We always wonder that when we miss someone, is it because we love that person, we like that person or maybe it’s just an infatuation? We keep on fighting with ourselves that what’s the reason for missing that person? Some time we also miss people we hate. Many times we also miss people we fight all the time but when they are not around.
But, when you want to continue relationship with the person you keep on missing, you need to be clear with your intention. According to me there might be following reasons:
- You also miss someone special when you are in love with that person
- It might be infatuation ( just for a few days ).
- You respect her/his qualities.
- That person is always with you when you need someone to lean on.
Whatever may be the reason, I would say it’s a very nice feeling to miss someone. You keep on thinking about that person whole day and night or if it’s worst you might start imagining him/her near you.
Many people feel that it’s the worst feeling to miss someone, but I totally disagree with this. I feel it’s the sweet pain and you can for sure enjoy missing someone. The only thing you need to remember is that you have to miss the golden moment you spend with each other. Please don’t ever miss bad times you spend with that person. Always try to cherish the good moments and it will surely bring a smile on your face.
Another thing which people do is to hide their feelings in front of person they are missing. You must keep your ego aside and convey your feelings to that person. Life is too short; if you love or you miss someone do let them know. If that person understands you, it would never ruin your relationship.
Love is missing someone whenever you’re apart, but somehow feeling warm inside because you’re close in heart. ~Kay Knudsen
What do you do, when you miss someone?
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missing someone is only because you care for him/her. and if you are caring for someone don’t hide your feelings as it is very important.
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Nice Said Khalid. Thanks for sharing your views.
I always miss him, want to show my care to him. However, he wants to push me far from him, so sad! If I should continue taking care of him?
That’s sad leviast, I can understand how you might be feeling but I guess you should keep on caring for him but make sure you are not bugging him and not interfering in his life. It’s not necessary that the one you love also love you, do respect his feelings and don’t get rude if he is not caring for you. If you feel that he don’t care about your feelings and ignore you then I would suggest you to move on, there are lots of other people in this world who needs your love and care.
Ruchi
thanks for your comment i liked it but some time you miss someone that you cant carry on so what he/she needs to that somehow make him/her understand that how much he love’s you.
thanks
I miss him a lot, n cry when I miss him but can’t c him! We worked together for few monthes then he left the job! We went out few times! I feel comfortable with him n happy! I like the feeling when he is next to me… Since him left the job we only met once for dinner. I text him sometime but his offten didn’t reply… Or just very short message…. He’s very busy n tired with the new job, which I understood! But I just feel sad when he didn’t reply my message! He said he likes me too… But I’m not sure what kind of like, as a friend or girlfriend…. He never make clear our relationship situation! I don’t know if he considers I’m his girlfriend or just a friend! I really miss him now!!! N really don’t know what should I do…….. I tried to forget about him n delete his number, but I can’t hold on for long time…. Somehow I found his number again n text him….. Sometimes I will write down the message I want to send him then send it to myself! I don’t want to scare him n make him think I’m crazy….. When we met I told him I missed him n cried for him sometime, he don’t said anything n just silent! How can I end this painful feelings!!!?????? Dear God, plz help me…….
Hi Sunny,
We posted your problem on our FB page and here are few replies:
1. He ain’t that into you dear sorry
2. in one hand…
u better just share about ur feelings n emotions that are for him,if its difficult then,
in the other hand… u must ask him how he takes ur relationship with him,just as a friend or as a gf,sometimes we miss understand our friendship relation.
But here,i think he is nt intrested as much as u do care for him…problems usually arises to solve not to make it more complex,just make it clear as this situation comes in everyone life either earlier or later…
As u know,one sided love relations never be fruitful,so better u find truth in your own effort…dont fall deep inside in a damn scary well with out knowing its depth…
3. The best way is to Ignore ‘him’. Only this can make him back to you…
4. I agree to Tanmay just ignore him and wait if he will make a way to talk to you…reverse psychology! let him feel what u feel every time he ignores you… We have same situation, my bf said that he likes me but he never say if he loves me.. And i feel sometimes that he’s just treating me like a friend coz there’s no fondness in his messages to me.. you’ll get use to it, if u can’t endure then leave him and never contact him..
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Thx everyone!! I think I will talk to him next time we meet! I will tell him my feelings and make clear the relationship situation between us! My heart is very tired n my tears r running out… If is time to let go n move on… I will just let it be…. Thx again everyone!
maybe you got used to his presence and when dont see him/her anymore then you start to feel that something is missing in your heart and when you realize that this is the reason then you cant get it out of your mind
the only way to forget is NOT to work cause this is not something happy but to hang out with friends if you have time if you dont then try not to talk about it !!! try to find somebody else to replace his\her presentation even if you know that he \her is not the one the sure thing is that you will have the opportunity to think about something else
but when you see the person who you are truly in love try to do the first baby step!!!
