Falling in love is the best feeling in this world. I know many of you think that love hurts a lot, partners are not trustworthy, they don’t understand your feelings or only you love them they don’t. If you feel all these negative things then please read this each and every word of it, with a practical approach. I am sure, it will help you a lot to enjoy your love rather than regretting it. This is one of the worse things that can happen to anyone, falling in love with someone you can’t have.
>The most challenging phase of love is when you fall in love with someone, whom you can’t get or not even think of getting him/her in your life. It hurts sometimes, and you even feel very painful when you miss that person. Loving someone is not in your control, it’s just a feeling and tough to get over it.
Now, it’s up to you that how you take this love in your life, with a positive approach or negative approach? Having a negative approach has kept on crying for that person, who don’t take you more than a friend and not even notice your tears. Another approach is to take the feeling positively and enjoy the moment to the fullest.
How to be in love when another person when another person don’t love you back:
- Think in a positive way:
If you think that providing tips is very easy and applying them is very difficult than just for five days try to apply these tips with a positive approach. No tips can make your life better unless you want it to be better. If you will keep sympathy with yourself and expecting same with others, you won’t able to enjoy the feeling of true love.
- Expectations:
True Love is always unconditional, then why you start expecting that the person should love you back?
If you are expecting to return the love back as much as you love him/her then it’s not true love. Why can’t you just love that person? Love is neither a business nor a give and takes relationship. How you can think of love when you have so many expectations. Even if he/she doesn’t reply to your text messages, emails or phone calls, why you get hurt? You want to convey your feelings, and you did that. Don’t ever expect that the person will respond it back otherwise it will hurt you for sure.
- Don’t force them to love you:
The main reason for not getting the person you love is that they don’t love you or might be committed to someone else. Think once from his/her point of view, you might not be the one he/she is looking for. Everyone has their choice, and they have all rights to choose the one they find interesting and loving to them. You can never force anyone to fall in love with you.
The day you will stop crying for your love, you will start enjoying it. If you find it tough to get over the person you love then waits for my next article for tips to get over someone you love.
But yes, the best advice would move on. Life is short, and there is no point in waiting and falling in love with someone you can’t have. Instead, find someone special, who completes you.
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I am madly in love with my bestfriend’s brother, it ‘s been 2 years and i can’t move on, my brother is never going to be okay with it. We cuddle all the times and talk’s a lot , we even kissed in the summer… When school started he just ignored me but i don t get to see him a lot because he is 2 years older than me , i am 14 and he is 16 he will never love me! I cry myself to sleep everynight and i act like i am fine but i am not i am broken.. I can’t talk to this to anyone because they don’t understand. I also travelled with him it was awesome, people from there said we were a couple.
But i will never be with someone like him i am just a game for him.
You are in love with an idea. You loved what you thought he did for you. You need to learn to do for yourself what you needed him to do for you. If you can learn to love yourself more, you will not urine so badly for someone else to do it. Obviously, he was not able and was never going to be the person you wanted him to be.
Hi my name is tiara I been going thru a lots of stuff lately, I’m 21 years old I met this guy when I was leaving school one day he followed me asking “miss can I get your number please ” I said “no why do you want my number ” he responded ” because I kinda like you ” so I gave him my number we started to text each other, not even in a week he text me to come hang out with him at his house I said OK so I went to his house we talked laugh giggle all that good stuff u could imagine, now he wanted to have sexual intercourse with me I said no we just met his like I understand but I’m a good guy ???? …. I let him do what ever he wanted he would tell me to come to his house every day sometimes I skip skl to go see him one day I call him he didn’t answer neither my text messages so I kept calling him texting him all at I would tell him I miss him… After all this I can’t eat without thinking about him I can’t do nothing in this world without thinking about him I would cry anytime I think about him etccc I’m in love with him I saw him 3days ago and it seems like he was really happy to see me he kept saying “why you look so gorgeous & sexy” and he kept playing with my hands like nothing happens… I need help because I deeply fall in love with this guy idk what to do I can’t do nothing in this world without thinking about him ????????????????????
Get your shit together. Don’t let a guy make you feel this way, he is not worth it. Although, you may be too in love and blind to see it,he is clearly just using you to have sex. Focus on your school because no guy will ever be able to take away your career. You deserve better, don’t fall into his trap I guarantee that you’ll regret it.
Hiii..
