We get many people in our life who loves us like crazy. They keep on calling you, send messages and give you surprises that too without any reason. They will always care for you and try their best to make you happy but with time these people start getting away from you that is less phone calls, SMS or hardly care what’s going on in your life.
It’s not that their feelings changed for you but it’s more that start realizing that the relation won’t work anymore and many of us keep wondering that why that person move away from us without any reason? There might be many reason which leads to differences in any relationship with your friends, relatives or lover.
Here are few reasons why the person crazy for you starts ignoring you:
- You don’t care:
Sometimes we get so much of love that we don’t realize that we start taking that person for granted. Another major reason that you don’t care about other’s feeling because you even don’t know that how much that person means to you too, as he/she is always available for you when you need. But once that person starts ignoring you then you realize that how important is that person for you.
- Too busy:
Even if you care for the person but can’t express your feelings just because you are too busy then relation may not work for long. How other person will know that what’s going on in your mind? It is important to be expressive and spending time with each other in a relation to keep it alive and refreshing.
- Lack of sharing:
You can’t expect a person to be keep on approaching you to share good and bad things happening in his/her life until you will show interest that you really care with things going on in his/her life. Sharing is key point to make a relationship healthy, if that person is sharing something with you and you pretend as if you don’t care, he/she will never ever share anything with you.
- Saying what you don’t mean:
Never to be nice,caring and show affection when you don’t mean it or feel it.If you want to continue the relationship for long run stop saying things which you don’t mean either in personal or professional life. Try to be honest and say the things which you really mean, people are not fool around you and they come know gradually when you are lying to them.
Relationship is always two-ways. People don’t like to continue any relations when they start realizing that they are not worth for someone. Many times with body language or the way you respond while talking gives hint that you are trying to ignore that person. Thus, they prefer to move on rather than making relationship a burden for you.
Thus, if you think that person is important for you and you don’t want to lose the care and love they give then keep above points in mind rather that thinking that they have changed or dumped you.
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Hey … Ruchi, its nice post… all the points u mention are really true and with nice explanation. Good. Keep it up. 🙂
time really fades the relationships like everything else on this planet. i think which the major reason why people choose to move apart. Nice post.
It depends on how we carry on with our relations..
Nice points 🙂
Very nice article! Will help me to understand why people move away from the relationship even they love each other so much….
ol dis are really da true points…why people move away frm being in a rltn…
Can’t we hlp ol dese frm happng….so dat a rltn rmn 4ever…. 😀
Hello Ruchi..maintaining a relationship forever is not an easy task. Ppl wl move on in relationship not only before marriage, Even after if we are not satisfied after getting married to someone my opinion is to move on soon and start a new life.