Toughest job to do in a serious affair is to introduce your girlfriend to your parents. It is very important that first impression should be good . You and your girlfriend should create positive environment when you introduce your girlfriend to your parents.
Here are few tips to introduce your girlfriend to your family:
1. Tell about your family: Before you introduce your girlfriend to your parents, make sure that your girlfriend knows everything about your family members. Make sure that your girlfriend is aware of likes and dislikes of your family and prepare herself according to that.
2. Give a hint to parents: Talk causally about your affair to your parents and make them know about background and lifestyle of your girlfriend in advance. So that your parents will be mentally prepared for the meet and they have some image of your girlfriend.
3. Tell her to “be herself”: Tell your girlfriend to”be herself”. She should not overreact to impress your parents. She would only be comfortable if she remains herself in front of your parents. If she will react differently in front of your parents, your parents will surely come to know.
4. Make her comfortable: Your girlfriend might be nervous, make her comfortable and assure that you will always love her no matter what. Respect her in front of your parents and support her, if she fails to answer any question. Try not to leave her alone with your parents; she might not able to handle the meet alone.
5. Be polite: When you introduce your girlfriend in front of your parents, be polite. Introduce your girlfriend with her proper name not with the one you call her in personal. Be decent in front of your parents. Your parents must feel love between you two, not infatuation.
Hope these tips will help you. Wish you good luck.
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I am Ruchi Parikh ( a.k.a Whiztechy). I have done my masters in computers and started blogging in 2009 and later joined ShoutMeLoud blog network as a Sr. Editor for CallingAllGeeks. I love tech blogging and started LetsTalkRelations to share my views on different aspects of relations...
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Good tips…I think #1 will work great =)
Glad you like it Blinkky.
nice tips..giving hint to parents is a good way ..
Yeah , It’s always better to make them mentally prepared so that outcome come to be positive .
its simple and thoughtful tips! thanks for sharing it
Glad you like it Malini.
Ruchi! Hats off to you yaar… Brilliant points here..Even though the basics, most people mess up everything at the final moment! I would recommend this article to everyone before introducing their GF to their parents..
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Thanks Rohit , Hope other will find this article helpful .
Duh! Think I’ll need these tips VERY soon O_o
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Great Kurt, Wish u lots of luck . If you need any help you can contact me
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All tips are quite practical. Good points Ruchi
Glad you like it NavaPavan
Ruchi nice tips here. How do you get such niche ideas from? Well written too.
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These post are direct frm heart
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Let me try this tips.. Will let u know the result
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Waiting for your results , Vishal
pray for me ruchi if in future i have to follow your suggestions….
thnx for these ………..
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Sure Deepak..wish u luck
i hv learn something dat wil relly help me
We went to a bbq and he introduced me to a woman with her first name. About 2 hrs into the party, i found out it was his mom. We’ve only been dating for a few weeks but i think that was a good approach to meet the parents. Its no pressure. I probably wouldnt have gone if he told me. And i would be too nervous too if i knew. I was basically just myself and i had a great time at the party.
That’s great Miaka, Thanks for your comment and I am sure it will help others to change their perceptive towards meeting with parents.
It’s hard to seek out knowledgeable folks on this matter, however you sound like you understand what you’re talking about! Thanks
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