When you miss someone, very deeply, it mean you like or love the person. It is a sweet feeling, it keeps you restless and little satisfied too due to the imagination of the person you are missing. You think all the moments you shared with him/her. You are lucky if you miss some one, please do not hesitate and covey this to the person whom you are missing. This is my personal experience.
Only lucky peoples may have feeling of missing someone. Eventhough If I don’t ever meet again the person I missed, but happy to carry the person in my heart. I really miss my love….
Agree Shafig, When you are away from someone and miss them, you start realizing how much you love them. Hope you get your love one soon
It has been 3 months I have moved on but I still have him in my mind. I won’t see him anymore but I guess that I keep thinking of him is because that there are matters that I / we have not reached a closure.
This happened to me 2 what should I doi still care about him but I feel we don’t have any closure.
I really miss my mom. Since my parents are divorced and i live with my mom, I always have some one to cry on when my dad leaves. My mom has to go to the States for a little while for her job. I justs feel like crying single day……and i do but not in front of a person. But my friends have really helped me through this.
Missing someone makes us breathless..m missing my shonu very much…he is my life..he has gone to Dubai..so m missing him like hell..also weeping
missing someone is a very very beautiful experience, its funny how all you can thing we you are apart from that person is only what they ll be doing, have they eaten, do they think about you and all that but once you meet them…. our world becomes complete… mind stops wandering…. we feel that time should stop there…. the person who is so close to me is going away for a month… cant think how much i am gonna miss him… hope i have that much strength…
After I matriculated I decided to keep my friends limited….so I kept 1 his always thr 4 me wen I need him n his nva let me down his my best friend but he recently went dubai for 3 weeks n its only been 4 days…..I miss him allot n I’m beginning to feel like its abit more den jus friendship….wat to do…
Sometimes we miss the love the other person gave us….
I pretend that I don’t care but everytime I see you my heart crashes..If you could only understand how much I love you and miss you..
I have your perfume still.. It reminds me good things
Isnt it funny?! I keep his also, well he left it behind bc he knew how much I liked the smell, but tje thing is that even like that, it doesnt smell the same. I miss him all the time, but I kno that our relationship wouldnt work no more.
Sometimes I wonder when il stop missing him. I hate to admitt it, but I still love him, I wanna say as much as I did when we were recently married.
Missing Someone because of u can’t do what u want with him/her.
Missing Someone best to let them know…
There is a special FEELING after u tell them.
They will join Missing wit u in a moment after u tell them~
I Really miss my xxx, i know i miss him alone~
i can forced him to got me but i can’t force him to say I Love U there was alway like instead of love all the time i asked him…
i am missing my best friend sooooo much ,,he is not with me just because i told him i cant be friends with him.,he went away.,
i miss him all the time, he was always there for me when i needed him, and he’s gone and i need him. i don’t know what to do and there is no way for me to get in touch, i feel lost without him around and i feel like something is missing, he is always on my mind and no matter how hard i try to forget i just can’t. please someone tell me what i should do :’(
May be this will help you: How to forget your ex
The one I miss, I send e mails and some carefully selected youtube songs. He sometimes reciprocates, and I feel great on the inside! I really do love him, but I want to be certain that he feels the same way.
aslamo alakum! we miss someone when we start take interest in someone.we love that person we respect him or her that’s why we miss someone.
come on guys! Don’t get too emotional, in half of these cases it’s just you who care for the other part, why not be realistic and move on instead of insisting on the sweetness of this very devastating feeling! The same here, in unilateral love for almost 2 years, suffering from anorexia after I found out he doesn’t have the same feelings for me and now struggling to forget this idiot whom i LOVE!
Life sucks!
You need to love yourself. This is what i feel for you. You said it right being realistic is getting your objectives right. So focus on your being and your Professional and Personal groom it where you wish to take. Afterall some one said we meet people for Reason, Season and Life time.
I agree with you.
Thats true. However, easy said than done and at first it is very difficult.
I miss her:( wer not as close as we used to be. Sometimes i just feel like telling her my feelings but im scared she’ll just laugh at me and move on. I always have that fear she might leave me broken hearted. Shes beautiful. The most beautiful girl i’ve ever seen. And im, well, me. Im ugly. Our looks dont match but our personality does. Someone please tell me what to do, give me some advise!
Hey Unknown, Firstly If you love someone you must tell her. There are chances that she will accept it, coz its not always about looks when it comes to long term love relationship. If she is kind of girl who will make fun of your feelings then she is not worth your love and such people don’t deserve true love. You should express your love and if you need any help, you can always contact us. Wish u luck.
You must tell her how you feel. Those feelings can be mutual. I
I’m in my late teens and i met a cool young man 7years older than me.
At 1st i didn’t like the old man lol thats what i called him because he was a showoff type and a player lol.
We seen eachother daily at a bus stop he went to work i went to school.
He would annoyingly joke around alot and make me angry lol.
