Falling in love is the best feeling in this world. I know many of you think that love hurts a lot, partners are not trustworthy, they don’t understand your feelings or only you love them they don’t. If you feel all these negative things then please read this each and every word of it, with a practical approach. I am sure, it will help you a lot to enjoy your love rather than regretting it. This is one of the worse things that can happen to anyone, falling in love with someone you can’t have.
The most challenging phase of love is when you fall in love with someone, whom you can’t get or not even think of getting him/her in your life. It hurts sometimes, and you even feel very painful when you miss that person. Loving someone is not in your control, it’s just a feeling and tough to get over it.
Now, it’s up to you that how you take this love in your life, with a positive approach or negative approach? Having a negative approach has kept on crying for that person, who don’t take you more than a friend and not even notice your tears. Another approach is to take the feeling positively and enjoy the moment to the fullest.
How to be in love when another person when another person don’t love you back:
- Think in a positive way:
If you think that providing tips is very easy and applying them is very difficult than just for five days try to apply these tips with a positive approach. No tips can make your life better unless you want it to be better. If you will keep sympathy with yourself and expecting same with others, you won’t able to enjoy the feeling of true love.
- Expectations:
True Love is always unconditional, then why you start expecting that the person should love you back?
If you are expecting to return the love back as much as you love him/her then it’s not true love. Why can’t you just love that person? Love is neither a business nor a give and takes relationship. How you can think of love when you have so many expectations. Even if he/she doesn’t reply to your text messages, emails or phone calls, why you get hurt? You want to convey your feelings, and you did that. Don’t ever expect that the person will respond it back otherwise it will hurt you for sure.
- Don’t force them to love you:
The main reason for not getting the person you love is that they don’t love you or might be committed to someone else. Think once from his/her point of view, you might not be the one he/she is looking for. Everyone has their choice, and they have all rights to choose the one they find interesting and loving to them. You can never force anyone to fall in love with you.
The day you will stop crying for your love, you will start enjoying it. If you find it tough to get over the person you love then waits for my next article for tips to get over someone you love.
But yes, the best advice would move on. Life is short, and there is no point in waiting and falling in love with someone you can’t have. Instead, find someone special, who completes you.
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Emily says
September 20, 2016 at 12:40 amI am madly in love with my bestfriend’s brother, it ‘s been 2 years and i can’t move on, my brother is never going to be okay with it. We cuddle all the times and talk’s a lot , we even kissed in the summer… When school started he just ignored me but i don t get to see him a lot because he is 2 years older than me , i am 14 and he is 16 he will never love me! I cry myself to sleep everynight and i act like i am fine but i am not i am broken.. I can’t talk to this to anyone because they don’t understand. I also travelled with him it was awesome, people from there said we were a couple.
But i will never be with someone like him i am just a game for him.
Samantha says
October 23, 2016 at 12:06 amYou are in love with an idea. You loved what you thought he did for you. You need to learn to do for yourself what you needed him to do for you. If you can learn to love yourself more, you will not urine so badly for someone else to do it. Obviously, he was not able and was never going to be the person you wanted him to be.
Tiara lee says
September 20, 2016 at 6:15 amHi my name is tiara I been going thru a lots of stuff lately, I’m 21 years old I met this guy when I was leaving school one day he followed me asking “miss can I get your number please ” I said “no why do you want my number ” he responded ” because I kinda like you ” so I gave him my number we started to text each other, not even in a week he text me to come hang out with him at his house I said OK so I went to his house we talked laugh giggle all that good stuff u could imagine, now he wanted to have sexual intercourse with me I said no we just met his like I understand but I’m a good guy ???? …. I let him do what ever he wanted he would tell me to come to his house every day sometimes I skip skl to go see him one day I call him he didn’t answer neither my text messages so I kept calling him texting him all at I would tell him I miss him… After all this I can’t eat without thinking about him I can’t do nothing in this world without thinking about him I would cry anytime I think about him etccc I’m in love with him I saw him 3days ago and it seems like he was really happy to see me he kept saying “why you look so gorgeous & sexy” and he kept playing with my hands like nothing happens… I need help because I deeply fall in love with this guy idk what to do I can’t do nothing in this world without thinking about him ????????????????????
Sasha says
January 11, 2017 at 11:06 amGet your shit together. Don’t let a guy make you feel this way, he is not worth it. Although, you may be too in love and blind to see it,he is clearly just using you to have sex. Focus on your school because no guy will ever be able to take away your career. You deserve better, don’t fall into his trap I guarantee that you’ll regret it.