I’ve fallen for someone in my office but he’s already had a girlfriend who is really beautiful, hot and rich. Both of them looks like deeply in love each other. But these day, I had a chance to know him better because he need my help for his job. And the more I know him, I start to see another me in him. The way he think, he act, how he treat the other people are just like me. And I don’t realize, since when he start to call me pretty, and do something nice for me. I think I fall to his trap or what, because he need to reach his work goals and he need me for that so he is being “the nice guy” . I don’t know. The one that I know is my mind is blur and I’m affraid to get hurt.
I fell in love 30 years ago for the most beautiful woman I ever met, but she went with someone else down a very dark path. She is now in prison for life. I have been married 26 years now but am still in love with her and think of her everyday. We write to each other, but when I write to her my heart dictates my words.
I fell in love with someone at work. It all started with a work event. I had always thought he was cute but after that event I got a chance to talk to him and that’s when cupid was out to get me, we talked, laughed and it just felt like I knew him from before so he got into my heart without me knowing he had a gf. A few weeks later I found out he was taken but I already had feelings for him. The worst is that I am in a committed relationship myself, I wasn’t looking for this. Love snuck up on me, I didn’t know my heart was free. So we kept talking and saw each other a few weeks after that. We have made out a few times and we both want more but it cannot be. I love him and he likes me but he just wants fun. My feelings would probably lead me to more but my head won’t, I just can’t have him. I gotta move on. ????????????????
I am in a committed relationship when I met this guy. He is really fun to be with. We share the same likes and hobbies. After a while, he opened up that gf broke up with him & that it hurt him. I tried to be there for him as much as I can to be of help..Until such time we started to sweet talk with each other, call each other with endearments, open more deeply about each others lives, even exchanged “i love yous”. He said as long as we both have love and trust for each other, we’ll be fine. One day, he said he’s going to his xgf’s house to see if they can still fix it. He came back to me and acted the same. I didnt wanna ask what happened to their talk coz I want him to open up but he didn’t. Weeks went on, we became sweeter and sweeter to each other. Then one day, I sent him a message with which he immediately replied using another account & telling me to reply there instead so his gf won’t see any message in the old account. that’s when i knew they were back together. and yet we still spend time with each other too even more than we spend with our partners. I dont know what will happen. i’m scared to lose what we have. idk. guess im not ready to face it. i hope it’s easy.. 🙁 🙁 🙁
I’m inlove with a guy which is 19 and I’m 17…we have been friends with benefits,we had sex several times the only problem I’m falling inlove with him and he doesn’t feel this same way
My boyfriend and i hav been together for 4 years…we were forced into a breakup because his family had a certain bride in mind for him..now he’s getting engaged and it just hurts…
Well, I fell in love with another man 5 years ago. After reading this article, maybe it’s best that I just let it go. Because I want so badly to be in a real relationship with him and he can’t and won’t right now. I want a divorce. And I want to just live happily and peacefully as much as possible. I’m tired of being hurt. I’m tired of caring so much.
I had just joined the university when i met this guy, so charming indeed. I loved him wholly though he didnt love me back. unfortunately i just was a game to him, he used me & within a month, he began avoiding me. what hurts the most is that i can’t keep him to myself, he doesnt care at all. But surprisingly am still in love with him
Hi my name is Q. V .. …
I hav been in love wd a gal for 5 yers we evn contact wd one anotr i evn proposed her bt her reply always says no .. .. Last yer dt ws 2016 i proposed her again n on 24th night november she said yes n we ws n a relationship n aftr sum days on 17 of december she said she cnt do it nymore … Wch hurts me so mch… .. I dnt knw wt to do or say to her now .. … So now ma pLan s work hard hav a good job n ask 4 her to merry me wn m ready .. dts wt i wna suprise her.. .. I Love her so mch….
Dont worry he will understand your love oneday.you should wait for it.
Hi, I’m Teri and I’m a lesbian. I’ve known this girl for more than a couple years now. And I’m in love with her. We began on the pretenses of not going for a relationship but as I hung out with her more and more my feelings grew. It was quite clear to me that she felt the same. She would confess little things to me and sometimes we’d spend days together just talking,cuddling. This wasn’t intentional but why hold back on love? So I told her how I truly felt. She never responded to me and never returned the love. I got angry and felt like I had been dealt the hand of injustice. How could she not see how amazing we are together? From then on she has gone back and forth between girls and I simply do not trust her. But I have yet to stop crying. I feel like there is a hole in my heart. Just wish I could just move on from this…
i love my bestfriend … from my heart … the most loving person in my life till now … but she do not have any feelings regards love … i want her in my life till i die … she is the most naughty girl i saw … but i dont know why .. but i love her the most …