You can’t express your love or feelings to someone with whom you don’t talk. Many people face problem in starting conversation with someone whom they like very much. All relations start with nice conversations and then might end up with next plan to get in touch or a date.
When you want to talk to any girl or boy, you need to start conversation as soon as possible. You can’t wait for him/her to start first. Thus gather all your positive energy, be yourself and follow few points:
1. A sweet smile: When you want to start a conversation it is always important to know that the person is interested to talk to you or not? A simple smile would surely work in this situation. Try to start with a smile, if the person is interested in talking to you, he/she will surely smile back. Make sure your smile is “genuine”.
2. Start conversation about common topics: You can always start conversation about the things which is common .For e.g., If you are in same office, you can talk about your office rules or office bad lunch.
3. Greeting: If you like to be straight forward, you can start with greeting followed with a smile. It might be a simple “Hello” or “How are you” or “Hope you are enjoying in party”. It could be anything but make it simple and avoid any witty or cheap expressions.
4. Keep the flow: Once you started the conversation, it is important to keep the flow. There should not be blocks otherwise the one you like might say you “bye” and move on. Thus, always have backup conversation topics like about your city, climate or work if you same office or same college.
5. Make it a conversation: If you are starting the conversation, it doesn’t mean that only you keep on saying. It is not a presentation, make it a conversation. Try to ask open ended questions and let him/her reply properly instead of just “yes/no”. Don’t stick to one topic for a long time and don’t ask questions which might hurt him/her.
While starting a conversation just remember to be yourself and genuine because your expressions shows your feelings.
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I am Ruchi Parikh ( a.k.a Whiztechy). I have done my masters in computers and started blogging in 2009 and later joined ShoutMeLoud blog network as a Sr. Editor for CallingAllGeeks. I love tech blogging and started LetsTalkRelations to share my views on different aspects of relations...
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Should I show my teeth while smiling ! ?
I think there will million reasons between a girl’s smile.. oof!
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Try it out, You will come to know why girl is smiling . Just need some experience
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Sometimes girls smiles just to show that they are interested but in reality they are just showing their beauty and boasting themselves thinking boys look at them because they are beautiful
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There are exceptions. All girls are not same.
I never understand how to handle girls.. I thinks that is the worst nightmare any one can have….
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That’s toughest job, don’t even try to understand .
If we don’t try to understand then how can we reach to her heart???
I must say that the start is the hardest, not the easiest for both girls and boys. I would also say that one must be themselves, don’t pretend or put on an act.
Girls have many different ways of showing they are interested or bored. You need to make sure you are not bored and keep them entertained so to speak.
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Agree with you Gorge.
I will not prefer greeting.
Because many of the girls do not like it.
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Ok . Then try out other tips . Hope it work well with you.
A genuine smile can make a real difference. And genuine smile requires a pure heart as a backend, right?
I mean, how can you smile with a bitter heart?!! If it happens, that would be a sight to watch..
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Agree with you, Smile can surely tell what’s in your heart.
Hey Ruchi
Are you talking regarding Face to Face Communication or through online chat ???
Sorry but i am little bit confused
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It’s about Face to face. If you want to know about Online I will tell you about that also
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Ya sure
, or else i can also write about it if you don’t mind 
I would like to hear from you only
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