Ani says
September 29, 2016 at 7:56 pmHiii..
I’ve fallen for someone in my office but he’s already had a girlfriend who is really beautiful, hot and rich. Both of them looks like deeply in love each other. But these day, I had a chance to know him better because he need my help for his job. And the more I know him, I start to see another me in him. The way he think, he act, how he treat the other people are just like me. And I don’t realize, since when he start to call me pretty, and do something nice for me. I think I fall to his trap or what, because he need to reach his work goals and he need me for that so he is being “the nice guy” . I don’t know. The one that I know is my mind is blur and I’m affraid to get hurt.
moe says
October 2, 2016 at 7:33 pmI fell in love 30 years ago for the most beautiful woman I ever met, but she went with someone else down a very dark path. She is now in prison for life. I have been married 26 years now but am still in love with her and think of her everyday. We write to each other, but when I write to her my heart dictates my words.
Cassandra says
October 5, 2016 at 8:49 amI fell in love with someone at work. It all started with a work event. I had always thought he was cute but after that event I got a chance to talk to him and that’s when cupid was out to get me, we talked, laughed and it just felt like I knew him from before so he got into my heart without me knowing he had a gf. A few weeks later I found out he was taken but I already had feelings for him. The worst is that I am in a committed relationship myself, I wasn’t looking for this. Love snuck up on me, I didn’t know my heart was free. So we kept talking and saw each other a few weeks after that. We have made out a few times and we both want more but it cannot be. I love him and he likes me but he just wants fun. My feelings would probably lead me to more but my head won’t, I just can’t have him. I gotta move on. ????????????????
Jel says
October 24, 2016 at 4:39 pmI am in a committed relationship when I met this guy. He is really fun to be with. We share the same likes and hobbies. After a while, he opened up that gf broke up with him & that it hurt him. I tried to be there for him as much as I can to be of help..Until such time we started to sweet talk with each other, call each other with endearments, open more deeply about each others lives, even exchanged “i love yous”. He said as long as we both have love and trust for each other, we’ll be fine. One day, he said he’s going to his xgf’s house to see if they can still fix it. He came back to me and acted the same. I didnt wanna ask what happened to their talk coz I want him to open up but he didn’t. Weeks went on, we became sweeter and sweeter to each other. Then one day, I sent him a message with which he immediately replied using another account & telling me to reply there instead so his gf won’t see any message in the old account. that’s when i knew they were back together. and yet we still spend time with each other too even more than we spend with our partners. I dont know what will happen. i’m scared to lose what we have. idk. guess im not ready to face it. i hope it’s easy.. 🙁 🙁 🙁
Hannah says
October 12, 2016 at 12:25 amI’m inlove with a guy which is 19 and I’m 17…we have been friends with benefits,we had sex several times the only problem I’m falling inlove with him and he doesn’t feel this same way
jennie says
October 14, 2016 at 12:54 amMy boyfriend and i hav been together for 4 years…we were forced into a breakup because his family had a certain bride in mind for him..now he’s getting engaged and it just hurts…
His girl says
October 22, 2016 at 5:48 amWell, I fell in love with another man 5 years ago. After reading this article, maybe it’s best that I just let it go. Because I want so badly to be in a real relationship with him and he can’t and won’t right now. I want a divorce. And I want to just live happily and peacefully as much as possible. I’m tired of being hurt. I’m tired of caring so much.
sharon says
January 7, 2017 at 2:06 pmI had just joined the university when i met this guy, so charming indeed. I loved him wholly though he didnt love me back. unfortunately i just was a game to him, he used me & within a month, he began avoiding me. what hurts the most is that i can’t keep him to myself, he doesnt care at all. But surprisingly am still in love with him
Qv says
January 8, 2017 at 1:02 pmHi my name is Q. V .. …
I hav been in love wd a gal for 5 yers we evn contact wd one anotr i evn proposed her bt her reply always says no .. .. Last yer dt ws 2016 i proposed her again n on 24th night november she said yes n we ws n a relationship n aftr sum days on 17 of december she said she cnt do it nymore … Wch hurts me so mch… .. I dnt knw wt to do or say to her now .. … So now ma pLan s work hard hav a good job n ask 4 her to merry me wn m ready .. dts wt i wna suprise her.. .. I Love her so mch….
