We always wonder that when we miss someone, is it because we love that person, we like that person or maybe it’s just an infatuation? We keep on fighting with ourselves that what’s the reason for missing that person? Some time we also miss people we hate. Many times we also miss people we fight all the time but when they are not around.
But, when you want to continue relationship with the person you keep on missing, you need to be clear with your intention. According to me there might be following reasons:
- You also miss someone special when you are in love with that person
- It might be infatuation ( just for a few days ).
- You respect her/his qualities.
- That person is always with you when you need someone to lean on.
Whatever may be the reason, I would say it’s a very nice feeling to miss someone. You keep on thinking about that person whole day and night or if it’s worst you might start imagining him/her near you.
Many people feel that it’s the worst feeling to miss someone, but I totally disagree with this. I feel it’s the sweet pain and you can for sure enjoy missing someone. The only thing you need to remember is that you have to miss the golden moment you spend with each other. Please don’t ever miss bad times you spend with that person. Always try to cherish the good moments and it will surely bring a smile on your face.
Another thing which people do is to hide their feelings in front of person they are missing. You must keep your ego aside and convey your feelings to that person. Life is too short; if you love or you miss someone do let them know. If that person understands you, it would never ruin your relationship.
Love is missing someone whenever you’re apart, but somehow feeling warm inside because you’re close in heart. ~Kay Knudsen
What do you do, when you miss someone?
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Is it possible to miss someone even though you haven’t seen her yet?
It is, its happening to me. I met this person online which I haven’t met only thru pics and we talked one time by phone. Haven’t heard from him for a while and I’m missing him like crazy.
Look it’s just an imagination it is just bcoz now u don’t have anyone to spend time with when u will have somebody u will forget about him
The soul knows….. Hearts are connected even before we meet. Love is mysterious and works in different ways that are not logical and practical…
Of course possible. Becouse love is blind and once when you loved someone truly, your feeling will never die even that person broke your relationship
People in love over value their heart and under value their mind ❤️It’s really true
Yes it is possible because you read care about that person and if you have a crush on them and that you and your crush are single, then you should try to date them if they are ready even though if you work with your crush and you have been friends with your crush for maybe at least 1 or more years then you can start asking them out for a date if you take it small and slow because here is the problem, if you and your crush are working in the same company, dating a coworker is a bad idea because if your crush says no, then you should not ask them out again and to me, it made a lot of people including me very upset because I understand why they do that but this is too restrictive and I know for a fact that if you are doing the right thing when you are dating your crush that is your coworker then you should know that you are doing the right thing and as I mentioned before like if they said they are not ready for a relationship, then you kinda have to say like “I completely understand about your decision and that I’m still interested in your and If you change your mind about that you are ready to talk to me, please feel free to call, text, email and/or talk to me in person when you are ready because I will be there when you are ready.” You are giving your crush if they are your coworker some space and time to rethink about that you want to date them and if they are the only person that you can think of, then you are giving them space and time to rethink about what you said and that you are letting them getting their life back and that you are giving them a chance to yes if they said no the first time because as long as you are doing the right thing which is I am doing then who knows what the future will be between you and your crush as a couples with one word, Hope.
Tq,now i’m fell more better
I met this guy in grade 2. I did not know why i hated him but as time went on we become best friends and later i fall deeply in love with him. I never understood the feelings between like and love. As time went by he made lot of promises to me which were similar to marriage. After all his promises he left the country to US. Few years ago i gatthered courage to tell him how i feel. Since that day i have been having this strange feelings of wanting to see him and this feelings keeps on get stronger. Please Ruchi help me to know why this feels keeps on growing stronger.
Try google obsessive love
It’s killing me inside not telling him i miss him,and i don’t want to tell him
I feel better. Thank you for this responds.
I met this guy 7 years ago and we fell inlove with eachother but it never lasted because I was in high school and he was in University. The funny thing is we still connect and we love eachother so much but cannot be with eachother as we are both in serious relationships. I can sense him when he is thinking about me and I feel like our souls connect. He once told me he also feels that way. I just cannot stop loving him it hurts. I miss him like crazy!
I’ve been through… Three long relationships that were connected but not connected in the right way. The first boyfriend I felt bonded to but then we grew apart. Then the two after that were not so good. But anyways, what’s uncanny about this is I fell in love with someone a few years after dating anyone. And an unquestionable connection from the moment we first saw eachother, which I’m talking like deep spiritual connection like I had met him before in a past life or something. He claimed the same. but I just moved to where I am now only just before I met him. So we had no way of actually knowing eachother. anyways.. He’s kind of an odd one, we were doing music together and I kinda had a small crush on him. We slept together once during a night of wine and we never spoke about it again. Then a few months later we were doing music and started hitting it off more and we started dating for 4 months. Not very long considering my other exes were long..
