First Dating Tips for Guys

First Dating Tips for Guys

dating advice for guysDating is very important when you are interested in someone and planning to move ahead in relations. Dating gives all idea what you are and you both are compatible with each other or not. But many times guys make few blunders which turn-off their dates and later no more dates are fixed. If you are going on first date with the girl you love, then do remember few things which will help you for a long term relationship with your date. Here are tips for first date:

Dating Advice for Guys:

Here I’m sharing few things which you should do and should not do on the first date. One tip which I always suggest to my friends that, be natural. The girl is with you, because she liked something about you, and you might not be the perfect guy, but you can always work on it.

  • Be presentable:

No matter how busy your schedule is, look presentable. Wear a nice outfit, put perfume (Girls like guys who smells good), clean your shoes, clean your glasses. Do remember, to clean your mouth and no bed smell, else you will definitely lose a chance to get a kiss on your first date.

  • Reach on Time:

Many boys think that it’s cool to make your date wait so she will be more desperate while meeting. This thinking is really rubbish, no one likes to wait especially if you are on first date. Once you are late, you first impression is down thus make sure that you reach on time and it would be great if you can pick her from her place.

  • Be Gentlemen:

Girls like boys who respect them. Be polite to her, open door for her, pull chair for her, if you really feel that she is good in something or looking good then give her compliment but make sure it’s genuine. Girls can understand when you are faking and when you are really praising. Give a call after reaching home, all these things will make her feel special.

  • Don’t showoff:

That’s the biggest mistake which boys generally make. Maximum girls get turn off with over-confidence and showoff. No matter how big tycoon or a successful person you are, don’t start praising yourself unnecessarily and specially lying about your work and popularity never impress any girl. So avoid showing attitude and over-confidence to her. Talk like you usually talk to anyone, but pay 100% attention.

  • Listen to her:

Dating is for knowing each other properly and enjoying. No one likes to listen whole night, it better to have good conversation. Tell about yourself in brief and also listen to her. Ask her about her interests, hobbies etc. It’s fun to know each other on first date.

  • Be Yourself:

This is most important to remember. Just be yourself, never use tricks on your first date. Girls are smart enough to know your true self. Even if you get success to impress her with stupid tricks on first date then also all those tricks won’t work in long term. So if you are planning to have a good relation with your date just be yourself.

Here are few more articles which will help you for your first date:

If you have few more tips to make first date better do share with us.

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  • Rahul Banker October 11, 2010, 1:42 pm

    2. Be humble
    3. don’t show off
    4. talk slowly
    5. don’t be rude
    6. Never have an egoistic attitude

    These are some points from my side but above all, I would advice. . .

    1. Don’t go on a date πŸ˜›

    • Ruchi October 11, 2010, 5:31 pm

      Rahul that’s bad…you have so good insight about dating etiquette and at last you are saying “Don’t go on date”. You should go on date πŸ™‚

  • Jaydip Parikh October 11, 2010, 5:16 pm

    Wonderful article. I guess the best one is “Don’t showoff ” and “Listen to her “, this both are most critical things and Boys got problems in that.

    • Ruchi October 11, 2010, 5:33 pm

      Agree Jaydip, these two things are really important and tough for boys to keep that in mind. Thanks for dropping the comment.

  • ananthnag January 11, 2011, 1:41 am

    “girls can understand..” “girls are smart..” u said that…and I hope that doesn’t in anyway mean ‘boys can’t understand and are stupid’…are they? πŸ˜‰

  • Lalit March 1, 2011, 5:50 pm

    Having eye contact is something which should never be missed πŸ˜€

  • priya July 3, 2011, 5:05 pm

    be calm and genuine whenever situation runs out of ur handz.
    feel guilty if u are at fault and if not,give some time to d person,
    trust will build up by itself

  • sam khulal April 20, 2013, 5:57 am

    how to express love perfectly


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