The one day i lost my phone but he found it cause i left it rushing off the bus.
After that day my life changed forever. He put his number in my phone and on a chat app i use. I found myself chatting secretly to him at school and i loved to joke
with him and treated him as a older brother. But for a few months our friendship got deeper and i can say i loved him . He avoided me for a whole day and that night he opened up that he really liked me every little thing about me. I did too but after all the confessing all things changed… We did go on a date for a day but the next day he changed… I believe that night when he was with his friend changed him… After that day he became more pushy and he broke my heart the way he acted… I never seen him since or contacted him and its been a week now.
I miss him so much… Lol sorry so long!
Have you try talking to him after that day? Try to approach him and be honest about what you wanted him to know. After all the conffession if he will still avoid you atleast you have done your part. NO GUTS NO GLORY !!!!
Its been 5 years sins I moved away leaving the girl I LOVE behind.. The pain has grown more and mkre every single min..never giving up am finally going back to HER
it hurts and leaves me breathless waiting to see her 
Dont you realized that you are wasting your time waiting for that girl. You should GO on with your life and find your HAPPINESS. Move on and Let Go.
The really thing about missing someone is its the worse pain ever…there is no sweetness! Its a nerve racking pain, and it hurts especially your heart, and it could shorten your life! (depending on the degree of the pain/missing)
Now i miss my friend, who no longer is my friend, she never thinks of me, i think of her all the time to the point i fantasize! I cry all the time it hurts so much I haven’t spoken to her in about 1 year, and i feel i will always miss her for ever, i have missed her for so long even when we were friends 7 years of knowing her…
Now i saw her today and i hide why? I turned around pretending i didn’t see her – she also kept her distance acting like she didn’t see me, and i saw her head hiding behind someone in front of her…why did i or her do this? We don’t even want to acknowledge each other…i miss her so much but can’t face her anymore….its getting harder and harder!
Also…i heard when you miss someone so much, that you feel your contacted or have a strong feeling to that person…it means the other person doesn’t like you at all. If you miss that person…70% of the time that person is over you and has moved on!
I am thingking is there any INSTANCE or SCENARION that is so AWFUL that drives your friendship to pust away each other? It might be the reason why you both are suffering. Both of you are in DENIAL that you both EXIST!!!
Yes it is very painful but try to be in touch with that person or start a new life ( but make sure you dont forget him) because who knows when how get him or her .
Sometimes i miss someone. But It does not stand for long time to me…I could not understand what’s the reason behind this. The person could be my friend, female , relatives etc.
It’s easy to miss someone while they’re gone. The most confusing emotion I’ve ever felt is missing someone while they’re asleep in the next room. People don’t stay the same, and sometimes it’s far too easy to miss who someone used to be.
missing HIM is like I had lost my SHADOW…
We both have our own life now, whether by destiny, desire or accident. It is the vocation that we both choose to have. I’m sure you don’t regret it and very much happy with it. This I believe is my final goodbye; we both have to learn to face the reality of being with someone else. Maybe, you have done it already. Maybe, I’m the only one trying to hang on. But, what ever the case, rest assured that you will always occupy a special place in my heart.
Try having to say bye to someone for 4 years and having to only have contact through letters and phone calls. I miss my boyf so much. He just called but he has to hang up after just a short time because he is in prison because he made a stupid mistake. We write to each other all the time and he calls me every night to say goodnight but it costs so much we can only talk for a few minutes and it’s monitored. I love him to bits and he loves me but he has also said if I was to meet someone who made me happy in the next 4 years then he’d be happy for me, but I dont want anyone else, only him as he is worried I will waste my life hanging around waiting.
Thats very sweet if him
I fell in love with someone who lived near to me, i moved area and left him behind. We also lost contact. Its been 3 years now and he is still on my mind unfortunately i make believe he is near me thats how absurd this feeling is. I have also been in a relationship with someone else to forget the pain but it didnt work. So he recently tried to contact me and i put a closure to this by writing him a letter telling him to move on with his life but yet i cant let go? Its been so long why am i still missing him? What am i holding onto? I know theres plenty fish in the sea and i want to be with someone new but i feel like im being deceiptful. This ‘missing someone’ feeling…i wish it would dissapear.
i wake up last nyte around 2:30 am i cry so hard beacause of that dream. i am crying on a bench and then i heard my ex boyfriends voice saying that he dont care about me. again and again he keep on telling that word “I DONT CARE BOUT YOU ANYMORE ” it really hurts alot, and so i get up and am hardly crying. i miss him so much.
Someone who is like that doesn’t deserve you. Try hanging out with friends some more.