Amal says
January 11, 2017 at 12:07 amDont worry he will understand your love oneday.you should wait for it.
Terissa Armstrong says
January 12, 2017 at 8:00 amHi, I’m Teri and I’m a lesbian. I’ve known this girl for more than a couple years now. And I’m in love with her. We began on the pretenses of not going for a relationship but as I hung out with her more and more my feelings grew. It was quite clear to me that she felt the same. She would confess little things to me and sometimes we’d spend days together just talking,cuddling. This wasn’t intentional but why hold back on love? So I told her how I truly felt. She never responded to me and never returned the love. I got angry and felt like I had been dealt the hand of injustice. How could she not see how amazing we are together? From then on she has gone back and forth between girls and I simply do not trust her. But I have yet to stop crying. I feel like there is a hole in my heart. Just wish I could just move on from this…
Arpan Biswas says
February 5, 2017 at 8:12 ami love my bestfriend … from my heart … the most loving person in my life till now … but she do not have any feelings regards love … i want her in my life till i die … she is the most naughty girl i saw … but i dont know why .. but i love her the most …
Princess says
January 19, 2018 at 5:31 pmI know that this is just an unrequited love and I know and I feel too that this feeling can break and put me in vain. I want to move on and just forget that he is existing but this stubborn heart and anxious mind is keep on blocking and stopping me. I want to exclude him in my life but the idea of not having or talking to him even just in a day can breaks my heart, slowly but surely and painfully. This is bad, I am hurting but I still want him even though he can’t feel the same towards me. Maybe you’re right, every love must be unconditional.
i need help says
January 21, 2018 at 6:15 pmSo I’ve developed strong feelings towards my best friend. And like throughout the past four years we’ve become close friends, but it started off with us going out when we were pretty small, so that didn’t last long cause yeah. anyway, like we became best friends like three years ago, when I developed a huge crush on him, and then a year later I got over him, but then I had like small crushes on him throughout the next year, and then he kind o liked me a year after that, but the timing was wrong, and like then a few months after that I started to develop very strong feelings for him, and now we are here.
So basically like a two weeks ago I told him how I felt about him, and he said that he also really liked me but he really didn’t want to risk our friendship. That conversation didnt last very long and I agreed with him and then I just told him that I had to tell him how I feel. Anyway, there was this mix up where I thought we were a thing, so I asked him and he responded that he did really like me but that he doesn’t want to ruin our friendship and that he would be in pieces if something happened to our relationship. Anyway then I told him that it was stupid of me to tell him, and then he said that I wasn’t stupid because he really does feel the same way about me, then he told me that he thinks about me a lot and that it’s really hard for him to make this decision of just staying friends but he is thinking about what is better for the long term and then he told me I (and this other guy who is his best friend) were his best friends in the world and he wouldn’t change that for anything.
I don’t know what to do, I mean we are both super like open about it and we can easily discuss it, but first off, I feel like I kind of ruined our friendship already just by telling him, because he doesn’t talk to me as much, and he also talks to me differently, like he doesn’t like make mean jokes about me because he doesn’t want to hurt me. Secondly I don’t think he really likes me that much, I think he is just slightly attracted to me but idk, and like there was this one day when he was being like extra nice and cute, and we were hanging out with our friends and he was just cuddling with me on the couch (we were all watching a football match) and like we were holding hands and every few minutes he would like glance at me and smile. Now at school he just finds excuses to like touch me and hug me, but then other times he doesn’t really talk to me or like go near me. I’m so confused. I’m also really scared that we are missing out on a relationship that could be great, and I’m also scared that he will get over me before I get over him and then I will just feel even worse about not ever going out with him, and I’ll feel like I missed out on a great chance. And like I really like him a lot, and the best part of the day is when I talk to him. I’m very confused and I can’t stop thinking about him and I have no idea what to do, or if there is even anything to do at this point.
*sorry for all the spelling mistakes and parts that don’t make sense*
Bree says
January 22, 2018 at 8:59 amI have fallen in love with a guy but every since I met him he told me that he couldn’t love again that he could only be my friend the reason being is that his ex wife cheated on him and I really like him and I know he likes me but at the same time he tells me he doesn’t want to hurt me because he can’t love anyone again. What can I due
Garrett says
January 22, 2018 at 11:50 amThis information although useful was not what I was looking for, I’m in a Romeo and Juliet scenario where we both love eachother immensely and have no trouble showing it but her parents hate me for being alive. If you have information that would help me I’d appreciate it.