Falling in Love with Someone You Can’t Have

Falling in love is the best feeling in this world. I know many of you think that love hurts a lot, partners are not trustworthy, they don’t understand your feelings or only you love them they don’t. If you feel all these negative things then please read this each and every word of it, with a practical approach. I am sure, it will help you a lot to enjoy your love rather than regretting it. This is one of the worse things that can happen to anyone, falling in love with someone you can’t have.

>The most challenging phase of love is when you fall in love with someone, whom you can’t get or not even think of getting him/her in your life. It hurts sometimes, and you even feel very painful when you miss that person. Loving someone is not in your control, it’s just a feeling and tough to get over it.

falling in love with someone you can't have

Now, it’s up to you that how you take this love in your life, with a positive approach or negative approach? Having a negative approach has kept on crying for that person, who don’t take you more than a friend and not even notice your tears. Another approach is to take the feeling positively and enjoy the moment to the fullest.

How to be in love when another person when another person don’t love you back:

  • Think in a positive way:

If you think that providing tips is very easy and applying them is very difficult than just for five days try to apply these tips with a positive approach. No tips can make your life better unless you want it to be better. If you will keep sympathy with yourself and expecting same with others, you won’t able to enjoy the feeling of true love.

  • Expectations:

True Love is always unconditional, then why you start expecting that the person should love you back?

If you are expecting to return the love back as much as you love him/her then it’s not true love. Why can’t you just love that person? Love is neither a business nor a give and takes relationship. How you can think of love when you have so many expectations. Even if he/she doesn’t reply to your text messages, emails or phone calls, why you get hurt? You want to convey your feelings, and you did that. Don’t ever expect that the person will respond it back otherwise it will hurt you for sure.

  • Don’t force them to love you:

The main reason for not getting the person you love is that they don’t love you or might be committed to someone else. Think once from his/her point of view, you might not be the one he/she is looking for. Everyone has their choice, and they have all rights to choose the one they find interesting and loving to them. You can never force anyone to fall in love with you.

The day you will stop crying for your love, you will start enjoying it. If you find it tough to get over the person you love then waits for my next article for tips to get over someone you love.

But yes, the best advice would move on. Life is short, and there is no point in waiting and falling in love with someone you can’t have. Instead, find someone special, who completes you.

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  • Emily September 20, 2016, 12:40 am

    I am madly in love with my bestfriend’s brother, it ‘s been 2 years and i can’t move on, my brother is never going to be okay with it. We cuddle all the times and talk’s a lot , we even kissed in the summer… When school started he just ignored me but i don t get to see him a lot because he is 2 years older than me , i am 14 and he is 16 he will never love me! I cry myself to sleep everynight and i act like i am fine but i am not i am broken.. I can’t talk to this to anyone because they don’t understand. I also travelled with him it was awesome, people from there said we were a couple.
    But i will never be with someone like him i am just a game for him.

    • patrick November 24, 2016, 8:07 pm

      that’s so sad it happen to me too. I luv this girl with all my life but can’t tell her bcux she my best friend many people tink we are into relationship but not like that u have to move on but 4 me i can’t forget her

  • Tiara lee September 20, 2016, 6:15 am

    Hi my name is tiara I been going thru a lots of stuff lately, I’m 21 years old I met this guy when I was leaving school one day he followed me asking “miss can I get your number please ” I said “no why do you want my number ” he responded ” because I kinda like you ” so I gave him my number we started to text each other, not even in a week he text me to come hang out with him at his house I said OK so I went to his house we talked laugh giggle all that good stuff u could imagine, now he wanted to have sexual intercourse with me I said no we just met his like I understand but I’m a good guy 😔 …. I let him do what ever he wanted he would tell me to come to his house every day sometimes I skip skl to go see him one day I call him he didn’t answer neither my text messages so I kept calling him texting him all at I would tell him I miss him… After all this I can’t eat without thinking about him I can’t do nothing in this world without thinking about him I would cry anytime I think about him etccc I’m in love with him I saw him 3days ago and it seems like he was really happy to see me he kept saying “why you look so gorgeous & sexy” and he kept playing with my hands like nothing happens… I need help because I deeply fall in love with this guy idk what to do I can’t do nothing in this world without thinking about him 😪💔💔💔💔

  • Ani September 29, 2016, 7:56 pm

    I’ve fallen for someone in my office but he’s already had a girlfriend who is really beautiful, hot and rich. Both of them looks like deeply in love each other. But these day, I had a chance to know him better because he need my help for his job. And the more I know him, I start to see another me in him. The way he think, he act, how he treat the other people are just like me. And I don’t realize, since when he start to call me pretty, and do something nice for me. I think I fall to his trap or what, because he need to reach his work goals and he need me for that so he is being “the nice guy” . I don’t know. The one that I know is my mind is blur and I’m affraid to get hurt.

