Why Do We Miss Someone?

We always wonder that when we miss someone, is it because we love that person, we like that person or maybe it’s just an infatuation?  We keep on fighting with ourselves that what’s the reason for missing that person? Some time we also miss people we hate. Many times we also miss people we fight all the time but when they are not around.

But, when you want to continue relationship with the person you keep on missing, you need to be clear with your intention. According to me there might be following reasons:

  • You also miss someone special when you are in love with that person
  • It might be infatuation ( just for a few days ).
  • You respect her/his qualities.
  • That person is always with you when you need someone to lean on.

Miss Someone

Whatever may be the reason, I would say it’s a very nice feeling to miss someone. You keep on thinking about that person whole day and night or if it’s worst you might start imagining him/her near you.

Many people feel that it’s the worst feeling to miss someone, but I totally disagree with this. I feel it’s the sweet pain and you can for sure enjoy missing someone. The only thing you need to remember is that you have to miss the golden moment you spend with each other. Please don’t ever miss bad times you spend with that person. Always try to cherish the good moments and it will surely bring a smile on your face.

Another thing which people do is to hide their feelings in front of person they are missing. You must keep your ego aside and convey your feelings to that person. Life is too short; if you love or you miss someone do let them know. If that person understands you, it would never ruin your relationship.

Love is missing someone whenever you’re apart, but somehow feeling warm inside because you’re close in heart.  ~Kay Knudsen

What do you do, when you miss someone?

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  • Dodot May 21, 2016, 7:23 am

    Is it possible to miss someone even though you haven’t seen her yet?

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    • Didi June 17, 2016, 12:43 pm

      It is, its happening to me. I met this person online which I haven’t met only thru pics and we talked one time by phone. Haven’t heard from him for a while and I’m missing him like crazy.

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    • Bridgett July 25, 2016, 8:57 am

      The soul knows….. Hearts are connected even before we meet. Love is mysterious and works in different ways that are not logical and practical…

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    • Yeni September 19, 2016, 6:54 pm

      Of course possible. Becouse love is blind and once when you loved someone truly, your feeling will never die even that person broke your relationship

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  • didi May 30, 2016, 6:22 pm

    Tq,now i’m fell more better

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  • love June 23, 2016, 4:59 pm

    I met this guy in grade 2. I did not know why i hated him but as time went on we become best friends and later i fall deeply in love with him. I never understood the feelings between like and love. As time went by he made lot of promises to me which were similar to marriage. After all his promises he left the country to US. Few years ago i gatthered courage to tell him how i feel. Since that day i have been having this strange feelings of wanting to see him and this feelings keeps on get stronger. Please Ruchi help me to know why this feels keeps on growing stronger.

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  • Jane July 27, 2016, 12:43 pm

    It’s killing me inside not telling him i miss him,and i don’t want to tell him

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  • A August 3, 2016, 9:48 pm

    I feel better. Thank you for this responds.

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  • Likhona Fihlani September 11, 2016, 12:11 am

    I met this guy 7 years ago and we fell inlove with eachother but it never lasted because I was in high school and he was in University. The funny thing is we still connect and we love eachother so much but cannot be with eachother as we are both in serious relationships. I can sense him when he is thinking about me and I feel like our souls connect. He once told me he also feels that way. I just cannot stop loving him it hurts. I miss him like crazy!

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  • Quen September 15, 2016, 5:29 pm

    I’ve been through… Three long relationships that were connected but not connected in the right way. The first boyfriend I felt bonded to but then we grew apart. Then the two after that were not so good. But anyways, what’s uncanny about this is I fell in love with someone a few years after dating anyone. And an unquestionable connection from the moment we first saw eachother, which I’m talking like deep spiritual connection like I had met him before in a past life or something. He claimed the same. but I just moved to where I am now only just before I met him. So we had no way of actually knowing eachother. anyways.. He’s kind of an odd one, we were doing music together and I kinda had a small crush on him. We slept together once during a night of wine and we never spoke about it again. Then a few months later we were doing music and started hitting it off more and we started dating for 4 months. Not very long considering my other exes were long..

    So this is what’s eating my soul out. We kept getting into small fights. From the get go he claimed I could trust him and he trusts me. Then he lied to me. And shit hit the fan after that cause my fault is if someone lies to me, my trust is automatically shot because of past issues with a lot more than just boys. Anyways ultimately we broke up because I just couldn’t trust him because he kept lying even more. Nothing about anything he should’ve been lying about… It’s why it boggles me. But all in all… I miss him, I hurt every time a memory flashes back of all the amazing times we had.. In 4 months I did more with him than anyone else in my life. We went to the states, to like 5 concerts..

    When we broke up, he said ‘I love you …goodbye until we are better.’ He kept his relationship up but I deleted Facebook. For a bit. Then a week later… I still hasn’t heard from him since our last fight… Then I saw he was adding like sex people as followers on Instagram which wasn’t… Like him(with me anyways). So I took off my relationship status entirely off Facebook so nothing was seen … Then he just changed his to single after seeing that we weren’t together via Facebook. So like that pissed me off of course and I shot him a text. Then he replies with ‘I didn’t realize you just took your status off.. But I wasn’t good enough for you and I jumped into something I was ready for, I shoulda ended it a lot sooner.’

    I was both angry and sad at this point. Because how could I take that? He was perfect to me but somehow I made him feel too imperfect. On the other hand I was told by a lot of people he was using me. Because I have a good car to drive him everywhere and I got him… Probably way too many things. As much as I didn’t want to believe them… Most the time he didn’t do much for me, he wouldn’t even go to one of my shows. But at the same time.. I know that love wasn’t fake. I’ve had guys that never loved me and I know the difference.

    I’m ranting but I’ve never actually got this out. I never seen him after that last fight before we even broke up. We broke up a week after that fight. It’s been 3 months now. He asked if I would have coffee with him sometime like… A month ago on text but like , I said yes and he said okay tomorrow then now it’s been another month and still nothing.. This is something I HAVE to get over. And as much as I think I’m over it, I get that dull ache if he comes to my head. And it sucks. How do you let go of someone you know you were meant for <and I normally HATE seeing when people say stiff like that but that's because I never understood it before. It's nothing to do with looks, build, Infact quite opposite, I was attracted to him, like his personality, the way he was; his quirks, like fuck. I need someone to zap him from my memory

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  • Lena October 2, 2016, 1:55 pm

    So I haven’t seen this guy for several months, and not to mention that he’s the first guy I had sex with. We never contacted each other afterwards (this situation is a little complicated and too detailed to say). But to move on, I deleted his number. There was a period of time when I was definitely over him for sure. But there are times like these days when I miss him so badly, I just want to see him and let it be just more than sex. But I was just worried that it is just sex for him. I’m just confused if it’s infatuation or if it’s my soul telling me something.

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  • JJC October 12, 2016, 3:09 am

    I miss someone that I truly care about and have for years. I can’t tell her because she likes my friend. I don’t know what to do because I feel sick without her and then when I am with her I feel great! I have tried and tried to be around her more but I am not sure she really wants me around. We have been friends for so long and I don’t want to risk losing my friendship. Please help.

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