I happen to meet a friend who is in love with a guy and that guy never loves her back. She was in extreme need of this How to get over someone guide, and instead of helping her with one to one relationship counselling, I though of sharing my getting someone out of your mind tips with Lets Talk relations readers.
No one can stay away from love and few of us gets lucky to live entire life with someone we love and few have hard luck with love. If you have bad luck with love it’s always recommended that you should get over that person as soon as possible, it doesn’t matter how much he/she loves you or it’s only you who are in love, not that person.
It is important to forget your ex as soon as possible and move on. The best way to get over someone is to stay away with that person and forgetting all the memories/stuffs you both shared. Deleting all the mails, snaps and chucking all the gifts given.
But the worst and difficult phase comes when you want to get over someone and you have to see and deal with that person every day. It might be your society, college or your office, there might be chance that you can’t stay away from that person even if you want to.
Useful How to get over someone tips:
Here are few things to remember which might help you to get over:
- Accept the fact that you are not in relation with that person and if you will continue, you will only get tears on your side.
- Don’t get into personal discussions with him/her. Just talk regarding work and talk only what is required.
- Don’t try to be friends, it will again make you fall in love.
- Don’t get jealous when he/she is enjoying with someone else. Try to ignore.
- Don’t try to make him/her jealous, to get the love and attention. These are stupid tricks and hardly works.
- Don’t try to start new relations just because you are able to get over. Have patience and you will get over with time.
- Just be yourself and don’t lose confidence. Every person is good and it goes same with you thus start loving yourself.
- Try to keep yourself busy with stuffs you love to do.
Do let us know what tips would you give to my friend to get over that guy. Though, we all know It’s difficult to get over someone with whom you have to deal everyday but nothing is impossible. These tips are tough but there is no harm in giving try.
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Shabnam Sultan says
Nice tips Ruchi 🙂 6th point should be avoided as it will lead to more problems.
Rajan Balana @ DreamBloggers says
I love the way you explain real aspect of life, I want to implement all the above tips but my will power is very weak, I am not able to continue it for a long time. 🙁
Absolutely correct but how to apply and till what time because when you have spent a lot loving moments
to move on from someone you love isn’t easy, but thanks for this tips
it’s absolutely hard to stop loving someone u are deeply in love with, especially if u see him everyday, there is always this sharp pain in your heart anytime u see him.
It really hurts when you have to see an ex everyday and he is showing you that as if nothing happened and enjoying the company of others. The thing is that you should also annoy him or just ignore and dattach him from your life completely.
I feel like there is a sharp pain in my chest when I see him everyday when I know that nothing will happen between us. I am trying to ignore him but My eyes every time wonder to where he is. When I see him laugh I feel like I am getting a knife through my heart. That really hurts so much. I wish that I did not know him so I wont feel like this anymore.
I had been in a relationship a year and a half ago, and My ex and I are in the same classroom. He is a big flirt and loves talking and crushing on new girls everyday. We text on social media and its leaves a little spark inside me. We are best friends now, and even when I asked him if he would like to get back with me, he said that he obviously would. I just don’t understand him. He’s crushing on few other girls but when it comes to me he says things that tend to put me in a confusion. Like for example, he says he likes a particular girl but when I ask him if he would get back he’d say YES. The problem is there are many other people who like me, but they are his best friends. I don’t know whether he actually would get back if his friends would stop liking me or not. Even though its been 2 years, I just can’t stop thinking about the memories and overall him. And I’ve noticed that he looks at me most of the time in class. He’s had quite a lot of girlfriends after me. Not before. Many of my friends say we should get back and that it was true love, but I don’t think he’s want this. 🙁