  • moe October 2, 2016, 7:33 pm

    I fell in love 30 years ago for the most beautiful woman I ever met, but she went with someone else down a very dark path. She is now in prison for life. I have been married 26 years now but am still in love with her and think of her everyday. We write to each other, but when I write to her my heart dictates my words.

  • Cassandra October 5, 2016, 8:49 am

    I fell in love with someone at work. It all started with a work event. I had always thought he was cute but after that event I got a chance to talk to him and that’s when cupid was out to get me, we talked, laughed and it just felt like I knew him from before so he got into my heart without me knowing he had a gf. A few weeks later I found out he was taken but I already had feelings for him. The worst is that I am in a committed relationship myself, I wasn’t looking for this. Love snuck up on me, I didn’t know my heart was free. So we kept talking and saw each other a few weeks after that. We have made out a few times and we both want more but it cannot be. I love him and he likes me but he just wants fun. My feelings would probably lead me to more but my head won’t, I just can’t have him. I gotta move on. 😪💔💔💔

  • Hannah October 12, 2016, 12:25 am

    I’m inlove with a guy which is 19 and I’m 17…we have been friends with benefits,we had sex several times the only problem I’m falling inlove with him and he doesn’t feel this same way

  • jennie October 14, 2016, 12:54 am

    My boyfriend and i hav been together for 4 years…we were forced into a breakup because his family had a certain bride in mind for him..now he’s getting engaged and it just hurts…

  • natty November 28, 2016, 1:51 am

    I fell in love with this guy so unexpectedly as i knew him through my mother. I’m 18 years old and he just turned 25..I never imagined myself deeply in love with anyone as much as I am with him, I have tried to move on but it has been so hard…he asked me out some time before he left the country and willingly I allowed him to break my virginity a few days after I turned 18..we dated a little while during the time he was away and it wasn’t long before he broke up with me with the excuse that he felt ashamed dating me as he has respect for my mom since they were prayer partners…I later on found out he actually had started dating someone there…I was so hurt but I never stopped loving him…I still talk to him everyday but I don’t show that I still love him because I fear losing him completely… I wish I did not love him so much and I could just move on with life…

  • Gibsonsg30 November 28, 2016, 4:16 am

    Her and I were friends for a decent amount of time but then she(ally) went off to college and she came home for thanksgiving break and I saw her after like 2 years we got coffee and I fell completely in love with her and I wasn’t not expecting it, it hit me like a ton of bricks immediately after she went home. I loved every second with her I could not take my eyes off of her (she is 20 and I am 23)…her laugh, her eyes, her personalilty. I fell completely in love with everything about her and I cannot have her because she is going back to college 3 hours away. She told me she would like to see me when she comes back home for winter break but I feel like that would only add more fuel to a very badly burning fire. It hurts me to say it but it’s true. I love her and cannot and will not have her. I’m debating on just cutting her out of my life completely. Sad story 🙁

  • Abby November 28, 2016, 6:42 am

    Hi my name is abby and I have been in love with this boy for 3 yrs but he has a gf who doesnt treat him right and who also lives an hour and 30 mins away well she told him that she would break up with him bc she lives too far away but she hasn’t broken up with him yet so y doesnt he just break up with her since shes not treating him right anyway hes in love with me and cheating on her with me but i cant tell her bc shes my best friend and i dont want him to be mad at me either so what should i do please help i really want him back but idk how

  • Melanie Pierluigi November 29, 2016, 6:14 pm

    well if you truly love yourself, you will have higher standards for yourself, and realize that you are deserving of someone loving you BACK! Not futilely loving someone that can’t return it.


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