Hello,
I stumbled onto your website because my mom died a month ago. I wanted to see if there was a remedy out there somewhere for missing someone so much that it feels like your heart has been….without question….broken. I read what you wrote in it’s entirety. I gave it a lot of thought but I am sorry to say that I disagree with you. I know this was a death, but I also went threw an extremely painful divorce. The pain that I felt for that was different than this, but my pain felt like and feels like agony and I really don’t want to feel it anymore. I am regrettable saying that for me, there is no place for anything sweet here. You just have to find the right resources and discover your very own way of dealing with the loss. I think that there are many different ways and there is something out there for everyone. Nice website. I like it a lot and I like the comments that many people have made. I’m glad that I stumbled onto it.
I have a galfreind she spends 3 months with me the rest she will be away and that has been going on for about 4 years ive let some gals pass by cause i feel so loyal to her wen she is around i feel like the world is all about the 2 of us , i miss her soo much my problem is m afraid that what if she thinks otherwise wen i have invested all these years in our relationship.i love e gal
it has been 2 weeks since we’ve been together with the person i love, because my parents do not want us to be together. days without that person was so hard, there were sleepless nights, can’t eat much because of the thought that i miss that person. last Tuesday we spend a day together though it was just for few hours cause we have to go back to our places and for the fact that i escaped from my parents. and it’s 4 hours away. after that while i was on the bus, i felt my heart aching thinking of when would we meet again. that night i was crying, i became so emotional. i love that person so much. since then every night i fall asleep crying. what can i do? i do understand that we have to bear it that we cannot be together that much unlike before.
So I’m moving to Florida and my parents left me and my brother to find us a condo for when we move…. My mom got us someone to stay over night with us and feed us… My mom’s co worker Danielle got the job and she was pretty cool. She let us eat whatever, stay up super late, loves dubstep, and enjoyed playing mine craft with my brother and I. She left today and I’m sad and all teary Im a girl just so you know, and I do this with everyone else too…idk I haven’t even touched anything she has touched. Right now Im playing draw something and texting her. (btw she has a unicorn pillow pet named Charles xD)
countless tears…wrists and armfuls of scars…so many bottles of pills ive lost count…6 razor blades…many packs of cigarettes..2 sucide attempts..259 days,thats 8 months,2 weeks,and 5 days later…i still miss him… i still c r y..i still
c u t…i still h u r t…i still feel all a l o n e…i still s m o k e…im still not o v e r it…even though my mom got a 2 year restraining order on him,he almost got 2 other girls pregnant,hes on probation,i almost went to juvie and soo any more complications…it doesnt change anything…i doesnt change my heart,the memories,or the love i have for him…they say im too young to understand,but we dont believe them..now what do i do?im so lost….
No one in this whole entire blog has said what it is. We miss people because they added to our lives, they made us feel more important than we previously felt, they made us dream about things we didn’t think were possible. Most important is knowing how to deal with the feeling of missing someone. IT IS NOT A BAD THING AT ALL. YES, IT IS SWEET. 100% SWEET… for you see, it means that we were blessed enough with the presence of something truly beautiful in our lives, it means we are lucky bastards, it means we have a role model to now follow, it means we now have more direction, it means we know the path we must follow to reach more beautiful things of that nature and if we stay on that path eventually we are bound to turn, ourselves, into that very thing we yearn for or we’ll stumble into more of that thing we love.
Hey thank you for making things so much clear neither the author of this really explained .what you say truly makes sense .He added a little bit to my life that thing that I was missing before I met him and that felling that I miss to feel.
I miss him all the time,,.. he texts me daily…if we are apart….it’s been a year. ..but I never told him so…” I miss you or I love you”…. sure, I show that I care about him..he is more like a friend of mine… unlike me he is more open up to me
he tells me that he misses me and want me to go somewhere with him..but I always acte like I don’t want you!!! I always push him away from me ,,
the reasons why I didn’t tell him…because I’m afraid of being not capable to have my word with him…
& cuz I know the reality what is like… he is not wealthy & handsome neither a part of my social class… once I think to myself of ending my friendship with him I feel so much pain….I don’t know what to do,,, but I KNOW I’m so in love with him
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how to forget someone whom u lov very much..whom u care a lot..but u know very well u r not going to live with him..I am missing someone a lot..crying..evn unable to control myself..its giving me pain..i cant tolerate..:( “:(
hi
i miss my man wid whom my marriage was fixed but ryt now its everything is finished.he doesnt feel the same.i cant stop myself from contacting him….though i think i wont…..but he never contacts me…every moment i miss him…i think its love…when everything was going fyn…i never thot it ll be finished one day..i ll miss him so much…actually its a arranged one…so i thot love ll happen gradually…but now i wen i miss him…i realize that i love him…though he doesnt feel the same…how to forget him…as he has moved ahead…i also want to move….but i am stuck somewhere where he had left me…
I really miss her i know i sound crazy but evenn if i dont speak to her for literally 3 hrs i feel incrediably sad..i think iam going crazy i have nevet bern like dis in my life, shuld i ask her out? But im scared if she dosent accepts me everything will b ruined.. help me plz..
