – my second husband came into my life like an Angel of Mercy sent from the Almighty. We share such a deep connection, we are totally in sync – and whilst I knw he loves his first wife very much, he is totally in love with me and I wid him – jst miss him so much rite now. Wish time would fly and he could return to our secret stolen moments.
Unknow friend says
True love never dies it always there.May you have peace.Mercy Lord.
anshu says
I miss my loved one..I keep on telling him dat I m missing u..wan 2spend time with u..
bt he keep on telling me..that he is busy..have lot of work..but he spend time with others his family frnds..with them he never feel he is wasting his time bt spending time with me is just waste of time to him..what should I do?????????
Ruchi says
Hey Anshu, after reading your problem I guess that guy is just trying to avoid you. I would suggest you directly talk to him that he want to continue this relation or not. And if things are not getting well better you should move on. I know it sounds harsh but if things will go like this then only you will be in pain.
Angelina L. says
I kinda miss my biological mom. So here’s the story, my bio mom met my dad. They started dating and little did he know she was CRAZY. she tried to kill herself 2 times before he met her! So then they had a baby ( my older brother Wyatt) and that pretty
Much ruined my dads dreams of collage, so he dropped out. 3 years later I popped along. And everything was great, until 5 months later she tried to kill me, my brother, my dad, and herself. that’s when my dad realized she had a problem. He offered to help her but she didn’t want it. He got a seperation and eventually a divorce, and got custody of my and Wyatt. The court said that we had to see her, on to twice a year, and order that my father obiediantly fly followed. My dad at the time was on and off dating many women, and these relationships almost always ended after a month or so. Did I mention that another reason why my dad got the divorce was because my mom was. Cheating on him? Finally my dad met my stepmom, Laura whom I love a lot, and typically she and my mom don’t get along. I started to hate my mother because she was mean to my stepmom and made decisions that benefited her. I still went to see my mom until my brother nearly had a nervous breakdown because of my mom. I don’t want to say what really happened, it makes my mom look like a monster, well she is. So now we don’t see my mom and I’m happy about that! I’m 12 now, and I am told I am just like my stepmom, who I don like to call that. I like to call her mom now. They say we share a fierceness which I am going to use to make myself into a good lawyer. But anyways, I watched a video of her on youtube and I realized I missed my older sister, my little brother, and my sisters 1 year old son, my nephew. Also my mom, I guess….
Thanks for reading, Angelina L.
Swapnil Lohar says
its more than a year we broke up but miss her a lot
wht to do, i think i did a lot but donno was tht less, evn supported her family
but i found her sleeping with some one else, can’t get out of that image,
so i broke up, please help me getting out should i stay alone????? or wht should i do
Emily says
I really care about this guy i knew for sometime… we finally got together for a short time but it was kinda off and on cuz he got in some trouble he didnt wanna.invole me.. but i still wanted to b with him, he ended up getting put in jail and will be deported soon im still going crazy missing him and wanting to b wih him.. i wanna go see him in his country when he gets out but im scared to ask him cuz im not sure what he will say… im not able to commuicate with him in jail now either.. most of my friends think im dumb and should move on but i feel how i feel.. so im not sure what to do? Ive never cared this much for someone bfore or hurt this much over them not being in my life.
hb says
I miss him. All day, every day. All night, every night. I love him. It has been two weeks since we last spoke. I miss him more and more. He is close yet he is far. I always know he is in me, with me. Yet I could not call him. Life is a series of chores without being with him. Life is hard for me, for us. I can’t be with him. It’s complicated. He can’t be with me. It’s complicated. If I die tomorrow, I know that I have had him, once. I know that, I love, once. We almost had twins together. I’m lost. I am so lost.
tpp says
I have hurt some wonderful people, now I regret the silly mistake I made.It is very sad,now it is too late i cannot help it.Please forgive and forget.
Now I wish I hadn’t done it.I was very happy when I knew no one and I wish I was like before alone by myself.
If I knew I was forgiven I would have had peace of mind.
I wish they win and I lose always.
Now I think I can’t forget even I died. Now it will always be there.