So this is what’s eating my soul out. We kept getting into small fights. From the get go he claimed I could trust him and he trusts me. Then he lied to me. And shit hit the fan after that cause my fault is if someone lies to me, my trust is automatically shot because of past issues with a lot more than just boys. Anyways ultimately we broke up because I just couldn’t trust him because he kept lying even more. Nothing about anything he should’ve been lying about… It’s why it boggles me. But all in all… I miss him, I hurt every time a memory flashes back of all the amazing times we had.. In 4 months I did more with him than anyone else in my life. We went to the states, to like 5 concerts..
When we broke up, he said ‘I love you …goodbye until we are better.’ He kept his relationship up but I deleted Facebook. For a bit. Then a week later… I still hasn’t heard from him since our last fight… Then I saw he was adding like sex people as followers on Instagram which wasn’t… Like him(with me anyways). So I took off my relationship status entirely off Facebook so nothing was seen … Then he just changed his to single after seeing that we weren’t together via Facebook. So like that pissed me off of course and I shot him a text. Then he replies with ‘I didn’t realize you just took your status off.. But I wasn’t good enough for you and I jumped into something I was ready for, I shoulda ended it a lot sooner.’
I was both angry and sad at this point. Because how could I take that? He was perfect to me but somehow I made him feel too imperfect. On the other hand I was told by a lot of people he was using me. Because I have a good car to drive him everywhere and I got him… Probably way too many things. As much as I didn’t want to believe them… Most the time he didn’t do much for me, he wouldn’t even go to one of my shows. But at the same time.. I know that love wasn’t fake. I’ve had guys that never loved me and I know the difference.
I’m ranting but I’ve never actually got this out. I never seen him after that last fight before we even broke up. We broke up a week after that fight. It’s been 3 months now. He asked if I would have coffee with him sometime like… A month ago on text but like , I said yes and he said okay tomorrow then now it’s been another month and still nothing.. This is something I HAVE to get over. And as much as I think I’m over it, I get that dull ache if he comes to my head. And it sucks. How do you let go of someone you know you were meant for <and I normally HATE seeing when people say stiff like that but that's because I never understood it before. It's nothing to do with looks, build, Infact quite opposite, I was attracted to him, like his personality, the way he was; his quirks, like fuck. I need someone to zap him from my memory
Hi, you’ve got it (or had it)bad. I’ve got it too. Nobody else comes close. I can tolerate a hundred slights from this woman because I am utterly fascinated by her mind and beguiled by her body. It’s all too much and everything else in life is too less. And I don’t want help!
Hey. I know what you’re feeling. I’m a guy. I know we are not usually the “emotional” ones. But hey, I know that feeling. I have been dating my current girlfriend for about eight months. Before this girl, I had a previous relationship. I loved none of these women like I love her. I keep thrusting myself into relationships to numb the fact that there is only one girl I want to be with, yet she doesn’t want to be with me. “How do you let go of someone you know you were meant for”. I still haven’t. I dream of this woman. I think about her more than I think about my current girlfriend. This woman was my everything. And like you, this wasn’t about the looks. She was the only girl that I had never gotten intimate with..and yet she was the best I ever had. Sometimes I wonder why God put her in my life. I would like to believe that everything happens for a reason. It’s easy to believe that. So I guess if it’s meant to be..
So I haven’t seen this guy for several months, and not to mention that he’s the first guy I had sex with. We never contacted each other afterwards (this situation is a little complicated and too detailed to say). But to move on, I deleted his number. There was a period of time when I was definitely over him for sure. But there are times like these days when I miss him so badly, I just want to see him and let it be just more than sex. But I was just worried that it is just sex for him. I’m just confused if it’s infatuation or if it’s my soul telling me something.
I miss someone that I truly care about and have for years. I can’t tell her because she likes my friend. I don’t know what to do because I feel sick without her and then when I am with her I feel great! I have tried and tried to be around her more but I am not sure she really wants me around. We have been friends for so long and I don’t want to risk losing my friendship. Please help.
i miss him… but he has a girlfriend now.
I made him realise that i was over him so even he should move on but when he’s moved on its me still stuck on him and i really want him back.
What should i do?
Pls help!!