I do miss this person. Right now i wont risk to put my heart out there again. Maybe as time go by. He will slways be in my heart. We both hsve different lives. God can only make that happen.
I miss my ex.. she is with someone else now and sleeps at his house a lot and comes back to town when she see’s her mom. it’s difficult for me because a lot of the things that she used to do with me she now does with him. It’s a pain to sleep at night sometimes, I wake up in sweats and have dreams of them. It sounds ridiculous and absurd but it’s what happens and I don’t understand why. I go to work, see my friends and try to focus on myself but for some reason I keep thinking about her. It’s like she wont leave my mind. Like honestly, dreams??? this has never happened to me before and sometimes I think its an obsessional dillusion or something. Please send some advice!
Dee
what can you do more.You have shown own feeling and care for her yet she is not interested in you.I know its hard to forget so better to move some elsewhere apart from that place.I know how ever her shadow will with you but be lean in some work so that you can not get time to think about her.
What i suggest you yaar.I am self a patient of this.I am trying to forget her.You dont know how much i weep for that girl.Knowing that she had spent time with a boy what day and night both…I loved her.But she dont wana stopped for someone.Being with she talks hour and hour with other one.How ever i love.But i hate to see her.However i go her house to see her.
Such a how big stupid i am..Is it love?? Not its ridiculous what i am doing.
You suggest me that what should i do..
Hmmm all that is mentioned above holds true in my case…i love my love can’t call him ex coz collin him ex wud b like dat nw he’s nt a part of me ….which according to me is jus nothing more den absured…coz itz been an year dat v’r nt together …but still he is in my mind , memory , heart moreover which no one can believ is dat he’s still in my talks …to anyone and wotever i talk my wrds never ends up until i speak about him….i knw he olso misses me d same way as i do but will never say …..i wish if he comes bak to me…i wud b so happy d day he will be back to me ….i have hurt him a lotzzz so i guess dis is my punishment ……i dun hav any complaints wid him …jus shona cme back …realised that i forced you to become wot ur today…..but promise jus one more chance and jus with my love will bring you to my old shona…….plzzz forgive me for my misbehaviour…….
i miss him so much after we chat..but when he is there talking w/ me,it’s as if just want to stare at him all the time and making fun of him..my gosh..is it sign of being in love w/ him??
I miss my husband – he is on a trip with his first wife. I am his secret second wife. Being secret makes it xtremely difficult to spend time together. He is truly an amazing man. I wish that women outside of the Arab countries would understand and accept the Shariah ruling about Muslim men having more than 1 wife. My first marriage was terrible – I was verbally, emotionally and physically abused. When I left my ex, I had nothing for myself and my 2 boys – my second husband came into my life like an Angel of Mercy sent from the Almighty. We share such a deep connection, we are totally in sync – and whilst I knw he loves his first wife very much, he is totally in love with me and I wid him – jst miss him so much rite now. Wish time would fly and he could return to our secret stolen moments.
True love never dies it always there.May you have peace.Mercy Lord.
I miss my loved one..I keep on telling him dat I m missing u..wan 2spend time with u..
bt he keep on telling me..that he is busy..have lot of work..but he spend time with others his family frnds..with them he never feel he is wasting his time bt spending time with me is just waste of time to him..what should I do?????????
Hey Anshu, after reading your problem I guess that guy is just trying to avoid you. I would suggest you directly talk to him that he want to continue this relation or not. And if things are not getting well better you should move on. I know it sounds harsh but if things will go like this then only you will be in pain.
I kinda miss my biological mom. So here’s the story, my bio mom met my dad. They started dating and little did he know she was CRAZY. she tried to kill herself 2 times before he met her! So then they had a baby ( my older brother Wyatt) and that pretty
Much ruined my dads dreams of collage, so he dropped out. 3 years later I popped along. And everything was great, until 5 months later she tried to kill me, my brother, my dad, and herself. that’s when my dad realized she had a problem. He offered to help her but she didn’t want it. He got a seperation and eventually a divorce, and got custody of my and Wyatt. The court said that we had to see her, on to twice a year, and order that my father obiediantly fly followed. My dad at the time was on and off dating many women, and these relationships almost always ended after a month or so. Did I mention that another reason why my dad got the divorce was because my mom was. Cheating on him? Finally my dad met my stepmom, Laura whom I love a lot, and typically she and my mom don’t get along. I started to hate my mother because she was mean to my stepmom and made decisions that benefited her. I still went to see my mom until my brother nearly had a nervous breakdown because of my mom. I don’t want to say what really happened, it makes my mom look like a monster, well she is. So now we don’t see my mom and I’m happy about that! I’m 12 now, and I am told I am just like my stepmom, who I don like to call that. I like to call her mom now. They say we share a fierceness which I am going to use to make myself into a good lawyer. But anyways, I watched a video of her on youtube and I realized I missed my older sister, my little brother, and my sisters 1 year old son, my nephew. Also my mom, I guess….
