“Love and kindness are never wasted. They always make a difference. They bless the one who receives them, and they bless you, the giver.” -Barbara de Angelis
Kindness is contagious. Lack of kindness is the major problem because of which friends start getting away from each other, For example, many friends of yours won’t help you with assignments or help you to get jobs. There are so many incidences where friends don’t bother to be kind with each other and slowly but finally tit for tat rolls into the friendship.
Getting little kind with your friends can make a special place for you in their heart. Here are few factors which can help you to be kind with friends and others.
Why kindness required:
Your kindness not only makes others happy, but also makes you happier. There is nothing wrong in helping friends and being kind to them. Some easy things like offering drinks to friends if they are in a hurry, allowing them to park the car first. All these small things won’t affect you and even others will learn from you, how to get kind with friends. Kindness doesn’t cost, it’s just a gesture which shows you care.
Gives you happiness:
Kindness surely gives you happiness. Helping a friend to drop to exam hall when he had car broke down or helping a friend who is going through rough times. It is always said that “good things happens to good people”. Kindness has a positive impact on our health; showing unselfish love towards your friends will always provide you positive energy. On the contrary, if you are going to have “tit for tat” attitude towards your friends, it will increase your worries and negative thoughts.
You might find hurdles:
Whenever you will plan to do something good, you will find a lot of people opposing it. It goes same with kindness, when you will show kindness to your friends, they will return it back saying they don’t want anyone’s kindness or favor. But you need to move on, people think that you are helping them because you want something in return, thus make them understand that you want to spread kindness and unselfish love that’s why you are helping them.
If you also have some good reasons and ways to be kind, do share with us.