Should I look Sexy? Should I look sober? Should I look simple?
Isn’t this the questions you always have in your mind while going before the date? Lets face it, our dress is first non-verbal communication which is very important to turn any date into a successful date.
And finally it’s the moment when he asked you out for a date and the thought of it would is giving million butterflies in your stomach. I totally understand the feeling. Been there. Done that. Congratulations, girl! I am sure you must be having a lot of questions in your mind because of all this. I am sure the question of “What should I wear on my date?” would be on the top of all questions. So here I am! Telling you the tips that would help you sail through it amazingly.
Dressing Tip for Women for First date:
First and foremost you need to know about where are you going and what will be mode of communication. If it’s a formal date to a restaurant, your choice is simple but if your guy is taking you out to a club or to a different place, you need to pick something which is comfortable as well as make you look stunningly beautiful. So, lets look at the dressing tips for your date:
1. Find the colour that suits you the most:
There are certain colours that flatter your skin tone and body shape. For example, no matter how much I like certain light shades but I know that they would never look great on me, so I avoid those colours. So I am sure that there might be certain colours that look great on you and some colours that don’t. So all you need to do is to find that colour and decide to wear that colour for your date. Afterall, it’s your first date. You just have to look great.
Ok, so you don’t know which colours suits you the most? You should know, not only in this date but it will help you forever. . When in doubt, wear black. Yes, black is the colour that suits every skin tone and body shape. It also helps people look slimmer. And if you can’t find any other colour, go for black. I have never met anyone in my entire life who doesn’t look great in black.
2. Expose but Don’t Overexpose :
If you would want to wear something revealing, you should totally abstain from revealing a lot. There is a fine line between sensuality and vulgarity. You can wear a dress and show some of your legs. But the dress should be long enough to cover the crotch area completely and properly. You could wear a low neckline and tease up by showing a little cleavage but make sure that you are not leaving half of your boobs uncovered .
So you know what I mean, right? I am sure you would know better and follow this tip. Almost religiously. You would expose, if you want but wouldn’t over expose. At least not on the first date, if he is worthy of all that, may be he will get some over exposure later on. You know what I mean, right? And it is certainly NOT necessary to expose even. Totally your wish. Ok, now this is getting too far. I should jump off to the next tip before it becomes too embarrassing.
3. Focus on your best features:
You might have really beautiful eyes, so you can make sure that you use correct make up to accentuate your eyes and for example, if you have a crooked nose, you can underplay that features. We girls are really lucky to be born in 21st century and we have the access to the world’s best cosmetics. Obviously, we can have a little make up splashed on our faces and look a little better. Just one tip here. Be careful of not going overboard with that. You should not look like a painted face. And also remember to focus on only one feature at a time. If you are doing the eyes, be subtle for the lips and vice versa.
4. Don’t go dramatic: Be subtle:
It’s your first date, don’t go dramatic with your clothes, make up or accessories. Though we girls are actually little drama queens yet you can definitely save them for some other day. You can at least let the drama spare your first date. So please if you thought of wearing those animal print skin tight trousers or even worse, drawing that leopard print on your eyes, please stop. STOP. Just chuck the idea. You can execute it on some other time, if need be!
5. Be comfortable in whatever you wear:
If you can’t walk properly in those sky scraper heels then there’s no point of wearing them. Be yourself. You don’t have to do things just to please the other person, do things to please yourself. Wear the things you are comfortable in. If you are not comfortable in that tiny high street dress with all the sequins poking in your body then there is no point wearing it, because when you are not comfortable, you won’t be able to enjoy your date and that pretty much spoils the idea of a date.
6. Wear anything you want just don’t forget to carry your confidence:
Darling, you are all set to set his heart on fire, I am sure you will look amazing. I am sure it’s all going to be very awesome. Just be yourself. Don’t pretend to be someone else, I am sure that you are worthy of A LOT. And you are so amazing that you just needn’t try to be someone else. So just be comfortable in who you are. Be confident of yourself. Nothing and nothing is sexier than a woman with confidence. Got that?
Relax. It’s just a date. Don’t stress yourself about anything. A date is meant to be fun. You should enjoy yourself because this is what the date is actually meant for. If something great has to happen out of that date, it will happen, you don’t have to push yourself hard for that. So let your best smile be prominent on your face. Look your best and enjoy. Wish you a fun time. Enjoy!
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