I happen to meet a friend who is in love with a guy and that guy never loves her back. She was in extreme need of this How to get over someone guide, and instead of helping her with one to one relationship counselling, I though of sharing my getting someone out of your mind tips with Lets Talk relations readers.
No one can stay away from love and few of us gets lucky to live entire life with someone we love and few have hard luck with love. If you have bad luck with love it’s always recommended that you should get over that person as soon as possible, it doesn’t matter how much he/she loves you or it’s only you who are in love, not that person.
It is important to forget your ex as soon as possible and move on. The best way to get over someone is to stay away with that person and forgetting all the memories/stuffs you both shared. Deleting all the mails, snaps and chucking all the gifts given.
But the worst and difficult phase comes when you want to get over someone and you have to see and deal with that person every day. It might be your society, college or your office, there might be chance that you can’t stay away from that person even if you want to.
Useful How to get over someone tips:
Here are few things to remember which might help you to get over:
- Accept the fact that you are not in relation with that person and if you will continue, you will only get tears on your side.
- Don’t get into personal discussions with him/her. Just talk regarding work and talk only what is required.
- Don’t try to be friends, it will again make you fall in love.
- Don’t get jealous when he/she is enjoying with someone else. Try to ignore.
- Don’t try to make him/her jealous, to get the love and attention. These are stupid tricks and hardly works.
- Don’t try to start new relations just because you are able to get over. Have patience and you will get over with time.
- Just be yourself and don’t lose confidence. Every person is good and it goes same with you thus start loving yourself.
- Try to keep yourself busy with stuffs you love to do.
Do let us know what tips would you give to my friend to get over that guy. Though, we all know It’s difficult to get over someone with whom you have to deal everyday but nothing is impossible. These tips are tough but there is no harm in giving try.