I had this friend. We aren’t friends anymore. He says we drifted away, but I don’t feel like that really happened. I think he just distances himself for his own personal reason. I told him how I felt and basically said my goodbye, but every time I talk to him I feel closer when I’m supposed to feel awkward or uncomfortable if we drifted apart, but I don’t feel that way. I feel very close. I miss him all the time. I don’t understand why I feel closer to someone who is like this. Help?
I had this friend. We aren’t friends anymore. He says we drifted away, but I don’t feel like that really happened. I think he just distances himself for his own personal reason. I told him how I felt and basically said my goodbye, but every time I talk to him I feel closer when I’m supposed to feel awkward or uncomfortable if we drifted apart, but I don’t feel that way. I feel very close. I miss him all the time. I don’t understand why I feel closer to someone who is like this. Help?
I met a guy online, we talked so much for like a year and we got so close and I really love him so that I can’t even believe my feelings uuh is it possible to love someone even though you haven’t seen him yet, now we don’t talk anymore for 3 months and I’m missing him badly so that I start imagining him near me. I can’t text him cause I’m afraid he’s not interested in me anymore, well he told me so many time he loves me but I can’t really know. ps. he was so active on social media but since we stop texting he just disappeared, didn’t post anything all the 3 months what is pretty unusual. please help me figure out this
I miss someone we used to be friends/ not friends. I fancied him from when I first met him. I haven’t seen him for years. But miss him like crazy. I’ve tried to get him out of my head but I can’t.
I miss my love very badly. Even most of the times I use to talk him without his presence. I every time feel his presence.
I miss someone who I love but he don’t love me he only thinks me his friend I don’t understand what to do because I don’t want to lose his friendship
I miss you so much. But we hardly know each other, and we don’t live in the same country. I cannot expect anything in return. I can’t expect anything from you.
Before you met me, you already has your life. Maybe a girl, a potential someone. Maybe you connected with someone else in when you were here. And maybe you are focus on working hard.
I shouldn’t be thinking too much, over thinking or want this to work, or push it too hard. There is nothing wrong. I just need to be patient.
Focus and work hard in what I want to become. I need to achieve what I want to become. To create my world before I can enter into someone else’s world.
I need to stay happy and be happy. I cannot be sad. I have a life to live. I need to be strong and stay positive.
A good future is ahead of me if I work hard to be happy. Not creating bubble in my head. Not to be sad.
Smiley
Hey m confused what to do or not to do because m missing my past boy friend ..i feel jealous when i see him with her present gf …i too have my boyfriend but i don’t know why i miss him so badly …I’m trying to forget him but it’s not working out ….please suggest me which way to take ..
Why my crush is coming in my mind still after 1.5 years . I was attracted to her but due to another reasons I didn’t asked her. I found alot of new girls around me but why she coming in my mind..??
There are two main reasons why we struggle to forget someone: 1) We truly believe they are the one for us. 2) We fear that we will not find anyone better. However, we should all remember two things: 1) If someone is the right person for us, they will come back into our lives no matter how far away they drift.
When I say I miss my bf there is apart of me that thinks he cause this pain and he hates hearing it. Almost as if he is in trouble for making me feel this way. Which makes him hard to ever say it back. He just says thank you!
I have a guy am dating and I love him so much but the problem there is that he has a girlfriend before we met of which he told me about and I agreed to date him.
But sometimes whenever we are together the girl normally call him and he will picked the call, even he do call her himself in my presence sometimes( if the girl don’t call he will call her) and I get jealous of this when this happened.
I have confronted him times without number over this that I don’t like such because he will never pick up his phone and call me or recieve my call in her presence but he will tell me he is sorry and I will forgive him but know it will still happen. But he claimed he loves me that if not for that he would have dump me though I don’t have a doubt about that because I know he loves me but maybe he is just confuse of who to choose I don’t know.
I have even tried telling him we should break up but he will never listen, even sometimes if I act as if I don’t want to talk to him on phone when he calls I will still be the one to call back because I won’t be able to rest I will be thinking of him and I keep on loving him more and more ignoring anyone that comes to me.
Plz help me out!!!!
I dnt understand my feelings
When I started cooking food in the evening, a sudden feeling comes in my mind; I started thinking of her continuesly because we are not in an area and I don’t talk to her for two to three days with telephone and missed her I don’t really know. So I would like to know why am I thinking her in a sudden time or in the same manner did she also think of me in the same time without knowing eachother.
According to one of the quizzes, I really do miss the one girl that I had tried to protect from school bullying during my childhood years.