Lack of kindness is the major problem because of which friends starts getting away from each other, For example many friends of yours won’t let you park the car in parking lot because there is only one place left and they want to park first. There are so many incidences where friends don’t bother to be kind with each other and slowly but finally tit for tat rolls in to the friendship.
Getting little kind with your friends can make a special place for you in their heart. Here are few factors which can help you to be kind with friends and others.
1. Why you need to be kind: Your kindness not only makes others happy but makes you happier. Nothing is wrong in helping friends and being kind to them. Some easy things like offering drinks to friends if they are in hurry, allowing them to park the car first. All these small things won’t affect you and even others will learn from you, how to get kind with friends.
2. Gives you happiness: Kindness surely gives you happiness. Helping a friend to drop to exam hall when he had car broke down or helping friend who is going through rough times. It is always said that “good things happens to good people”. Kindness has positive impact on our health; showing unselfish love towards your friends will always provide you positive energy. On the contrary, if you show “tit for tat” attitude towards your friends, it will affect your cardiovascular system and increase blood pressure related problems.
3. You might find hurdles: Whenever you will plan to do something good, you will find lots of people opposing it. It goes same with kindness, when you will show kindness to your friends, they will return it back saying they don’t want anyone’s kindness or favor. But you need to move on, people think that you are helping them because you want something in return, thus make them understand that you want to spread kindness and unselfish love that’s why you are helping them.
If you also have some good reasons and ways to be kind, do share with us.
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I am Ruchi Parikh ( a.k.a Whiztechy). I have done my masters in computers and started blogging in 2009 and later joined ShoutMeLoud blog network as a Sr. Editor for CallingAllGeeks. I love tech blogging and started LetsTalkRelations to share my views on different aspects of relations...
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I want to add one point to this article.. “share what you have”
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Thanks for adding . That’s really nice point.