I know it is a bit hurtful topic but it happens and it is always better that we should accept it as soon as possible. There are various signals which can tell you that your boy friend or your girl friend is about to dump you.
Here are few signals which can tell you that your partner might want to move away from you.
1. Phone calls:
One you fall in love then the first thing is that you keep on talking on phone for hours but then it gradually decreases because you and your partner start concentrating on other work. But if these phone calls get reduce and you get only 1-2 calls in a week, then it is bad signal. So what should you do, you should try to know the reason what is the real reason behind it, if you don’t find any good reason for not talking then your partner might be losing interest in you,so that is a red signal.
2. Need space:
It is very good to give some space to your partner but if your partner needs it more than enough that’s an alert in your relationship. Your partner might say you that he wants to celebrate weekends without you or feels bore with the communication you both do,then he/she might be losing interest in you.
3. Small fights starts:
Your partner start fighting on small things, criticize you for your looks which he/she used to like earlier or choosing a restaurant. If you strongly feel that your partner just need a reason to fight, arguments or gets frustrated on small things that again signifies a caution.
4. Not with you:
When both of you are together, and if you feel like neglected for example if he/she is looking here and there when you are talking to him/her or he/she interrupts you in between and start talking on phone or even you are specially dressed for him/her and your partner is not even noticing you, even after you told your partner about your new dress or you had planned a great surprise for your partner and he/she don’t care about that ,and even don’t say thank you or if you dedicate a love song to your partner, he/she don’t care to hear it. These are all the red signals so be cautious.
5. Less communication:
Earlier your partner used to call you to ask how you doing or your health is well or not. But now even when you are not well and he/she started ignoring it that is a red signal.Even when he/she calls , communication is very brief either in yes or no or you start feeling that he/she is not with you while you want to share good or bad times of your life, then it is better to give second thought.
If you think that all these things are happening in your love life also, then it is high time to spark up your love life. Even if your partner is losing interest in you , he/she not yet dumped you. There is time to rejuvenate your relationship. My next article on how to spice up your love life will surely help you.