Thanks for reading, Angelina L.
its more than a year we broke up but miss her a lot
wht to do, i think i did a lot but donno was tht less, evn supported her family
but i found her sleeping with some one else, can’t get out of that image,
so i broke up, please help me getting out should i stay alone????? or wht should i do
I really care about this guy i knew for sometime… we finally got together for a short time but it was kinda off and on cuz he got in some trouble he didnt wanna.invole me.. but i still wanted to b with him, he ended up getting put in jail and will be deported soon im still going crazy missing him and wanting to b wih him.. i wanna go see him in his country when he gets out but im scared to ask him cuz im not sure what he will say… im not able to commuicate with him in jail now either.. most of my friends think im dumb and should move on but i feel how i feel.. so im not sure what to do? Ive never cared this much for someone bfore or hurt this much over them not being in my life.
I miss him. All day, every day. All night, every night. I love him. It has been two weeks since we last spoke. I miss him more and more. He is close yet he is far. I always know he is in me, with me. Yet I could not call him. Life is a series of chores without being with him. Life is hard for me, for us. I can’t be with him. It’s complicated. He can’t be with me. It’s complicated. If I die tomorrow, I know that I have had him, once. I know that, I love, once. We almost had twins together. I’m lost. I am so lost.
Hi Ruchi,
can we talk. i think u have solution of all my question.
you can mail me initially..
Hey Vicky, you can send a mail via “contact us” page and we will surely try our best to solve all your queries.
I have hurt some wonderful people, now I regret the silly mistake I made.It is very sad,now it is too late i cannot help it.Please forgive and forget.
Now I wish I hadn’t done it.I was very happy when I knew no one and I wish I was like before alone by myself.
If I knew I was forgiven I would have had peace of mind.
I wish they win and I lose always.
Now I think I can’t forget even I died. Now it will always be there.
Still missing him a lot even has been apart for two years. Never missed anyone so badly before. Whats wrong with me?
My b/f and I have been together for about a 2yrs now and we both have a past with children but I found a txt on his phone from his ex the other night saying to him that his a lier and he doesn’t miss her I didn’t find a txt to her with him saying this and I’m worried about this they have been sperated for about 3yrs now and have been threw a messy court about the children and I was with him threw all this he tells me he loves me and I love him dearly and don’t want to think about this situation any suggestions…?
Hey Melissa, If you both love each other since 2 years then you have to trust him. Just with a text it’s kind of confusing that he still have feelings for his ex or not. May be just think about good times when you both are there for each other in ups and downs of life. And if you get any clue which makes you feel that he is falling for his ex then it would be better to communicate with him politely.
Why do we miss someone? Probably because you can’t bear losing a sight of a person whom you care so much. You have known that person for quite some time & enjoy each other’s company. You feel lost without him/her around…But it may become a problem..when you are torn between your friendship and feelings that you have towards the person. To make it even worse, both of you are already in relationships..long distance, that is.
But, I believe in taking chances. You’ll never know what you may get unless you give it a GO. Yup, that’s what I did. I’d come clean. I confess my feelings to him, my dearest friend/colleague, not knowing how he will react. But before I did that, I have prepared myself (mentally & emotionally) to accept whatever that he’ll say.
And he said..”I think we’re better off as friends”..& guess what? I feel SUPER RELIEVE!! He’s cool with it and yup, we remained as close friends until now. Since then, he has become more open in sharing his stories/secrets e.t.c.
I’m so glad that he understands me…he said, “Everyone deserves to be in love” and re-assure me that my confession will not change a thing (our friendship).
HooRay!
I don’t know if you’ll be able to answer my question, I’m new to this site. I miss her really bad. She told me she missed me and that she likes to look at pictures of us when we were friends. We were best friends and we wanted to date once but she fell for someone else. I got jealous and we fought a lot. We stopped talking for half a year or so and I ignored her texts. But I missed her so bad that when she texted one day I gave in. I told her I missed her but I feel like I didn’t give my true feelings. We talk every other week and text is our only form of communication as I live in a different town now. I feel like I want her to know how I feel but is it the right thing to do? She has a boyfriend now but he’s abusive and she told me she’s not happy with him. I have mixed emotions, I don’t know if I just want to be friends again or what. I’m not even mad at her anymore. All I can remember know is all the good times we shared. So what do you think? Why does she think of me so much of me yet waits a week or two to text me? Maybe she’s busy, I know she works a lot, but I wonder if I should let her know that I think about her all the time and whether its ok to do it in text. Please tell me what you think and I would really appreciate it. Thank you
Hey, I am sorry to say but I think that the girl wants to talk to you just because she is not happy with her boyfriend. It would be better that you talk to her clearly and find out she really loves you and ready for a long term relation or not?
