How to Find a Date on Facebook : Guide for Dummies

by Suman Doogar on

 Date on FacebookFacebook dating is not a new thing and the way people are getting active on Facebook, it has turned out to be one of the best free place to find your next date. Though, picking a date on Facebook is not as easy as it sounds and many people suck at it. Me, being a girl, I get many friend request from people with some cheesy line to impress me, compliment me and to become friends. Believe me, every girl like compliments, but a desperate comments will make you look like a pervert. Similarly, if you are a girl and never ever poked a guy on facebook whom you liked, it’s time to take your likeness to next level and poke the guy or better ask him for a  date. Oh Wait! Am I making it sound like fun and easy? It is but there are some commandment which you need to follow to pick the best date on Facebook and go out for a romantic dinner with your hot Facebook friend. Alright, lets keep the things aside and learn how we can find a hot date on Facebook. Though, these are some basic guidelines but by the end it’s your pick up line and your presentation that matters the most. Did it ever happen to you that while browsing through the profiles on Facebook, you drool on a pretty/handsome girls /boys’ display picture and the whole time you were drooling, how many times to thought of initiating a talk but restrained yourself, then guys/girls you are missing out on tips to find a date on Facebook.

How to Pick Perfect date on Facebook:

The second best thing to sleeping and eating these days is Facebook’ing. Even eating has taken a backseat when it comes to living your virtual social life. These days with no active social life, we are prone to keep ourselves occupied all the time. This evokes our sixth sense to find someone whom we long for. So to start, you simply visit your friend’s profile. Suddenly you were stuck on a pretty/handsome face smiling at you from a display picture. Did you heart just skipped a beat? Now that you know his/her name, her basic information, let us move on to the next step. Singles on Facebook generally get loads on friend requests each day which they prefer to ignore for good. There is good chance of you getting into the blackhole of thousands of such requests. Do remember, Facebook relationship is for speed dating and in most of the cases, don’t expect it to last for ever. (Though, there could be an exceptional Facebook love story). So here is Single Facebook user dating guide:

Beginners guide to find Hot date on Facebook:

Word of caution

Do not send a friend request straightaway, as there are chances of you getting blocked and being marked as a spam. My dear friends trust me it is not an easy task to find a dateon Facebook. You have to slog and use all your charm to woo that special one. Do not go with your impulse and post a message on her/his wall directly that will only make things go away from you. Any guy or girl like to go to a confident and nice date and a desperate message will kill all the suspense and romance which are yet to come.

Poke your way away

Facebook Poke Shirt Flicking through his/her  Facebook profile and still wondering how to start the conversation. You must know, there are two scenarios when it comes to strangers. Both of you may and may not have a mutual friend. Now if you have mutual friend/friends, you have the freedom to use the Facebook POKEfeature. They will be notified of you poking them, the next time they log in. Now here comes the most crucial part. When you poke, and in return is poked back, it is not hard to guess, that he/she must have gone through your profile and must have found you interesting/total nincompoop. What he/she thinks, only time can tell? You anyway have to take your chances.

Get in touch with that special Facebook heartthrob

When this Poke and getting Poked activity has been done 2-3 times, you can drop him/her a message striking a good conversation and you have to be witty in your first impression. Coming across as desperate and dull is a big turn off for most hotties on Facebook. You can go with the lines as “Hey poke buddy, how are you?”

Keep your Humor handy

If he/she is not in your network, you have to take your chances by simply dropping her message, and try not to come across as a desperate stalkerby saying, “Can I be your friend” or “Do you want to friendship with me”. These lines are passé. You have to be humorous, decent and interesting enough for him/her to reply.

The book of Facebook

Facebook is nothing more than an interesting book, where you are the character. It all depends on you how you decide to project yourself on Facebook, you can choose to be Miss popular or Mr. stalker in no time. For the story to unfold, you are responsible to make connections with other characters. So now, did you receive any reply? If no, try again on some other one. If yes, there you go. Now you hold the remote control of the conversation ‘ship’. It is advisable not to message repeatedly instead be smart and move on to the next attractive profile.

Common interests chatter

Talking about common interests is advisable. It makes you more open towards each other as this is the best way to know the person sitting on the other side of the screen. Next thing you people can talk about is hobbies and passions.  Nothing opens people more than talking about what they love to do.

Facebook etiquettes

Be a good listener, otherwise you will end up with a jerk tag. Key to build a good bond is just having a good conversation. This conversation will make your story in Facebook and out in real life. Striking a date on Facebook is a child’s play when you know to play by the rules. Now that you have the attention and full interest of the person, next step is to talk about personal lives in a euphemistic way. Once you reach this level, carry the chalk talk through text message or BBM. I am sure she/he will be glad to take to the next-stage if they already like you. Follow the above-mentioned tricks to get hitched and sail through the whole process smoothly without the slightest glitch.

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I am Suman Doogar, I am a relationship blogger and a budding travel writer. I started writing 4 years back and with my experience in the field of psychology, I have been successfully contributing as an expert on love issues and relationships

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