After reading your comment I feel you truly love her and also forgive her for earlier mistake but before moving further make sure that she is also ready otherwise only you would end up in grief.
Hey, thanks for the advice. Unfortunately, there are a lot of details I left out in my story. And I mean A LOT. I guess I was a little upset at the time and wanted a quick fix to my problems. A lot of my unsureness results from my low self esteem I believe. However, after realizing some things, I think I know what to say to her and when. I’m gonna go out on a limb here and trust myself on this one. I have full confidence she will want to be good friends again. If I told you every detail I think you would agree that we can’t just start a dating. I admit it’s what I want more than anything, but I believe before I can achieve that I need to accept the fact that things may not work out. I really appreciate the advice and I like what you’re doing here with this website. Keep it up! Love is such a complicated subject for some and I think this site really helps.
sometimes, you miss someone,,,, but you feel that this someone doesn’t miss you.,,,
Some people play with others feelings..
Hey Neil, If someone is not missing you it doesn’t mean that they are playing with your emotions. You can’t force anyone to miss you, it comes naturally.
Missing someones is make me suffering. But, it’s very difficult to speak my mind with her.
it is really hard to miss someone,
especially the person may not be with you in the future, he also has his problem
so terrible…should i keep on or i should push myself…… why missing? love ? or just miss due to loneliness? it is ……
I’m missing someone who I think i’ve loved for about 4 years we had a brief encounter not long after i had come out of a long term relationship 3 years ago, he is probably one of the most caring males i’ve ever met and he touched my heart i’ve never forgotten him there have been brief flings with others but he has always been in my mind, we would loose touch and reconnect he is very guarded with his feelings and i know he dosn’t want to get involved with me but i sense he cares for me too. I’ve not spoke to him for 3 weeks and I miss him like mad i’m trying to be strong because i respect the fact he dosn’t want to be with me but i miss our chats really badly he usually gets in touch but i’ve not heard of him how can I make this easier for myself part of me just wants to be over him I feel stupid for these feelings
wish it could be different but he’s touched my heart which is why I miss him so badly
sometimes you miss your family,old friends,relatives because they hold a certain place in your life. Since man is a social animal, he needs people around him. We miss family,friends but soon we settled down with the present and become normal……
But when missing someone makes ur eyes roll down tears, that is something related to pure and divine form of missing. Usually people do say “I miss You” but don’t really mean it. The real missing which makes u cry has something to do with true divine love and believe or not some sort of divinity is certainly attached to it. That missing leaves u restless but at the end u do thank god to give u such divine feeling. It doesn’t necessarily occur after breakup only, it can happen while being in relationship also…
i can’t say that when i miss him ” i miss him every moment every second….ya sometimes for love sometimes feel lonely without him…. I know that, he knows i miss him…. and i don’t have any other option to beside miss him… !!! even when i make decision that i’ll not miss him more & move on….just then i miss him a lot then before….. when i feel… he’ll never come back…just then my heart says to me he’ll come…….!!!
i can’t say that when i miss him ” i miss him every moment every second….ya sometimes for love sometimes feel lonely without him…. I know that, he knows i miss him…. and i don’t have any other option to beside miss him… !!! even when i make decision that i’ll not miss him more & move on….just then i miss him a lot then before….. when i feel… he’ll never come back…just then my heart says to me he’ll come…….!!! Its become a pain…. now even then the pain is sweet too
I miss my ex me and him dated for the summer it was great! But, once school started all over again we started getting rocky knowing we grade to different ones. Jealousy and trust struck in. Later I got texts and what not saying he’s cheating I took charge and broke up with him. WORS MISTAKE especially cause I found it was all a lie a month later. He started dating new people it hurt so much I tried getting him back doing everything but it didn’t work he lost trust in me, I too him hurtful things and just everything went down. We stared talking again as friends last month but someone got between us and just ruined it. We no longer speak he’s in a relationship it’s been 5 months since the break up and I’m not over him I tried moving on talking to new people, talking to my friends and letting it all out, I convinced myself its time to move on but something always reminds me of him. It really sucks, I don’t know what to do! Should I try talking to him? Being his friend? Apologize ? Or just let it be and stay missing him and do nothing at all that involves him?
I’m missing some one right now … And the pain is unbearable .. I don’t have his phone number. He doesn’t have a facebook. And he doesn’t have a email either…. Sometimes I wish I could tell him how I feel but I’m too scared because I have had my heart broken to many times, not by him just by other guys…. But I’m willing to take a chance and tell him how I feel …. Because I’m am madly in love with him… He is all I think about…. An I care about him slot an I really don’t want to see him get hurt …..
My issue here is that often when I miss someone, it’s not due to long distance. It’s often because despite close proximity, I can’t talk to them as they are mad at me or they’re no longer a part of my life
I missed her, she was the first girl that touched my heart. I truely love her. we were now best friend and we quite understand each other. sometimes i just feel letting her know my feelings, letting her know how much i missed her when she is not around. But im scared that once i told her the truth, she would avoid me and our friendship will surely be ruin. Shes beautiful. the most beautiful girl i ever seen. And im, well, me. Im ugly. our looks don’t match but our personality sure does. I know that im not her cup of tea but i really hope that she will still be my best friend even after she rejects me. can someone please tell me what to do, give me some advise please!
Hey Thomas,
We posted your problem on our Facebook Page and here are few suggestions from our readers.
1. jus convey your feelings ……….
2. Looks doesn’t matter personality does.. Be brave enough to tell your true feelings to your best friend..
Hope it helps. Best luck
My problem that at first i dont care if that someone is gone or not but after that its like im dieing because i miss that someone and iys like im just a buddy without a soul like feeling bored from everything i was doing when i wanted to cheer up in the past..i keep missing that someone every minute.
It’s hard when you miss someone so much, and you can’t do anything about it. Because having that space between the two of you, is the only way to make things right.
I miss the girl I pushed away about a year ago she’s my first real love for 3 years, any girl I meet I can’t treat the same or feel the same for bc my heart won’t let me I think about her so much. The feeling of missing someone is a lesson in my experience, she was my other half.. And it all ended bc I felt different for her when all I needed to realize is searching your life for someone is pointless when you have what you need right in front of you the whole time.
we miss people because we love them not because of they love us. if we miss someone and it may not be the same from other side, it’s ok. if we really love then they also will start loving us. it’s very nice hoping that they will, one day. but missing someone special is really good.
That’s sweet Adi
This has happened with me, i liked to talk to a girl but never took it seriously, but now when she’s not available m very uncomfortable. And thinking of her whenever alone.
Its a sweet pain, but still its pain.. Maybe i would hav to forget her, but its not easy.
This has happened with me, i liked to talk to a girl but never took it seriously, but now when she’s not available m very uncomfortable. And thinking of her whenever alone.
Its a sweet pain, but still its pain.. Maybe i would hav to forget her, but its not easy.
aaaawh missing is loving! keep commenting
I miss my second girlfriend horribly much. We dated 15 years ago, now we are in our early/mid 30s. We took up the contact again a year ago after a 15 year long break. None of us are singles and we don’t live in the same cities, but the moments we meet up for a chat somewhere are incredible! 6 hours feels like 10minutes and i just wish it never stopped, that we could be in that bubble forever.
Last time we met and about an hour before we had to part again, she leaned her head agains my shoulder for a long time and she let me touch her hair with my fingers, which surprised me a little. It seems like she misses me to, sometimes she texts me that she misses me, but i’m doubtful if she’s willing to scarify her current relationship for me. Why in heavens name did i break up with her??
my relatnship waz very different fm others all i wnt to say that i waz in a reltnship frm las 2 yrs she used to love me more den any thng in her life bt u kw wt waz d big troble is dt she doesn’t belive in god i am muslin she waz nonmuslim we loved eah other so much evn we cnt spen a single m int of life widout each other she used to makes promisse to nvr leave me n all n we wre ready to marry frm each other bt sudeenly she changed hee mind dt i cnt marry u n lfet me alone wif her sweet memories i dnt have any contact frm her nt even in touch anyone of her frnd i really wnt her back in my life really….. i cnt live widout my sweet baby…..
Hi Adnan,
Ask her whats the main reason for not marrying you.. If its religion then assure her that you will let her continue the same religion and won’t interfere in her belief. May be things work out. Best luck.
Hi,
I do agree that we miss some one when we are in love with that person….but I have a friend who misses many of her friends at the same time…is it possible for any human being to miss many at the same time??? or is she just using the phrase ‘miss you’ to all? confused!…impossible for me to miss many at a time…please share your views.
I don’t understand what’s happening right now in my relationship. It’s confusing, because he has a girlfriend that he’s had for four years. But when they were on a break he cuddled with me, made out with me and then felt me up. While we were sober! The next day he felt guilty and said that this couldn’t happen (we were leaving for summer break in about 10 days at that point). He said that I was “right about if we had more time”, indicating that we might have been able to cultivate a relationship. It was awkward for a few days, but then the night before he left to go home he came over and we fell asleep together cuddling, and it felt just like before. Now he texts me everyday. He says he really misses me, and he just told me I was “amazing and beautiful”. But then he says his girlfriend came over, that it was great but he is “still really conflicted” and that he doesn’t know if he loves her or he is in love her her. These mixed messages are really confusing. All I know is that I miss being with him all the time, but if he is just going to go back to his girlfriend (which I honestly think he will do) then prolonging our losing contact will just hurt me more. But the hope that something might come of it keeps me going. I just miss him so much and it scares me. I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to stop talking to him, but I want him to want me like I want him- but I don’t know where he is at. I think he is probably confused about what he wants to. He says that he might come visit me soon. What should I do?
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